Pastor S That Prey

Author : Valli Boobal Batchelor
Publisher : World Council of Churches
Page : 0 pages
File Size : 53,6 Mb
Release : 2013
Category : Clergy
ISBN : 2825415669

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When Pastors Prey by Valli Boobal Batchelor Pdf

While clergy abuse of children has received worldwide attention from media and legal authorities, little has been written about the widespread and devastating phenomenon of clergy abuse of adult women. Gathering experts from around the globe, this prophetic project breaks the silence and gathers the resources to address a problem that undermines the very foundations of pastoral work and institutional Christianity. The book not only brings forward the stories of many women whose trust has been abused by their pastors, but it also offers a helpful framework to understand and address the problem in the following four sections: a) Identifying the Problem, b) the Experience of Abuse, c) Churches Addressing Clergy Misconduct, and d) Stopping Abuse for Good. Ultimately, clergy sexual abuse of women is a horrific expression of longstanding Christian misunderstanding and mistreatment of women. This book illuminates not only the phenomenon, but its roots and - in brave hope - the cures. *** "Christian community and witness hinge hugely on the personal integrity of professionals in ministry. Yet that bond is severed by sexual exploitation and abuse, a phenomenon sadly present in Christian churches around the world. When Pastors Prey, focused particularly on abuse of women, will be a vital resource for understanding and addressing a problem that undermines the Gospel itself." - Rev. Dr. Olav Fykse Tveit, General Secretary, World Council of Churches *** "The International Association of Women Judges is delighted to see this book - drawing attention to a serious problem which has been neglected for far too long - and welcomes the contribution it makes to the IAWJ's aim of increasing knowledge and understanding of what we call 'sextortion' - demanding sexual favours as the price of favourable treatment by those in authority generally." - Lady Brenda Hale, President, International Association of Women Judge

Author : Elaine Gates
Publisher : Author House
Page : 50 pages
File Size : 47,5 Mb
Release : 2014-09-11
Category : Religion
ISBN : 9781496937933

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Pastor’s That Prey by Elaine Gates Pdf

So many people have been hurt within some churches today and unfortunately, a lot of the hurt has come from the leaders in these churches. The Pastors, Elders, Bishops, whatever their title may be, seem to have lost their way, thus leading those who follow them astray. This book has been written to remind those leaders that God is watching how they are handling ?His? sheep. And for the members, to remind them to worship God more than they worship man. If they are successful in doing that, then they will remain focused and avoid being led astray by those Pastors who Prey.

Author : Darrell Puls
Publisher : Wipf and Stock Publishers
Page : 238 pages
File Size : 42,7 Mb
Release : 2020-06-10
Category : Religion
ISBN : 9781725257283

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Let Us Prey, Revised Edition by Darrell Puls Pdf

Jesus warned of wolves carefully disguised as shepherds coming into local churches as pastors. It is the perfect disguise for a predator to access and devour the flock one lamb at a time while proclaiming himself as their protector and guardian. The result is spiritual devastation, broken congregations, and even destroyed churches. Darrell Puls attests from experience that the enemy has infiltrated the North American church through pastors with dangerously high levels of narcissism. These pastors hide under layers of the sacred, but it is always an illusion of smoke and mirrors. Puls has experienced this reality from the inside as a staff pastor under a narcissist, and from the outside as a church consultant. He carefully unpacks toxic narcissism in everyday terms, and lets the victims tell their own stories. Let Us Prey, Revised Edition is as real as it gets.

Author : Elaine Gates
Publisher : AuthorHouse
Page : 50 pages
File Size : 47,7 Mb
Release : 2014-09-11
Category : Religion
ISBN : 9781496937926

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Pastor’S That Prey by Elaine Gates Pdf

So many people have been hurt within some churches today and unfortunately, a lot of the hurt has come from the leaders in these churches. The Pastors, Elders, Bishops, whatever their title may be, seem to have lost their way, thus leading those who follow them astray. This book has been written to remind those leaders that God is watching how they are handling His sheep. And for the members, to remind them to worship God more than they worship man. If they are successful in doing that, then they will remain focused and avoid being led astray by those Pastors who Prey.

Author : R. Glenn Ball,Darrell Puls
Publisher : Unknown
Page : 0 pages
File Size : 50,9 Mb
Release : 2017
Category : Clergy
ISBN : 1498298435

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Let Us Prey by R. Glenn Ball,Darrell Puls Pdf

Jesus warned of wolves carefully disguised as shepherds who would come into the local church as pastors. It is the perfect disguise from which to devour the flock one lamb at a time. The authors were the first to study this phenomenon in North America and discover how serious the problem is. What they uncovered is shocking. The enemy has infiltrated the North American church. In this study of a large Canadian denomination, just under one in three pastors met the diagnostic criteria of Narcissistic Personality Disorder (NPD). This is one of the most destructive and least treatable of all mental disorders, but is often well hidden behind layers of ""sacred"" deception. Some are charismatic while others are quiet and even awkward, but they share the same needs for power, control, praise, and public recognition. They are also rigid, unbending, never wrong, demanding, and full of hidden rage, leaving the people working for them in demoralized fear. They see you as inferior and God as a rival, while the worst see themselves as God. If they see you as a threat, they will do everything possible to destroy you spiritually and emotionally. Is your pastor one of them? ""Armed with research data and real-life examples, Puls and Ball provide an absorbing and alarming analysis of Christian clergy who suffer from Narcissistic Personality Disorder, describing the toll these 'wolves in sheep's clothing' wreak upon their congregations and co-workers. A must-read for clergy and those who supervise and support them."" --Kevin Livingston, Associate Professor of Pastoral Ministry, Tyndale Seminary, Toronto ""Ball and Pulls do an amazing job of bringing a sensitive issue to the light. Filled with powerful stories, up-to-date research, and godly counsel, Let Us Prey is a great resource that brings wisdom, guidance, and healing to Christian leaders and church communities."" --Tim Clinton, President, American Association of Christian Counselors ""Let Us Prey contains ground-breaking research regarding the plague of narcissism in the church. It also provides practical direction for the diagnosis, intervention, and mitigation of narcissism in our pastorate and our congregations. A must-read . . ."" --Michael Patterson, PhD, LMHC, NCC, BCPCC, Chair, Department of Behavioral Science, Corban University ""Painstakingly researched and terrifyingly realistic, this book shocks us into facing up to the monsters within the body of Christ who prey on the sheep rather than pray for them. Read it and equip yourself to identify and confront these predators with firmness and faith."" --David Murray, Pastor, Grand Rapids Free Reformed Church; Professor of Practical Theology, Puritan Reformed Theological Seminary Darrell Puls is a professional conflict interventionist with forty years of experience, and founder of Peacebridge Ministries, a Christian nonprofit that works directly with faith communities experiencing internal conflict. He is the author of The Road Home: A Guided Journey to Church Forgiveness and Reconciliation (2013). R. Glenn Ball is an ordained minister in the Presbyterian Church in Canada, where he has served for more than thirty years in parish ministry and as a specialist working with distressed churches.

Author : R. Glenn Ball,Darrell Puls
Publisher : Unknown
Page : 230 pages
File Size : 50,6 Mb
Release : 2017-06-15
Category : Psychology
ISBN : 1498248918

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Let Us Prey by R. Glenn Ball,Darrell Puls Pdf

Jesus warned of wolves carefully disguised as shepherds who would come into the local church as pastors. It is the perfect disguise from which to devour the flock one lamb at a time. The authors were the first to study this phenomenon in North America and discover how serious the problem is. What they uncovered is shocking. The enemy has infiltrated the North American church. In this study of a large Canadian denomination, just under one in three pastors met the diagnostic criteria of Narcissistic Personality Disorder (NPD). This is one of the most destructive and least treatable of all mental disorders, but is often well hidden behind layers of ""sacred"" deception. Some are charismatic while others are quiet and even awkward, but they share the same needs for power, control, praise, and public recognition. They are also rigid, unbending, never wrong, demanding, and full of hidden rage, leaving the people working for them in demoralized fear. They see you as inferior and God as a rival, while the worst see themselves as God. If they see you as a threat, they will do everything possible to destroy you spiritually and emotionally. Is your pastor one of them? ""Armed with research data and real-life examples, Puls and Ball provide an absorbing and alarming analysis of Christian clergy who suffer from Narcissistic Personality Disorder, describing the toll these 'wolves in sheep's clothing' wreak upon their congregations and co-workers. A must-read for clergy and those who supervise and support them."" --Kevin Livingston, Associate Professor of Pastoral Ministry, Tyndale Seminary, Toronto ""Ball and Pulls do an amazing job of bringing a sensitive issue to the light. Filled with powerful stories, up-to-date research, and godly counsel, Let Us Prey is a great resource that brings wisdom, guidance, and healing to Christian leaders and church communities."" --Tim Clinton, President, American Association of Christian Counselors ""Let Us Prey contains ground-breaking research regarding the plague of narcissism in the church. It also provides practical direction for the diagnosis, intervention, and mitigation of narcissism in our pastorate and our congregations. A must-read . . ."" --Michael Patterson, PhD, LMHC, NCC, BCPCC, Chair, Department of Behavioral Science, Corban University ""Painstakingly researched and terrifyingly realistic, this book shocks us into facing up to the monsters within the body of Christ who prey on the sheep rather than pray for them. Read it and equip yourself to identify and confront these predators with firmness and faith."" --David Murray, Pastor, Grand Rapids Free Reformed Church; Professor of Practical Theology, Puritan Reformed Theological Seminary Darrell Puls is a professional conflict interventionist with forty years of experience, and founder of Peacebridge Ministries, a Christian nonprofit that works directly with faith communities experiencing internal conflict. He is the author of The Road Home: A Guided Journey to Church Forgiveness and Reconciliation (2013). R. Glenn Ball is an ordained minister in the Presbyterian Church in Canada, where he has served for more than thirty years in parish ministry and as a specialist working with distressed churches.

Author : Peter Orr
Publisher : Crossway
Page : 95 pages
File Size : 43,6 Mb
Release : 2022-10-31
Category : Religion
ISBN : 9781433584794

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Fight for Your Pastor by Peter Orr Pdf

Practical Ways to Support and Care for Your Pastor Do you pray for your pastors? Do you encourage them? Do you have realistic expectations for them? The office of pastor is simultaneously a rewarding and draining position. Pastors today have immense pressure on their shoulders and they need the support of their congregations. Peter Orr has written Fight for Your Pastor as an exhortation for church members to stand behind their pastors through the difficulties of ministry. Orr specifies ways in which congregations can be intentional in caring for church leaders, including prayer, encouragement, generosity, and forgiveness. Featuring stories from current pastors about their struggles, this book is perfect for thoughtful church members eager to understand the weight of their pastors' positions and support leaders in their important ministry. For Thoughtful Christians: Specifically those wanting to know more about their pastors and how to care for them Current: Features insight from pastors about their personal experiences in ministry Applicable: Gives practical examples of how to love and care for pastors, including specific prayers for church leaders and the best ways to encourage them

Author : Darrell Puls
Publisher : Cascade Books
Page : 238 pages
File Size : 43,5 Mb
Release : 2020-06-10
Category : Electronic
ISBN : 1725257297

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Let Us Prey, Revised Edition by Darrell Puls Pdf

Jesus warned of wolves carefully disguised as shepherds coming into local churches as pastors. It is the perfect disguise for a predator to access and devour the flock one lamb at a time while proclaiming himself as their protector and guardian. The result is spiritual devastation, broken congregations, and even destroyed churches. Darrell Puls attests from experience that the enemy has infiltrated the North American church through pastors with dangerously high levels of narcissism. These pastors hide under layers of the sacred, but it is always an illusion of smoke and mirrors.Puls has experienced this reality from the inside as a staff pastor under a narcissist, and from the outside as a church consultant. He carefully unpacks toxic narcissism in everyday terms, and lets the victims tell their own stories. Let Us Prey, Revised Edition is as real as it gets.

Author : Thom S. Rainer
Publisher : Tyndale House Publishers
Page : 152 pages
File Size : 51,7 Mb
Release : 2023-09-05
Category : Religion
ISBN : 9781496448859

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When the People Pray by Thom S. Rainer Pdf

A convenient and easy way for pastors to ask for the prayer support they desperately need. "Will you pray for me?" is a question pastors hear every day. But when have you heard a pastor ask that question for themselves? Frankly, it's rare. That was the question Thom Rainer asked his congregation. The response was overwhelming. Within two days, more than one hundred people committed to praying for him, and the church was transformed over the next year. Thom cannot imagine what would have happened if he hadn't overcome his initial reluctance to be that vulnerable with his congregation. In this book, there are thirty reflections and thirty prayers that give church members a glimpse into the struggles most pastors face and helps them pray in specific ways. In the back of this book, there are instructions on how to start a prayer ministry for your pastor, a prayer ministry for members of your pastor's family, and a thirty-day prayer challenge. God promises to honor the prayers of his people. When the People Pray is an invitation to unleash those promises.

Author : Brian Croft,Ryan Fullerton
Publisher : Zondervan
Page : 88 pages
File Size : 42,7 Mb
Release : 2015-08-04
Category : Religion
ISBN : 9780310519386

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Pray for the Flock by Brian Croft,Ryan Fullerton Pdf

“Brothers, pray for us.” (1 Thessalonians 5:25). The Apostle Paul’s letters are filled with references to prayer—requests for prayer from the churches, prayers for them, and teaching and encouragement that God was working through these prayers. Pastors and church leaders know that prayer is powerful and it must be a priority in any ministry, yet many pastors struggle to maintain an active prayer life. Even more difficult is the challenge of praying for the flock, lifting up the needs of the people God has placed in your care. The Practical Shepherding series of guides provides pastors and ministry leaders with practical help to do the work of pastoral ministry in a local church. In Pray for the Flock, pastors Brian Croft and Ryan Fullerton provide biblical encouragement, practical advice, and helpful suggestions that will help busy pastors effectively pray for their people and care for their church through the ministry of intercession.

Author : Thom S. Rainer
Publisher : Tyndale House Publishers
Page : 237 pages
File Size : 40,9 Mb
Release : 2023-06-06
Category : Religion
ISBN : 9781496449054

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Pray & Go: Your Invitation to Become a Great Commission Christian by Thom S. Rainer Pdf

Spend the next 30 days reaching your community in prayer and learn what it means to be a Great Commission Christian. Pray & Go is a profound and easy-to-use tool that empowers church members to focus outward and learn how to pray regularly. There's hope. Imagine your congregation devoted to prayer. Envision a healthy and growing church dedicated to worshiping Jesus. Our neighborhoods need prayer like never before. Pray & Go is designed to provide convenient opportunities for everyone in your church to participate in and experience the incredible power of prayer. It's easy. Anyone can do it. Just be present and pray. When Jesus left his followers to be reunited with God the Father, his parting command to them was to wait. The believers obeyed by gathering, praying together, and waiting for the power of the Holy Spirit to come upon them. Pray & Go is focused on following in the footsteps of those early Christians. It's a 30-day journey of praying and going, waiting for God and then going outside the church's four walls in obedience to Jesus' command. Both adults and young people enjoy the Pray & Go program because it isn't cumbersome or time-consuming. It requires a small commitment each month to prayer and outreach. Pray & Go contains 30 daily focus topics to pray for, including: Praying for Great Commission church members Praying for your pastor Praying for unity Praying for reconciliation Just pray and go. Yes, it's that simple. You will be amazed by what God will do when your church family is praying for each other and for the community. Accompanying video Church Campaign Kit through Church Answers available online.

Author : Tiffany Bluhm
Publisher : Brazos Press
Page : 192 pages
File Size : 42,7 Mb
Release : 2021-03-16
Category : Religion
ISBN : 9781493429660

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Prey Tell by Tiffany Bluhm Pdf

Tiffany Bluhm wishes this wasn't her story to tell. Yet like many women today who are taking action against sexual harassment and sexual assault, it is. Bluhm explores the complex dynamics of power and abuse in systems we all find ourselves in. With honesty and strength, she tells stories of how women have overcome silence to expose the truth about their ministry and professional leaders--and the backlash they so often face. In so doing, she empowers others to speak up against abuses of power. Addressing men and women in all work settings--within the church and beyond--popular author and podcast host Tiffany Bluhm sets out to understand the cultural and spiritual narratives that silence women and to illuminate the devastating emotional, financial, and social impact of silence in the face of injustice. As readers journey with Bluhm, they will be moved to find their own way, their own voice, and their own conviction for standing with women. They'll emerge more ready than ever to advocate for justice, healing, and resurrection.

Author : Deborrah Cooper
Publisher : Lulu.com
Page : 254 pages
File Size : 51,8 Mb
Release : 2012
Category : Religion
ISBN : 9781105636875

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The Black Church - Where Women Pray and Men Prey by Deborrah Cooper Pdf

This book continues an uncomfortable examination of Prosperity Gospel, the con game of religion and slick preachers. The truth is revealed about the many ways Black women are set up in churches by unscrupulous men out to control, demean, sexually abuse and rob them and their children. (Back cover)

Author : James Smith (of Ilford.)
Publisher : Unknown
Page : 48 pages
File Size : 44,9 Mb
Release : 1831
Category : Church group work
ISBN : BL:A0024414468

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The Pastor and the Flock, Or, Hints to Young Pastors, and Advice to Church Members [being the Substance of Two Sermons on 1 Tim. Iii. 5 and Judg. Xix. 30]. by James Smith (of Ilford.) Pdf

Author : Brenda Lee
Publisher : Createspace Independent Publishing Platform
Page : 234 pages
File Size : 48,8 Mb
Release : 2017-12-15
Category : Electronic
ISBN : 1981767312

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Prey for Pastor by Brenda Lee Pdf

Synopsis... Pastor Israel Ellis was a rising superstar in the gospel arena. He had a tremendous following across the country. This young, handsome, charismatic, wealthy preacher was a romantic who was waiting for love. He expected it to hit him like a lightning bolt. He was dating a good, godly woman, but he was searching for the Wow Factor. In his mind she wasn't the one. He was looking for his soul- mate. He loved the woman he'd been dating for almost three years, but he wasn't in love with her. One day, cupid's arrow shot the preacher dead in the butt, while in route to a Vegas gospel convention. Pastor Ellis was convinced he'd met the woman he'd been searching for. He thought she was wifey, even though he knew she wasn't First Lady material. He'd soon discover she wasn't even Christian. Bishop Nathaniel Rivers was the head pastor of a mega church with over twelve thousand members. The middle aged pastor was a heavy hitter among preachers and a powerful African American leader in his community. The problem was, he was a major asshole. He'd allowed fame, fortune and power to cloud his judgement. He was married to a faithful minister, but he was a serial cheater. He routinely cheated on her and their marriage was a sham. Unscrupulous, he slept with everything in a skirt, including prostitutes, members, church employees, and wives of opportunistic politicians. Quickly spiraling out of control, the womanizing, corrupt minister is on track to lose everything he'd work so hard to get. His ministry, his respect, his fame, his fortune, his wife and even his life were at risk. Pastor Brian Dicks was a gorgeous, young preacher who'd taken a vow of celibacy. He'd made a pack with God and he was dedicated to see it through. The preacher agreed to be celibate until God blessed him with a beautiful, godly wife. Over a year into his vow, the charming minister still hadn't found a wife. Women his age weren't willing to work with him on the celibacy issue. And dating was a big challenge. Then he meets a woman who is everything he was looking for and more. The problem was, she was someone else wife. They were both celibate by choice and dared act on their feelings. The pair settled into a comfortable friendship and prayed for the best. Instinctively, they knew their destinies were intertwined. They struggled to be patient and remain faithful to their vows. Read this drama filled, steamy erotic romance to get a glimpse into the lives of these three handsome ministers and the women who struggle to love them, despite their shortcomings.