The Essential Guide For The Married Man

Author : E Paul Allerton
Publisher : Waterside Productions
Page : 218 pages
File Size : 55,8 Mb
Release : 2020-12-02
Category : Electronic
ISBN : 1951805267

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The Essential Guide for the Married Man by E Paul Allerton Pdf

Marriage and becoming a father are two of the most important Rites of Passage in a man's life. Unfortunately, our society no longer recognizes them as such, nor do the elder men prepare, counsel, and train the younger men to succeed in these endeavors. As a result, good men and women enter marriage with false expectations and misconceptions about how to create a successful marriage and a meaningful life. There is hope! If you are struggling & losing faith in your marriage, don't quit. You can learn and master the principles to be successful, end the conflict, save your marriage, and restore your family. If you are not married, you can prepare yourself to enjoy the best that a lifelong marriage can bring. You can lead your family to thrive providing your children a secure and loving home. At the end of the day, it all comes down to your ability to lead yourself and then your ability to lead your family based on your actions. The direction of your leadership comes from the foundation of your life, your purpose. Your purpose will determine the qualities of character that you must develop. You must consciously choose and master the attitude necessary to sustain the self-discipline to navigate the storms of life so that you can serve your purpose. If you remain focused on these four attributes of your life and firmly rooted in your values, you will create an amazing legacy for yourself, your wife, your children, and your community. Truly, practical guidance for real success!

Author : David Plante,Kris Girrell
Publisher : Createspace Independent Pub
Page : 304 pages
File Size : 41,5 Mb
Release : 2010-11-17
Category : Family & Relationships
ISBN : 1453706291

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A Married Man's Survival Guide by David Plante,Kris Girrell Pdf

A Married Man's Survival Guide is a straight-shooting, no-nonsense guide to what it takes to thrive and prosper as a man in a long-term committed relationship. Based on the guidance of "masters" who have 30 or more years of committed married life, the Guide takes men through such things as preparing for life in this wilderness called marriage to your personal "fitness" routine to ensure lasting success. Along the way, the Guide deals with handling your wife's emotions, dealing with her "upsets" and even walks men through such touchy subjects as separation, divorce and affairs. The concluding chapter contains "250 things you can do to bring a smile to her face" and is based on a challenge the authors gave a men's class they were teaching. The editor writes, "Smartly written as a jungle survival manual, the Guide relies on generous doses of tongue-in-cheek humor to move the reader along at a comfortable pace with plenty of been-there-done-that candid anecdotes add appeal and credibility."

Author : Guy Butler
Publisher : Unknown
Page : 38 pages
File Size : 52,6 Mb
Release : 2015-05-04
Category : Electronic
ISBN : 153311434X

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Rules for Dating a Married Man by Guy Butler Pdf

Women who are involved in an affair with a married man often have to walk a balanced tightrope between satisfying their own needs as well as those of the man with whom they're involved. For most women, these affairs usually turn out to be nerve-wracking experiences meandering among emotions such as excitement, thrill, and the fears of rejection and abandonment. This is primarily because these women often don't understand what her partner truly wants from her, emotionally, physically, or even psychologically. The biggest problem in such an arrangement is that one person often holds more psychological power than the other - and it's usually the married one. This particular imbalance doesn't typically exist - to such a tangible degree - in conventional relationships where both parties involved have equal amounts to lose or gain. It is this imbalance which often leaves one or both parties confused about their roles and the dynamics in the affair. The purpose of this book is to help you figure out exactly what your man wants (and needs) from you, and to help you to meanwhile enjoy your life while maintaining your own sense of integrity and self-esteem. So, for all of you ladies who enjoy walking the spicier road of life, this book will not only help you fulfill your desire of becoming the perfect mate to your married companion, but it will also help you avoid the pitfalls that usually accompany such relationships. Note: While this book may be targeted primarily toward women in heterosexual relationships, the lessons within it are equally applicable to men as well, irrespective of your sexual orientation.

Author : John Gottman, Ph.D.
Publisher : Harmony
Page : 306 pages
File Size : 50,6 Mb
Release : 2002-02-04
Category : Family & Relationships
ISBN : 9780609899533

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The Seven Principles for Making Marriage Work by John Gottman, Ph.D. Pdf

Just as Masters and Johnson were pioneers in the study of human sexuality, so Dr. John Gottman has revolutionized the study of marriage. As a professor of psychology at the University of Washington and the founder and director of the Seattle Marital and Family Institute, he has studied the habits of married couples in unprecedented detail over the course of many years. His findings, and his heavily attended workshops, have already turned around thousands of faltering marriages. This book is the culmination of his life's work: the seven principles that guide couples on the path toward a harmonious and long-lasting relationship. Straightforward in their approach, yet profound in their effect, these principles teach partners new and startling strategies for making their marriage work. Gottman helps couples focus on each other, on paying attention to the small day-to-day moments that, strung together, make up the heart and soul of any relationship. Being thoughtful about ordinary matters provides spouses with a solid foundation for resolving conflict when it does occur and finding strategies for living with those issues that cannot be resolved. Packed with questionnaires and exercises whose effectiveness has been proven in Dr. Gottman's workshops, The Seven Principles for Making Marriage Work is the definitive guide for anyone who wants their relationship to attain its highest potential. The Seven Principles for Making Marriage Work is the result of Dr. John Gottman's many years of closely observing thousands of marriages. This kind of longitudinal research has never been done before. Based on his findings, he has culled seven principles essential to the success of any marriage. Maintain a love map. Foster fondness and admiration. Turn toward instead of away. Accept influence. Solve solvable conflicts. Cope with conflicts you can't resolve. Create shared meaning. Dr. Gottman's unique questionnaires and exercises will guide couples on the road to revitalizing their marriage, or making a strong one even better.

Author : Martin Kantor MD
Publisher : Bloomsbury Publishing USA
Page : 244 pages
File Size : 43,5 Mb
Release : 2010-02-26
Category : Psychology
ISBN : 9780313377532

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The Essential Guide to Overcoming Avoidant Personality Disorder by Martin Kantor MD Pdf

Emphasizing diagnosis, causality, and holistic treatment, this is the only book offering a full discussion of Avoidant Personality Disorder for therapists and sufferers. Avoidant Personality Disorder (AvPD) is an extremely widespread, devastating disorder that generally goes unrecognized or misrepresented by what little scientific literature there is on the topic. Therapists are left mystified about how to diagnose and treat it, and patients and other sufferers are at a loss as to what is wrong and how to go about correcting it. The Essential Guide to Overcoming Avoidant Personality Disorder is the only book available to guide both patients and those trying to help them. This thorough and much-needed volume explores the development of AvPD and presents a holistic view of its causes from the psychoanalytic, cognitive-behavioral, and interpersonal perspectives. It offers an extensive section on diagnostic criteria that will be useful to sufferers and therapists, and it discusses the various therapies for AvPD. Finally, and perhaps most critically, the book provides a section intended as a guide for psychiatrists—and a self-help guide for sufferers—including a day-by-day, one-step-at-a-time, monthly guide on how to overcome AvPD.

Author : Liz Currin, Ph.D.
Publisher : Penguin
Page : 316 pages
File Size : 46,9 Mb
Release : 2012-01-03
Category : Family & Relationships
ISBN : 9781101559628

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The Essential Guide to Surviving Infidelity by Liz Currin, Ph.D. Pdf

A thoughtfully written and sensitive guide for anyone dealing with the devastating effects of an affair. For anyone who has been impacted by an affair, the effects can be nothing short of devastating. Licensed clinical psychologist Dr. Liz Currin has years of experience helping couples resolve and repair the damage wrought by the effects of an affair. Through Dr Currin's thoughtful style, readers of The Essential Guide to Surviving Infidelity will learn how affairs start, what to do if a partner is suspected of cheating, how to deal with the emotional impact of an affair, and many other essential steps in the healing process. In addition, Dr. Currin provides clears guideposts to healing a marriage (as well as oneself), moving on, engaging the power of forgiveness, and restoring trust.

Author : John Gottman, PhD,Nan Silver
Publisher : Harmony
Page : 321 pages
File Size : 48,5 Mb
Release : 2015-05-05
Category : Family & Relationships
ISBN : 9780553447712

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The Seven Principles for Making Marriage Work by John Gottman, PhD,Nan Silver Pdf

NEW YORK TIMES BESTSELLER • Over a million copies sold! “An eminently practical guide to an emotionally intelligent—and long-lasting—marriage.”—Daniel Goleman, author of Emotional Intelligence The Seven Principles for Making Marriage Work has revolutionized the way we understand, repair, and strengthen marriages. John Gottman’s unprecedented study of couples over a period of years has allowed him to observe the habits that can make—and break—a marriage. Here is the culmination of that work: the seven principles that guide couples on a path toward a harmonious and long-lasting relationship. Straightforward yet profound, these principles teach partners new approaches for resolving conflicts, creating new common ground, and achieving greater levels of intimacy. Gottman offers strategies and resources to help couples collaborate more effectively to resolve any problem, whether dealing with issues related to sex, money, religion, work, family, or anything else. Packed with new exercises and the latest research out of the esteemed Gottman Institute, this revised edition of The Seven Principles for Making Marriage Work is the definitive guide for anyone who wants their relationship to attain its highest potential.

Author : Dennis Dziedzic
Publisher : Unknown
Page : 128 pages
File Size : 48,6 Mb
Release : 2021-08-27
Category : Electronic
ISBN : 0578978326

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The Married Man's Survival Guide by Dennis Dziedzic Pdf

For far too long, married men have been left out in the cold to fend for themselves in their marriages. Too often, men feel that they have to choose between being a "good" husband and being a good man. No matter what you choose, you'll still be faced with the same dangers inherent in married life. They are many, but they all have the same outcome-a weakening masculinity, which will deliver the marriage to an eventual dead bedroom. What if there was a 3rd choice? A choice that would cultivate a healthy manliness which you could apply to the marriage?It would involve successfully navigating the dangers of marriage. For that, you'll need a guide. And that's just what you'll find inside: A comprehensive explanation of 9 of the most perilous hazards to your masculinity, along with mindsets, strategies, and tactics to help you overcome them and make your marriage into something wonderful.Into a sanctuary of healthy communication and deep intimacy.

Author : Helen Boyd
Publisher : Seal Press
Page : 320 pages
File Size : 44,6 Mb
Release : 2007-02-15
Category : Social Science
ISBN : 9780786750542

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She's Not the Man I Married by Helen Boyd Pdf

Helen Boyd's husband, who had long been open about being a cross-dresser, was considering living as a woman full time. Suddenly, Boyd was confronted with the reality of what it would mean if her husband were actually to become a woman — socially, legally, and medically. Would Boyd love and desire her partner the same way? Boyd's first book, My Husband Betty, explored the relationships of cross-dressing men and their partners. Now, She's Not the Man I Married is both a sequel and a more expansive examination of gender in relationships. It's for couples who are homosexual or heterosexual, and for readers who fall anywhere along the gender continuum. As Boyd struggles to understand the nature of marriage, passion, and love, she shares her confusion and anger, providing a fascinating observation of the ways in which relationships are gendered, and how we cope, or don't, with the emotional and sexual pressures that gender roles can bring to our marriages and relationships.

Author : Wyndham Wise
Publisher : University of Toronto Press
Page : 292 pages
File Size : 47,7 Mb
Release : 2001-12-15
Category : Performing Arts
ISBN : 9781442656208

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Take One's Essential Guide to Canadian Film by Wyndham Wise Pdf

Take One's Essential Guide to Canadian Film is the most exhaustive and up-to-date reference book on Canadian film and filmmakers, combining 700 reviews and biographical listings with a detailed chronology of major events in Canadian film and television history. Compiled by Wyndham Wise, the editor and publisher of Take One, Canada's most respected film magazine, with a foreword by Canadian director Patricia Rozema, this is the only reference book of its kind published in English. Each film title is listed with credits, a mini review, and significant awards. Biographical listings of directors, producers, actors, writers, animators, cinematographers, distributors, exhibitors, and independent filmmakers are accompanied by date and place of birth, date of death if applicable, a brief career overview, and a filmography. Wise celebrates Canadian achievement on both a national and an international scale, and juxtaposes the distinctly Canadian with Canada's exports to Hollywood: Maury Chaykin and Jim Carrey, John Candy and William Shatner, Mon Oncle Antoine and Porky's, Highway 61 and Meatballs, The Red Violin and The Art of War. From great early Hollywood stars like Walter Huston, Fay Wray, Mary Pickford, Norma Shearer, and Marie Dressler, to our current crop of star directors - including Patricia Rozema, Atom Egoyan, David Cronenberg, Denys Arcand, Peter Mettler, Guy Maddin, and Robert Lepage - Canadians have made an important but largely unrecorded contribution to the history of world cinema. Impressive for its breadth of coverage, refreshing in its opinionated informality, this comprehensive and lively look at Canadian film culture at the start of the twenty-first century admirably fills the gap.

Author : Subhash K. Jha
Publisher : Roli Books Private Limited
Page : 180 pages
File Size : 52,9 Mb
Release : 2005
Category : Motion picture actors and actresses
ISBN : 8174363785

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The Essential Guide to Bollywood by Subhash K. Jha Pdf

This book picks 200 of the best Hindi films ever produced and catalogues them. Densely packed and visually appealing, the guide is written in a reader-friendly, accessible style to enable even those not familiar with Hindi to see and understand popular Bollywood films. Entries are arranged genre-wise as drama, comedy and romance, among other categories.

Author : Joe Kort
Publisher : W. W. Norton & Company
Page : 305 pages
File Size : 50,5 Mb
Release : 2011-05-02
Category : Psychology
ISBN : 9780393707533

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Gay Affirmative Therapy for the Straight Clinician: The Essential Guide by Joe Kort Pdf

All the answers straight clinicians need to work effectively with gay and lesbian clients. It has been over three decades since the American Psychiatric Association removed homosexuality as a category of deviant behavior from the DSM. Same-sex marriage is recognized in certain states, gay-straight alliances are springing up in high schools across the country, and major religious denominations are embracing gay clergy. Yet despite the sea change of attitudes toward homosexuality, many well-meaning straight therapists are still at a loss as to how to effectively counsel their gay and lesbian clients. This book will offer straight therapists the tools they need to counsel gay and lesbian clients effectively.

Author : Michael Batshaw
Publisher : Turner Publishing Company
Page : 140 pages
File Size : 47,8 Mb
Release : 2011-04-22
Category : Family & Relationships
ISBN : 9781596529564

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Before Saying "I Do" by Michael Batshaw Pdf

Have you found "the One"?The decision to get engaged is one of the most exciting and important decisions you will ever make. Before Saying “I Do”: The Essential Guide to a Successful Marriage offers deep insights into how you and your fiancé can use this critical engagement period to build a solid foundation for the rest of your lives together. Psychotherapist and relationship expert Michael Batshaw shares specific and practical techniques to begin the necessary work for a successful engagement—setting the stage for happily ever after. Topics include: Knowing if your partner is “the One” How to disagree productively Cultivating real intimacy for a lifetime How Hollywood gets it wrong Issues to discuss before taking your vows

Author : Lori Gottlieb
Publisher : Penguin
Page : 336 pages
File Size : 43,6 Mb
Release : 2010-02-04
Category : Family & Relationships
ISBN : 9781101185209

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Marry Him by Lori Gottlieb Pdf

An eye-opening, funny, painful, and always truthful in-depth examination of modern relationships and a wake-up call for single women about getting real about Mr. Right. You have a fulfilling job, great friends, and the perfect apartment. So what if you haven’t found “The One” just yet. He’ll come along someday, right? But what if he doesn’t? Or what if Mr. Right had been, well, Mr. Right in Front of You—but you passed him by? Nearing forty and still single, journalist Lori Gottlieb started to wonder: What makes for lasting romantic fulfillment, and are we looking for those qualities when we’re dating? Are we too picky about trivial things that don’t matter, and not picky enough about the often overlooked things that do? In Marry Him, Gottlieb explores an all-too-common dilemma—how to reconcile the desire for a happy marriage with a list of must-haves and deal-breakers so long and complicated that many great guys get misguidedly eliminated. On a quest to find the answer, Gottlieb sets out on her own journey in search of love, discovering wisdom and surprising insights from sociologists and neurobiologists, marital researchers and behavioral economists—as well as single and married men and women of all generations.

Author : David Christel
Publisher : Unknown
Page : 128 pages
File Size : 46,6 Mb
Release : 2014-01-01
Category : Electronic
ISBN : 1495100979

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Married Men Coming Out by David Christel Pdf