Blindsided By His Betrayal Surviving The Shock Of Your Husband S Infidelity

Author : Dr. Caroline Madden, Marriage Therapist
Publisher : Train of Thought Press
Page : 92 pages
File Size : 54,5 Mb
Release : 2016-05-15
Category : Family & Relationships
ISBN : 9780986148521

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Blindsided By His Betrayal: Surviving the Shock of Your Husband's Infidelity by Dr. Caroline Madden, Marriage Therapist Pdf

Your husband cheated on you, and now you don't recognize yourself. You feel crazy.You are NOT crazy! You are having a normal reaction to being blindsided by your husband's betrayal! Your reactions are completely rational and expected responses to such a painful experience. You're hurting, this book can help. Dr. Caroline Madden, infidelity expert and licensed marriage therapist describes: *12 Actions that will help you get back to the woman you were *Posttraumatic Affair Syndrome (PTAS) *7 Actions you want to take but should NOT (as They May Backfire Horribly) *Understand the thoughts that plague you *The stupid things your husband says and why he says it This book is geared towards helping you deal with your tumultuous emotions so that you make better, more rational decisions.

Author : Dr. Caroline Madden MFT
Publisher : Train of Thought Press
Page : 128 pages
File Size : 52,8 Mb
Release : 2015-02-17
Category : Self-Help
ISBN : 9780990772866

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After a Good Man Cheats: by Dr. Caroline Madden MFT Pdf

This book is a practical action plan that will walk you through the first stages after your wife has discovered your infidelity.You'll learn the things your wife is going to feel, say, and do, giving you the following:* Insight into what she is thinking and why this is so hard for her to get over* Practical advice so you know exactly what to do at this important stage* Actual scripts so you know what to say in response to very specific situations* Clear explanations as to why certain words and actions you think will be helpful might be making this worse* Two self-administered quizzes to help you determine why you cheated so that you can get a better understanding of what triggered your affair. Included at the appropriate points are scripts of what to say and why you need to say those words at that time. Do not just memorize these words and parrot them back to your wife. You have already lost her trust; if you start using words you don't normally use, you'll sound like you're faking it. You will want to translate the scripts into your own natural wording, using the meaning of each script as a launching pad for productive, healing dialogue with your wife.Also, other these other questions are answered:* She doesn't know. I feel guilty. Should I tell her the truth?* We aren't married yet? How does that impact recovering from the affair?* I didn't have a physical relationship with my Affair Partner, why is my wife so upset?* What is an Emotional Affair?

Author : Dr. Caroline Madden, Marriage Therapist
Publisher : Train of Thought Press
Page : 52 pages
File Size : 52,9 Mb
Release : 2014-12-05
Category : Self-Help
ISBN : 9780990772842

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Fool Me Once: Should I Take Back My Cheating Husband? by Dr. Caroline Madden, Marriage Therapist Pdf

You always said if your man cheated, you'd leave him so fast his head would spin. But now that it's happened it's not so black and white, is it?Caroline Madden, MFT is an affair recovery specialist. She has over a decade of experience in helping couples challenged by infidelity in marriage and teaching women how to survive their husband's affair. In Fool Me Once, she shares the criteria she uses to determine if a man is truly remorseful and determined to save his marriage or if he will continue to cheat and hurt you.Here is some of the information she shares:* 5 Things That Look Suspiciously Like Your Spouse is Still Cheating (But He Probably Isn't)* 5 Signs You Should Consider Giving Him A Chance to Rebuild Trust & Intimacy After infidelity * 7 Signs He is Going to Cheat Again (And You Will Be Hurt Again)Infidelity is traumatic, and you need to take time to assess the situation. Fool Me Once will give you the tools you need to evaluate your relationship. It will help you determine whether you should trust your husband or not and decide if your marriage is worth saving.Don't Make a Decision Now That You'll Regret Later ! As they say "Fool me once, shame on you. Fool me twice, shame on me."Infidelity, Divorce Advice, Affairs In Marriage, affair recovery

Author : Shari Stenberg,Charlotte Hogg
Publisher : University of Pittsburgh Press
Page : 455 pages
File Size : 55,8 Mb
Release : 2020-03-03
Category : Language Arts & Disciplines
ISBN : 9780822987512

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Persuasive Acts by Shari Stenberg,Charlotte Hogg Pdf

In June 2015, Bree Newsome scaled the flagpole in front of South Carolina’s state capitol and removed the Confederate flag. The following month, the Confederate flag was permanently removed from the state capitol. Newsome is a compelling example of a twenty-first-century woman rhetor, along with bloggers, writers, politicians, activists, artists, and everyday social media users, who give new meaning to Aristotle’s ubiquitous definition of rhetoric as the discovery of the “available means of persuasion.” Women’s persuasive acts from the first two decades of the twenty-first century include new technologies and repurposed old ones, engaged not only to persuade, but also to tell their stories, to sponsor change, and to challenge cultural forces that repress and oppress. Persuasive Acts: Women’s Rhetorics in the Twenty-First Century gathers an expansive array of voices and texts from well-known figures including Hillary Rodham Clinton, Malala Yousafzai, Michelle Obama, Lindy West, Sonia Sotomayor, and Chimamanda Ngozi Adichie, so that readers may converse with them, and build rhetorics of their own. Editors Shari J. Stenberg and Charlotte Hogg have complied timely and provocative rhetorics that represent critical issues and rhetorical affordances of the twenty-first century.

Author : Tracy Schorn
Publisher : Running Press Adult
Page : 240 pages
File Size : 47,5 Mb
Release : 2016-05-10
Category : Family & Relationships
ISBN : 9780762459056

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Leave a Cheater, Gain a Life by Tracy Schorn Pdf

Leave a Cheater, Gain a Life is a no-nonsense self-help guide for anyone who has ever been cheated on. Here's advice not based on saving your relationship after infidelity—but saving your sanity. When it comes to cheating, a lot of the attention is focused on cheaters—their unmet needs or their challenges with monogamy. But Tracy Schorn (aka Chump Lady) lampoons such blameshifting and puts the focus squarely on the-cheated-upon (chumps) and their needs. Combining solid advice that champions self-respect, along with hilarious cartoons satirizing the pomposity of cheaters, Leave a Cheater, Gain a Life offers a fresh voice for chumps who want (and need) a new message about infidelity. This book will offer advice on Stupid sh*t cheaters say and how to respond, Rookie mistakes of the recently chumped and how to disarm your fears, Why chumps take the blame and how to protect yourself, and more. Full of snark, sass, and real wisdom about how to bounce back after the gut blow of betrayal, Schorn is the friend who guides you through this nightmare and gives you hope for a better life ahead.

Author : Scott Haltzman
Publisher : JHU Press
Page : 312 pages
File Size : 55,8 Mb
Release : 2013-06
Category : Family & Relationships
ISBN : 9781421409429

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The Secrets of Surviving Infidelity by Scott Haltzman Pdf

Advocates against ending a relationship due to cheating, teaching both victims and perpetrators of infidelity how to deal with their feelings, reduce their sense of despair, and begin rebuilding a strong relationship.

Author : Shirley Glass
Publisher : Simon and Schuster
Page : 450 pages
File Size : 47,8 Mb
Release : 2007-11-01
Category : Family & Relationships
ISBN : 9781416586401

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NOT "Just Friends" by Shirley Glass Pdf

One of the world’s leading experts on infidelity provides a step-by-step guide through the process of infidelity—from suspicion and revelation to healing, and provides profound, practical guidance to prevent infidelity and, if it happens, recover and heal from it. You’re right to be cautious when you hear these words: “I’m telling you, we’re just friends.” Good people in good marriages are having affairs. The workplace and the Internet have become fertile breeding grounds for “friendships” that can slowly and insidiously turn into love affairs. Yet you can protect your relationship from emotional or sexual betrayal by recognizing the red flags that mark the stages of slipping into an improper, dangerous intimacy that can threaten your marriage.

Author : Jackie Pilossoph
Publisher : Unknown
Page : 0 pages
File Size : 49,5 Mb
Release : 2013-11-23
Category : Contests
ISBN : 1490463763

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Divorced Girl Smiling by Jackie Pilossoph Pdf

Smile! It's not just the end of your marriage, it's the beginning of your second chance! Missy Benson has a two and a half carat diamond engagement ring with color grade H, VS2 clarity and a value of $36,000. It's absolutely gorgeous, practically flawless, and let's be honest, really big! But what the successful Chicago realtor doesn't have anymore is a husband. After 12 years of marriage, her husband, Paul, a handsome, wealthy attorney has devastated her by breaking up their marriage for Priscilla Sommerfeld, a young, personal trainer, who according to Missy's sassy assistant, J.J., looks more like a Las Vegas stripper than a fitness expert. Not sure what to do with her ring, and with no financial issues to worry about, Missy decides to put it up for sale on Craigslist. The price: 99 cents! The catch: She gets to pick the buyer. In essence, she's looking for the perfect guy, but not for herself. Her hope is to regain faith that good men do exist, and that marriages can last forever. Now referring to herself as "the divorced girl," Missy interviews dozens of young men who are vying for the huge ring. It's a contest that includes outrageous characters, hilarious and sentimental stories, and two finalists, both of whom Missy adores and who she must choose between. Then there's Parker Missoni, the sexiest contestant by far, who drives her crazy with his brutal honesty, and at the same time stops her heart with his deep brown eyes. Divorced Girl Smiling is the story of a woman's journey to do whatever it takes to heal herself from divorce. It's about acceptance, reflection, taking accountability for mistakes, and appreciating all of life's wonderful gifts. In other words, if you have the guts to put the past behind, admit your mistakes, embrace your future, and give love another chance, you will surely be a divorced girl smiling.

Author : Wayne Mitchell,Tamara Mitchell
Publisher : Third Ghost Press
Page : 265 pages
File Size : 52,9 Mb
Release : 2019-09-08
Category : Family & Relationships
ISBN : 9781948158015

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Cheating in a Nutshell by Wayne Mitchell,Tamara Mitchell Pdf

Cheated on…Battered by emotion…You don't know where to turn. You feel betrayed, devastated, embarrassed, angry, and completely heartbroken. You ask yourself, "How can I stop infidelity from ruining my life?" "How do I cope with this nightmare? You don't realize there is a roadmap that explains what you are going through. That roadmap is Cheating in a Nutshell. Knowledge is Power and Understanding is Liberating. Whatever shade of infidelity you're dealing with, it is powerfully painful – and the feelings that come with it are hardly ever simple. Understanding your pain will change your way of thinking almost immediately. This book is for you if: --You just learned your partner cheated on you --You have been staying with a cheating partner --You were betrayed in a past relationship and seek a deeper understanding of your feelings In Cheating in a Nutshell, Wayne and Tamara Mitchell explain the source of your pain. There is a way out of this darkness, and the first step is to understand the structure of this awful experience. "The focus is on the betrayed, not the cheater, and if you've been cheated on, I agree with other reviewers: This is the best book, the only one you need." – Reader Review It's never too late to understand why you feel as you do. Read Cheating in a Nutshell.

Author : Keith a Battle
Publisher : Bookbaby
Page : 0 pages
File Size : 51,5 Mb
Release : 2019-03
Category : Family & Relationships
ISBN : 1543961452

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Side Chickology: Why Men and Women Cheat by Keith a Battle Pdf

One of the most common occurrences in our society today is acts of relationship unfaithfulness. Both men and women cheat, regardless of sexual gender preferences. Ironically, something as painful as betrayal can be the very catalyst of catapulting a relationship from average to amazing. Keith Battle has personally experienced this in his own marriage and has helped many others experience this antithetical blessing in disguise. Side Chickology: Why Men & Women Cheat. Understanding, Avoiding, and Recovering from Infidelity is filled with healing and humor simultaneously. In this book you'll discover: How children completely change the dynamic of a relationship. The secrets of the man cave. The conversations that lead to cheating. The enormous costs of infidelity. The road to recovery and rebuilding trust in the marriage. How to fall in love again.

Author : Rick Bulman,Tiffany Bulman
Publisher : Unknown
Page : 128 pages
File Size : 47,9 Mb
Release : 2018-12-31
Category : Electronic
ISBN : 1943291713

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Mended by Rick Bulman,Tiffany Bulman Pdf

What would you do if your marriage was on the edge of collapse because of betrayal? What happens when your children discover a parent has been unfaithful? How do you handle moral failure within the pastorate? Mended is a powerful portrayal of God's grace and healing--a painful test-turned-testimony of relationship: broken beyond repair, but rebuilt by His mighty, merciful hand. Despite the emotional turmoil, Rick and Tiffany learned how to strengthen their marriage through the use of practical tools shared in this book. THERE IS HOPE. When God works a miracle, anything can be Mended.

Author : Anne Bercht,Brian Bercht
Publisher : FriesenPress
Page : 380 pages
File Size : 49,7 Mb
Release : 2021-01-05
Category : Religion
ISBN : 9781525575303

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My Husband's Affair BECAME the Best Thing That Ever Happened to Me by Anne Bercht,Brian Bercht Pdf

"When Brian told me of his affair, my whole world was shattered. Since the affair, and since the difficult recovery period, I have excelled in amazing ways in every area of my life. I look and feel better than I did when I was in my twenties. I have more energy, more zeal and more enthusiasm for life. Since I have gotten over my insecurities, I experience far better relationships with my husband, children and others. I also have more fun. No matter what tragedies happen in our lives, we always have a choice, not a choice over what will happen to us, but a choice over how we will react to it. Will we become bitter or better? I chose to become better, and now my greatest tragedy has also become my greatest personal victory." – Anne Bercht "Would I want to go back to our marriage before the affair? Not a chance! Would I have liked to have gotten to this point some other way? Absolutely! Would I recommend an affair to others so they can reach a greater love and better marriage? Absolutely not! If you have experienced an affair, is rebuilding your marriage worth it? You bet it is! As long as you love each other and are willing to do the work." – Brian Bercht

Author : Dennis C. Ortman
Publisher : Celestial Arts
Page : 258 pages
File Size : 44,8 Mb
Release : 2011-09-21
Category : Psychology
ISBN : 9780307807809

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Transcending Post-Infidelity Stress Disorder by Dennis C. Ortman Pdf

Have you been traumatized by infidelity? The phrase "broken heart" belies the real trauma behind the all-too-common occurrence of infidelity. Psychologist Dennis Ortman likens the psychological aftermath of sexual betrayal to post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD) in its origin and symptoms, including anxiety, irritability, rage, emotional numbing, and flashbacks. Using PTSD treatment as a model, Dr. Ortman will show you, step by step, how to: • work through conflicting emotions • Understand yourself and your partner • Make important life decisions Dr. Ortman sees recovery as a spiritual journey and draws on the wisdom of diverse faiths, from Christianity to Buddhism. He also offers exercises to deepen recovery, such as guided meditations and journaling, and explores heart-wrenchingly familiar case studies of couples struggling with monogamy. By the end of this book, you will have completed the six stages of healing and emerged with a whole heart, a full spirit, and the freedom to love again.

Author : April Cassidy
Publisher : Kregel Publications
Page : 263 pages
File Size : 50,8 Mb
Release : 2016-01-27
Category : Religion
ISBN : 9780825443947

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The Peaceful Wife by April Cassidy Pdf

“This book walks each of us through the reality checks we need in order to have the marriage we want!” —Shaunti Feldhahn, social researcher and best-selling author of For Women Only In today’s workplace, women are often rewarded for having type A personalities: driven, demanding, ambitious, and strong. Yet when it comes to their marriages, those same traits can backfire. After all, no one goes into marriage hoping for a promotion. What is a wife to do? April Cassidy knows this struggle firsthand. She thought she was a great Christian wife and begged God to make her passive husband into a more loving, involved, godly leader. Instead, God opened her eyes to changes that she needed to make, such as laying down her desire for control and offering genuine, unconditional respect—not just love—to her husband. Cassidy’s conclusions may be as startling to readers as they were to her, but The Peaceful Wife shares how she and many others have learned to reorient their lives to biblical commands—resulting in healthier, happier marriages. In the end, you’ll find The Peaceful Wife a powerful path to God’s design for women to live in full submission to Christ as Lord.

Author : Andrew G. Marshall
Publisher : Unknown
Page : 216 pages
File Size : 46,9 Mb
Release : 2015-10-22
Category : Electronic
ISBN : 0992971888

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I Can't Get Over My Partner's Affair by Andrew G. Marshall Pdf