Adult Sibling Relationships

Author : Geoffrey L. Greif,Michael E. Woolley
Publisher : Columbia University Press
Page : 327 pages
File Size : 50,8 Mb
Release : 2015-12-08
Category : Psychology
ISBN : 9780231540803

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Adult Sibling Relationships by Geoffrey L. Greif,Michael E. Woolley Pdf

The bond siblings develop in childhood may be vastly different from the relationship that evolves in adulthood. Driven by affection but also characterized by ambivalence and ambiguity, adult sibling relationships can become hurtful, uncertain, competitive, or exhausting though the undercurrents of love and loyalty remain. An approach that recognizes the positive aspects of the changing sibling relationship, as well as those that need improvement, can restore healthy ties and rebuild family closeness. With in-depth case studies of more than 260 siblings over the age of forty and interviews with experts on mental health and family interaction, this book offers vital direction for traversing the emotional terrain of adult sibling relations. It pursues a richer understanding of ambivalence, a normal though little explored feeling among siblings, and how ambiguity about the past or present can lead to miscommunication and estrangement. For both professionals and general readers, this book clarifies the most confounding elements of sibling relationships and provides specific suggestions for realizing new, productive avenues of friendship in middle and later life—skills that are particularly important for siblings who must cooperate to care for aging parents or give immediate emotional or financial support to other siblings or family members.

Author : Geoffrey L. Greif,Michael E. Woolley
Publisher : Unknown
Page : 0 pages
File Size : 40,9 Mb
Release : 2016
Category : Adulthood
ISBN : 0231165161

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Adult Sibling Relationships by Geoffrey L. Greif,Michael E. Woolley Pdf

An in-depth look at the challenging psychology of adult sibling interactions, with recommendations for resolving communication struggles and promoting affectionate and satisfying relationships.

Author : Jane Greer,Edward Myers
Publisher : Crown
Page : 248 pages
File Size : 51,9 Mb
Release : 1992
Category : Adulthood
ISBN : CORNELL:31924059232375

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Adult Sibling Rivalry by Jane Greer,Edward Myers Pdf

An exploration of sibling rivalry in adults shows adults how they can maintain caring relationships with siblings during ordinary conflicts, cope with seriously troubled siblings, and resolve conflicts.

Author : Fern Schumer Chapman
Publisher : Penguin
Page : 304 pages
File Size : 51,7 Mb
Release : 2021-04-06
Category : Biography & Autobiography
ISBN : 9780525561705

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Brothers, Sisters, Strangers by Fern Schumer Chapman Pdf

A warm, empathetic guide to understanding, coping with, and healing from the unique pain of sibling estrangement "Whenever I tell people that I am working on a book about sibling estrangement, they sit up a little straighter and lean in, as if I've tapped into a dark secret." Fern Schumer Chapman understands the pain of sibling estrangement firsthand. For the better part of forty years, she had nearly no relationship with her only brother, despite many attempts at reconnection. Her grief and shame were devastating and isolating. But when she tried to turn to others for help, she found that a profound stigma still surrounded estrangement, and that very little statistical and psychological research existed to help her better understand the rift that had broken up her family. So she decided to conduct her own research, interviewing psychologists and estranged siblings as well as recording the extraordinary story of her own rift with her brother--and subsequent reconciliation. Brothers, Sisters, Strangers is the result--a thoughtfully researched memoir that illuminates both the author's own story and the greater phenomenon of estrangement. Chapman helps readers work through the challenges of rebuilding a sibling relationship that seems damaged beyond repair, as well as understand when estrangement is the best option. It is at once a detailed framework for understanding sibling estrangement, a beacon of solidarity and comfort for the estranged, and a moving memoir about family trauma, addiction, grief, and recovery.

Author : Jo Ann Levitt, M.A., R.N.,Marjory Levitt, Ph.D.
Publisher : Delta
Page : 209 pages
File Size : 43,5 Mb
Release : 2009-08-26
Category : Family & Relationships
ISBN : 9780307490919

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Sibling Revelry by Jo Ann Levitt, M.A., R.N.,Marjory Levitt, Ph.D. Pdf

Experience the miracle of healing with a unique step-by-step program for enhancing adult sibling relationships — created by siblings for siblings Much has been written about the relationships of parents and children. But the unsung chord in all of our adult relationships, professional and personal, is rooted in the sibling connection. In this extraordinary book based on their Sibling Revelry workshops, authors — and siblings — Jo Ann, Marjory, and Joel Levitt re-create the seminars that have helped many strengthen the bonds of their adult sibling relationships. In eight clearly focused steps, with added material for home study, the authors show how to transform sibling rivalry into extraordinary, nurturing adult bonds that will enhance all other relationships in your life. Now you can regain the closeness you and your siblings once shared, heal old wounds, and pave the way to a happier, healthier future. Learn how to: * Define your relationship — Unload the myths of your shared past...and discover who you are to each other now * Witness the effect of old rivalries — And use them as a springboard to great adult relationships * Envision a new future — Break the habits that hold your relationship firmly in place...and create a powerful new vision for yourself and your family * Explore new modes of contact — Examine the "role" you play in your family and free yourself from damaging old patterns * Heal wounds and misunderstandings — Resolve old conflicts as you sort through old issues of fear, anger, guilt, and hurt * Invent new family legends — Uncover the myths and legends that have shaped your relationship...then create new ones * Make room for differences — Clear out "sibling clutter" and accept your siblings exactly as they are * Honor your strengths — Celebrate the positive qualities each sibling brings to the relationship...and set the stage for a lifelong connection

Author : Peter Goldenthal
Publisher : John Wiley & Sons
Page : 260 pages
File Size : 54,6 Mb
Release : 2002-04-05
Category : Family & Relationships
ISBN : PSU:000048611381

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Why Can't We Get Along? by Peter Goldenthal Pdf

Rivalry, jealousy, pent-up anger: for many brothers and sisters, these emotions remain well into adult life. Peter Goldenthal offers help for those who wish to break the destructive patterns that affect their relationships.

Author : Patti McDermott
Publisher : Unknown
Page : 232 pages
File Size : 42,5 Mb
Release : 1992
Category : Family & Relationships
ISBN : 0929923561

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Sisters and Brothers by Patti McDermott Pdf

Author : T.J. Wray
Publisher : Harmony
Page : 274 pages
File Size : 43,9 Mb
Release : 2003-05-27
Category : Self-Help
ISBN : 9780609809808

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Surviving the Death of a Sibling by T.J. Wray Pdf

When T.J. Wray lost her 43-year-old brother, her grief was deep and enduring and, she soon discovered, not fully acknowledged. Despite the longevity of adult sibling relationships, surviving siblings are often made to feel as if their grief is somehow unwarranted. After all, when an adult sibling dies, he or she often leaves behind parents, a spouse, and even children—all of whom suffer a more socially recognized type of loss. Based on the author's own experiences, as well as those of many others, Surviving the Death of a Sibling helps adults who have lost a brother or sister to realize that they are not alone in their struggle. Just as important, it teaches them to understand the unique stages of their grieving process, offering practical and prescriptive advice for dealing with each stage. In Surviving the Death of a Sibling, T.J. Wray discusses: • Searching for and finding meaning in your sibling's passing • Using a grief journal to record your emotions • Choosing a grief partner to help you through tough times • Dealing with insensitive remarks made by others Warm and personal, and a rich source of useful insights and coping strategies, Surviving the Death of a Sibling is a unique addition to the literature of bereavement.

Author : Victor Cicirelli
Publisher : Springer Science & Business Media
Page : 320 pages
File Size : 45,7 Mb
Release : 2013-03-14
Category : Psychology
ISBN : 9781475765090

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Sibling Relationships Across the Life Span by Victor Cicirelli Pdf

When one begins to examine the existing literature dealing with siblings, one soon becomes aware that many separate domains of sibling research exist and that there is little connection between them; for example, sibling relationships in early childhood, genetic and environmental influences on individual differences between siblings, dysfunctional sibling relation ships, adult sibling helping relationships, sibling violence and abuse, and so on. The author's aim in writing this book was to attempt to bring together for the first time studies from diverse areas of sibling research into a single volume. The book is a summary and integration of the various domains of sibling studies, extending across the life span where studies exist to make this possible. Although many gaps in the sibling research literature within and between domains of study and over the life span still exist, it is hoped that this book will motivate others to help fill in the gaps by suggesting direc tions where further research is needed.

Author : Jeanne Safer
Publisher : Basic Books
Page : 288 pages
File Size : 42,8 Mb
Release : 2012-01-03
Category : Psychology
ISBN : 9780465029440

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Cain's Legacy by Jeanne Safer Pdf

Bonds between brothers and sisters are among the longest lasting and most emotionally significant of human relationships. But while 45 percent of adults struggle with serious sibling strife, few discuss it openly. Even fewer resolve it to their satisfaction. In Cain's Legacy, psychotherapist Jeanne Safer, a recognized authority on sibling psychology (and an estranged sister herself) illuminates this pervasive but hidden phenomenon. She explores the roots of inter-sibling woes, from siblicide in the book of Genesis to tensions in Freud's family history. Drawing on sixty in-depth interviews with adult siblings struggling with conflicts over money, family businesses, aging parents, contentious wills, unhealed childhood wounds, and blocked communication, Safer provides compassionate guidance to brothers and sisters whose relationship is broken. She helps siblings overcome their paralysis and pain, revealing how they can come to terms with the one peer relationship they can never sever--even if they never see each other again. A heartfelt look at a too-often avoided topic, Cain's Legacy is a sympathetic and clear-eyed guide to navigating the darkness separating us from our brothers and sisters.

Author : M. E. Lamb,B. Sutton-Smith,Brian Sutton-Smith,Michael E. Lamb
Publisher : Psychology Press
Page : 416 pages
File Size : 49,8 Mb
Release : 2014-01-14
Category : Psychology
ISBN : 9781317769583

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Sibling Relationships by M. E. Lamb,B. Sutton-Smith,Brian Sutton-Smith,Michael E. Lamb Pdf

First published in 1982. Since the emergence of developmental psychology early this century, theorists and researchers have emphasized the family’s role in shaping the child’s emergent social style, personality, and cognitive competence. In so doing, however, psychologists have implicitly adopted a fairly idiosyncratic definition of the family— one that focuses almost exclusively on parents and mostly on mothers. The realization that most families contain two parents and at least two children has occurred slowly, and has brought with it recognition that children develop in the context of a diverse network of social relationships within which each person may affect every other both directly (through their interactions) and indirectly (i.e., through A ’s effect on B, who in turn influences C). The family is such a social network, itself embedded in a broader network of relations with neighbors, relatives, and social institutions. Within the family, relationships among siblings have received little attention until fairly recently. In this volume, the goal is to review the existing empirical and theoretical literature concerning the nature and importance of sibling relationships.

Author : William E. Hapworth,Mada Hapworth,Joan Rattner Heilman
Publisher : Viking Adult
Page : 264 pages
File Size : 45,8 Mb
Release : 1993
Category : Family & Relationships
ISBN : UOM:39015032988837

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Mom Loved You Best! by William E. Hapworth,Mada Hapworth,Joan Rattner Heilman Pdf

Drawing on a wealth of real-life case histories and clinical experiences, this book explores why adult siblings never stop competing and how it affects every aspect of their lives. It's full of helpful suggestions on how to modify behavior and mend broken ties.

Author : Gary Chapman
Publisher : Moody Publishers
Page : 80 pages
File Size : 41,6 Mb
Release : 2009-03-01
Category : Family & Relationships
ISBN : 9781575673844

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The Heart of the 5 Love Languages (Abridged Gift-Sized Version) by Gary Chapman Pdf

In this GIFT-SIZED ABRIDGED VERSION of the #1 New York Times bestselling book The 5 Love Languages, you'll discover the secret that has transformed millions of relationships worldwide. Whether your relationship is flourishing or failing, Dr. Gary Chapman's proven approach to showing and receiving love will help you experience deeper and richer levels of intimacy with your partner-starting today.

Author : Geoffrey L. Greif,Kathleen Holtz Deal
Publisher : Routledge
Page : 244 pages
File Size : 40,7 Mb
Release : 2012-04-23
Category : Psychology
ISBN : 9781136502811

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Two Plus Two by Geoffrey L. Greif,Kathleen Holtz Deal Pdf

Friendships are undeniably important to an individual’s health, longevity and wellbeing, but they can be equally important for the health and happiness of a couple. Just as a friend can provide a mirror to the self, another couple can provide a reflecting team that supports or impedes a relationship’s growth. Two Plus Two: Couples and Their Couple Friendships offers an important framework for helping couples to have conversations about their friendships with other couples and to enrich their own relationships. When couples agree about how to spend their time alone and with others, they are more likely to have a happy marriage or relationship. Couple friendships have not been researched previously, despite their numerous benefits. Authors Geoffrey Greif and Kathleen Deal take an in-depth approach to this important topic. Based on interviews with more than 400 people--some of whom were interviewed with their partners, some who were interviewed alone, and some who have divorced--they find that couples fall into three general categories of making couple friendships: Seekers, Keepers, and Nesters. Drs. Greif and Deal discuss the different styles of interaction they've observed in couples as well as the findings from their research. Readings from their interviews illustrate what characteristics define Seekers, Keepers, and Nesters. Couples at any stage of their relationship will get a fresh understanding of how to seek, foster and sustain positive, healthy friendships.

Author : Geoffrey Greif,Professor Geoffrey Greif
Publisher : Oxford University Press
Page : 313 pages
File Size : 47,7 Mb
Release : 2009
Category : FAMILY & RELATIONSHIPS
ISBN : 9780195326420

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Buddy System by Geoffrey Greif,Professor Geoffrey Greif Pdf

Drawing on in-depth interviews with nearly 400 men,therapist and researcher Geoffrey L. Greif takes readers on a guided tour of male friendships, explaining what makes them work, why they are vital to the health of individuals and communities, and how to build the kinds of friendships that can lead to longer and happier lives.Through the lively words of men themselves, and detailed profiles of men from their twenties to their nineties, readers may be surprised to find what friendships offer men-as well as their families and communities-and are sure to learn what makes their own relationships tick.