More Joy Than Pain

Author : Paul Bloom
Publisher : HarperCollins
Page : 304 pages
File Size : 48,9 Mb
Release : 2021-11-02
Category : Psychology
ISBN : 9780062910585

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The Sweet Spot by Paul Bloom Pdf

“This book will challenge you to rethink your vision of a good life. With sharp insights and lucid prose, Paul Bloom makes a captivating case that pain and suffering are essential to happiness. It’s an exhilarating antidote to toxic positivity.” —Adam Grant, #1 New York Times bestselling author of Think Again and host of the TED podcast WorkLife One of Behavioral Scientist's "Notable Books of 2021" From the author of Against Empathy, a different kind of happiness book, one that shows us how suffering is an essential source of both pleasure and meaning in our lives Why do we so often seek out physical pain and emotional turmoil? We go to movies that make us cry, or scream, or gag. We poke at sores, eat spicy foods, immerse ourselves in hot baths, run marathons. Some of us even seek out pain and humiliation in sexual role-play. Where do these seemingly perverse appetites come from? Drawing on groundbreaking findings from psychology and brain science, The Sweet Spot shows how the right kind of suffering sets the stage for enhanced pleasure. Pain can distract us from our anxieties and help us transcend the self. Choosing to suffer can serve social goals; it can display how tough we are or, conversely, can function as a cry for help. Feelings of fear and sadness are part of the pleasure of immersing ourselves in play and fantasy and can provide certain moral satisfactions. And effort, struggle, and difficulty can, in the right contexts, lead to the joys of mastery and flow. But suffering plays a deeper role as well. We are not natural hedonists—a good life involves more than pleasure. People seek lives of meaning and significance; we aspire to rich relationships and satisfying pursuits, and this requires some amount of struggle, anxiety, and loss. Brilliantly argued, witty, and humane, Paul Bloom shows how a life without chosen suffering would be empty—and worse than that, boring.

Author : Lars Rooth
Publisher : Gracewing Publishing
Page : 194 pages
File Size : 47,6 Mb
Release : 1991
Category : Religion
ISBN : 0852441908

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More Joy Than Pain by Lars Rooth Pdf

Author : Judy Voss
Publisher : Xulon Press
Page : 198 pages
File Size : 43,8 Mb
Release : 2006-05
Category : Bereavement
ISBN : 9781600341151

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More Joy Than Sorrow by Judy Voss Pdf

Author : Richard H. Smith
Publisher : Oxford University Press
Page : 256 pages
File Size : 49,5 Mb
Release : 2013-07-02
Category : Psychology
ISBN : 9780199753093

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The Joy of Pain by Richard H. Smith Pdf

Few people will easily admit to taking pleasure in the misfortunes of others. But who doesn't enjoy it when an arrogant but untalented contestant is humiliated on American Idol, or when the embarrassing vice of a self-righteous politician is exposed, or even when an envied friend suffers a small setback? The truth is that joy in someone else's pain-known by the German word schadenfreude--permeates our society. In The Joy of Pain, psychologist Richard Smith, one of the world's foremost authorities on envy and shame, sheds much light on a feeling we dare not admit. Smith argues that schadenfreude is a natural human emotion, one worth taking a closer look at, as it reveals much about who we are as human beings. We have a passion for justice. Sometimes, schadenfreude can feel like getting one's revenge, when the suffering person has previously harmed us. But most of us are also motivated to feel good about ourselves, Smith notes, and look for ways to maintain a positive sense of self. One common way to do this is to compare ourselves to others and find areas where we are better. Similarly, the downfall of others--especially when they have seemed superior to us--can lead to a boost in our self-esteem, a lessening of feelings of inferiority. This is often at the root of schadenfreude. As the author points out, most instances of schadenfreude are harmless, on par with the pleasures of light gossip. Yet we must also be mindful that envy can motivate, without full awareness, the engineering of the misfortune we delight in. And envy-induced aggression can take us into dark territory indeed, as Smith shows as he examines the role of envy and schadenfreude in the Nazi persecution of the Jews. Filled with engaging examples of schadenfreude, from popular reality shows to the Duke-Kentucky basketball rivalry, The Joy of Pain provides an intriguing glimpse into a hidden corner of the human psyche.

Author : Kahlil Gibran
Publisher : Diamond Pocket Books Pvt Ltd
Page : 128 pages
File Size : 53,7 Mb
Release : 2020-08-20
Category : Fiction
ISBN : 9789390287826

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The Prophet by Kahlil Gibran Pdf

A book of poetic essays written in English, Kahlil Gibran's The Prophet is full of religious inspirations. With the twelve illustrations drawn by the author himself, the book took more than eleven years to be formulated and perfected and is Gibran's best-known work. It represents the height of his literary career as he came to be noted as ‘the Bard of Washington Street.’ Captivating and vivified with feeling, The Prophet has been translated into forty languages throughout the world, and is considered the most widely read book of the twentieth century. Its first edition of 1300 copies sold out within a month.

Author : Brené Brown
Publisher : Random House
Page : 208 pages
File Size : 44,7 Mb
Release : 2017-09-12
Category : Psychology
ISBN : 9781473555495

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Braving the Wilderness by Brené Brown Pdf

A timely and important new book that challenges everything we think we know about cultivating true belonging in our communities, organizations, and culture, from the #1 bestselling author of Rising Strong, Daring Greatly, and The Gifts of Imperfection. ‘True belonging doesn't require us to change who we are. It requires us to be who we are.’ Social scientist Brené Brown, PhD, LMSW has sparked a global conversation about the experiences that bring meaning to our lives – experiences of courage, vulnerability, love, belonging, shame and empathy. In Braving the Wilderness, Brown redefines what it means to truly belong in an age of increased polarisation. With her trademark mix of research, storytelling and honesty, Brown will again change the cultural conversation while mapping out a clear path to true belonging. Brown argues that what we're experiencing today is a spiritual crisis of disconnection, and introduces four practices of true belonging that challenge everything we believe about ourselves and each other. She writes, ‘True belonging requires us to believe in and belong to ourselves so fully that we can find sacredness both in both being a part of something, and in standing alone when necessary. But in a culture that's rife with perfectionism and pleasing, and with the erosion of civility, it's easy to stay quiet, hide in our ideological bunkers, or fit in rather than show up as our true selves and brave the wilderness of uncertainty and criticism. But true belonging is not something we negotiate or accomplish with others; it's a daily practice that demands integrity and authenticity. It's a personal commitment that we carry in our hearts.’ Brown offers us the clarity and courage we need to find our way back to ourselves and to each other. And that path cuts right through the wilderness. Brown writes, ‘The wilderness is an untamed, unpredictable place of solitude and searching. It is a place as dangerous as it is breathtaking, a place as sought after as it is feared. But it turns out to be the place of true belonging, and it's the bravest and most sacred place you will ever stand.’

Author : John Piper
Publisher : Unknown
Page : 52 pages
File Size : 45,5 Mb
Release : 2005
Category : Religion
ISBN : 0977328600

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For Your Joy by John Piper Pdf

Evangelistic booklet that presents the Gospel of Christ by showing that God is most glorified in us when we are most satisfied in him.

Author : Matt Chandler
Publisher : Good Book Company
Page : 128 pages
File Size : 47,8 Mb
Release : 2019-09
Category : Religion
ISBN : 1784984221

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Joy in the Sorrow: How a Thriving Church (and Its Pastor) Learned to Suffer Well by Matt Chandler Pdf

This is the moving story of Matt Chandler's battle with a potentially fatal brain tumor. But it's also the stories of those in his church family who taught him, and teach him, how to walk with joy in sorrow. Readers will find encouragement and strength to get through tough times, or to support others to do so.

Author : Stephanie Gray
Publisher : Unknown
Page : 128 pages
File Size : 41,9 Mb
Release : 2016-01
Category : Abortion
ISBN : 0919225489

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Love Unleashes Life by Stephanie Gray Pdf

Author : Timothy Keller
Publisher : Penguin Books
Page : 386 pages
File Size : 46,6 Mb
Release : 2015-08-04
Category : Religion
ISBN : 9781594634406

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Walking with God Through Pain and Suffering by Timothy Keller Pdf

"The question of why God would allow pain and suffering in the world has vexed believers and nonbelievers forever. In Walking with God through Pain and Suffering, Timothy Keller takes on this enduring issue and shows that there is meaning and reason behind pain and suffering, making a forceful and groundbreaking case that this essential part of the human experience can be overcome only by understanding our relationship with God. Using biblical wisdom and personal stories of overcoming adversity, Keller brings a much-needed, fresh viewpoint to this important issue."--Back cover

Author : Al Dorais
Publisher : FriesenPress
Page : 123 pages
File Size : 43,8 Mb
Release : 2020-04-21
Category : Self-Help
ISBN : 9781999113629

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Creating Happiness by Al Dorais Pdf

Knowingly or unknowingly, we all want to be happy. In all aspects of our lives, the pursuit of happiness is one of our deepest human desires, whether in love, family, business or community. Have you ever wondered how to pinpoint the source of happiness and how to create it for yourself? What if there were a clear road map to happiness, would you follow it? Creating Happiness outlines a step-by-step approach to create happiness for yourself and those around you by giving you the tools to navigate the maze of life. It presents an entirely fresh look at how you can influence your own destiny and improve your life. Most of us seek happiness without really understanding how it is generated, and therefore it randomly shows up inconsistently throughout our lives. Those who understand that they are responsible for their own destiny may get a glimpse of happiness now and then, but very few really understand the mechanics behind the process. Whether you're a CEO or at the start of your career, Creating Happiness covers how to create happiness at work, at home and with your loved ones. A concise and practical guide, Creating Happiness shows us how to easily re-shape the subconscious mind toward a positive attitude. It's a no-nonsense, easily-implemented approach to achieving the ultimate goal ... a happy life.

Author : Prince Mudyariwa
Publisher : Annaclassic Media Productio
Page : 155 pages
File Size : 54,5 Mb
Release : 2011-07-25
Category : Poetry
ISBN : 9780983867401

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The Seven Feathers of Love by Prince Mudyariwa Pdf

Author : Brock Bastian
Publisher : Penguin UK
Page : 208 pages
File Size : 49,6 Mb
Release : 2018-01-25
Category : Psychology
ISBN : 9780241239858

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The Other Side of Happiness by Brock Bastian Pdf

'Required reading ... Brock Bastian expertly picks apart the fundamental idea that humans thrive when they approach pleasure and avoid pain, explaining why hardship sometimes yields richer lives that are laden with meaning, deep social connections, and unexpected bliss' Adam Alter, author of Drunk Tank Pink In today's culture, happiness has become the new marker of success, while hardships are viewed as personal weaknesses, or problems to be fixed. We increasingly try to eradicate pain through medication and by insulating ourselves from risk and offence, despite being the safest generation to have ever lived. Yet in his research, renowned social psychologist Brock Bastian has found that suffering and sadness are neither antithetical to happiness nor incidental to it: they are a necessary ingredient for emotional well-being. Drawing on psychology, neuroscience and internationally acclaimed findings from Bastian's own lab, The Other Side of Happiness encourages us to take a more fearless approach to living. The most thrilling moments of our lives are often balanced on a knife edge between pleasure and pain, whether it is finding your true love, holding your new-born for the first time, finishing a marathon or even plunging into an icy sea. This is because pain and the threat of loss quite literally increase our capacity for happiness, as Bastian reveals, making us stronger, more resilient, more connected to other people and more attuned to what truly matters. Pain even makes us more mindful, since in our darkest moments we are especially focused and aware of the world around us. Our addiction to positivity and the pursuit of pleasure is actually making us miserable. Brock Bastian shows that, without some pain, we have no real way to achieve and appreciate the kind of happiness that is true and transcendent.

Author : Adam Silvera
Publisher : Soho Press
Page : 306 pages
File Size : 48,8 Mb
Release : 2015-06-02
Category : Young Adult Fiction
ISBN : 9781616955618

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More Happy Than Not (Deluxe Edition) by Adam Silvera Pdf

In his twisty, gritty, profoundly moving New York Times bestselling-debut—also called “mandatory reading” and selected as an Editors' Choice by the New York Times—Adam Silvera brings to life a charged, dangerous near-future summer in the Bronx. In the months after his father's suicide, it's been tough for sixteen-year-old Aaron Soto to find happiness again—but he's still gunning for it. With the support of his girlfriend Genevieve and his overworked mom, he's slowly remembering what that might feel like. But grief and the smile-shaped scar on his wrist prevent him from forgetting completely. When Genevieve leaves for a couple of weeks, Aaron spends all his time hanging out with this new guy, Thomas. Aaron's crew notices, and they're not exactly thrilled. But Aaron can't deny the happiness Thomas brings or how Thomas makes him feel safe from himself, despite the tensions their friendship is stirring with his girlfriend and friends. Since Aaron can't stay away from Thomas or turn off his newfound feelings for him, he considers turning to the Leteo Institute's revolutionary memory-alteration procedure to straighten himself out, even if it means forgetting who he truly is. Why does happiness have to be so hard? “Silvera managed to leave me smiling after totally breaking my heart. Unforgettable.” —Becky Albertalli, author of Simon vs. The Homo Sapiens Agenda "Adam Silvera explores the inner workings of a painful world and he delivers this with heartfelt honesty and a courageous, confident hand . . . A mesmerizing, unforgettable tour de force." —John Corey Whaley, National Book Award finalist and author of Where Things Come Back and Noggin

Author : Henry W. Ewalt,Andrew W. Ewalt
Publisher : American Bar Association
Page : 396 pages
File Size : 49,7 Mb
Release : 2008
Category : Law
ISBN : 1604420278

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Through the Client's Eyes by Henry W. Ewalt,Andrew W. Ewalt Pdf

This book will help lawyers build better, stronger, and smarter relationships with their clients. From educating the client about the law to eliciting quantifiable feedback by using surveys, this updated edition covers legal marketing in an easy-to-read, well-organized and practical manner.