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Bdsm Mastery-Relationships by Robert J Rubel Ph D,Robert J. Rubel, 2nd,M. Jen Fairfield Pdf
This is the second book in the BDSM Mastery series. While the first book oriented readers to play, parties, and scene protocols, this book addresses Dominant/submissive relationships. What, you might ask, are "BDSM Relationships?" These are "adventuresome" relationships. Relationships that are not exactly like vanilla relationships. BDSM relationships differ in two specific ways from your typical vanilla relationship: first, they usually involve a power-imbalanced structure (one person is clearly in charge and the other person is clearly following); second, the kind of sex that adventuresome folks practice is, well, not vanilla. I wrote this book to help you better to understand the power dynamics that get involved with what are called power-imbalanced relationships (usually referred to as Dominant/submissive or D/s relationships).
BDSM Mastery - Basics Your Guide to Play, Parties, and Scene Protocols by Robert J Rubel Ph D,Robert J. Rubel, 2nd,M. Jen Fairfield Pdf
This is not a book that explains what BDSM is, this is a book that explains what BDSM is all about. This is a book for people who are considering stepping into real time BDSM, and it is also a book for people who have been involved in the community for a while. This book treats the world of BDSM as a culture unto itself and goes a long way to explaining the expectations, rules, and words that are common to this culture. This book does not tell you how to use any implements (floggers, canes, etc), but it does explain why in the world you'd want to use such implements. This is a must-have resource book for your kink library.
"The other day my girlfriend pushed me down and looked me in the eye. 'I'm going to make you cry, ' she said. She began to hit me in earnest, and made me count the blows." Why would we ever want someone we love to hurt us? Why would we ever want to hurt someone we love? And why do some of us crave it? "Later, as I sobbed and she held me, I felt the therapy of that release: the effect of dealing with PTSD and trauma with pain that I can end any time by saying my safe word. Pain that comes from someone who I know is doing it for both of our pleasure, and not out of a desire to actually hurt me." Julie brown, a queer trans woman, shared this anecdote with me after responding to my call for personal stories about BDSM. Over the past week, I've conducted interviews with a dozen members of the BDSM and kink community, ranging across identities, age, gender, and location. By now, the general mechanics of BDSM are familiar to anyone who's had even a passing encounter with Fifty Shades of Grey-the whips, crops, and handcuffs all recognizable accoutrement of kinky sex-but I was interested in exploring the personal, psychological side. BDSM is an acronym with several constituent parts: bondage and discipline, dominance/submission, sadism and masochism. Collectively, these behaviors might be referred to as aspects of kink, a term which covers the broad expanse of non-normative sexuality. It includes BDSM; it can also encompass things like watersports and various fetishes, like latex or balloons. I use "we" when referring to this community because I find myself a member of it, though, like any imagined community, membership is as much self-designated as it is given. I'm interested in BDSM. In particular, I like submission. I've explored rope bondage, been to play parties, and incorporated it into many of my romantic and sexual relationships. For julie, the appeal lies in how it allows her to access pain while being in full control of that pain-she can end it at any time with her safe word. BDSM allows her to process complex, traumatic experiences in a way that's safe and consensual. Her story resonated with my own experiences with BDSM, too: trusting a beloved partner to give me what I need, while knowing that I'm in full control of the situation, is exhilarating. Is that feeling universal? If you've ever fantasized about getting kinky in the bedroom, you're not alone. The runaway success of E. L. James's novel Fifty Shades of Grey - more than 100 million copies sold - not to mention the sales of other books in the series and the movies it's generated, prove that interest in BDSM - bondage and discipline, dominance and submission, and sadism and masochism - is anything but rare. "It's very out in the culture right now, but it's not fully out of the shadows yet," says Gentille. "People are still embarrassed to talk about sex. What they discover when they dive a little deeper into it is that in BDSM you actually get to talk about what you like, what you're curious about, and what is a definite 'No.' It's clear, overt, and collaborative and that can feel delightful. And if you like it, if you have control over what happens, it's all good fun." Wait! Why waste your time with my long talk, when you can dive in rightaway? CLICK THE BUY BUTTON NOW!! TO GET STARTED
A companion book to 'Protocols' this book covers the more general topic of Master/Slave relations - how they often evolve and how to avoid the problems that can easily crop up in the early stages. The book also reviews ways that Master/ Slave relationships differ from Dominant/ Submissive or Top/Bottom relationships, discusses contracts and collars and considers various ways of finding a slave and starting a relationship.
A Perfect Dom's Guide to Bdsm Relationships by Mistress Dede Pdf
This is a step-by-step guide for dominants who want to train their submissives the right way. Submissive training is only effective when you have the right techniques to do it. So if you are a master or dominant who is currently in a BDSM relationship, you can get helpful tips from this eBook. Learn the best way on how to keep your submissive happy and contented with anything you give them. Understanding and implementing the BDSM lifestyle can be hard when you don't have the right support. If you simply want to know more about dominant-submissive relationship, this is the best solution for you. Know and identify your desires and get the pleasure that you always deserve from this rare connection. Owning and helping a consensual slave is not that easy because you need knowledge in training them to act like one. The rules should be strictly implemented once the submissive agree to the contract. However, there will be punishments when a rule is broken intentionally or not. This is why it's very important that you educate your consensual salve with all the necessary details as they will be held responsible for every act that they do. The terms consensual, sane and safe are actually the keystones of carefully practicing such lifestyle.
You or your partner are fascinated by BDSM, but don't know how and where to start? Everything you need to know, you will find it in this book. Most of what people think about BDSM, is wrong. In reality BDSM is not degrading women or men and you will also understand that it's not as obscure as you think. And also the concept of "pain" we are talking about is not what people think. You will also understand that having the role of the Dom is not just about having pleasure, on the contrary, the Dom has the role of giving pleasure and discipline to the submissive. He must have pleasure in giving pleasure and not simply receiving what he wants. This book is intended for both Dominant and Submissive training. It's also perfect for those who haven't experience in this world. This is a taste of what you will find in this book: What is BDSM and Why? Introducing BDSM to your Partner What is Domination and Submission 8 Tips on how to get Started in BDSM 7 Mistakes New Submissives Make 10 must-have BDSM Toys for Beginners Bondage play Punishments Examples Types of Consents: SSC vs RACK Dominance Techniques Role-Play types SAFE WORDS: how to Choose them and why After reading this book you will have made your sex life richer and your partner will beg you for more. So... Scroll up, click the buy now button and get your copy of "Guide to BDSM" ! Check also the others "Sex Life Tips" books: 1 - Art of Seduction: Boost your Sexual Intelligence Learning How to Flirt with Techniques of Verbal Communication, Signal and Understand a Sex Desire for Woman and Man 2 - DIRTY TALK LANGUAGE: How to Learn with Examples of Phrases of Lust to Have a Great Sex with Your Man or Woman, Make It Wilder and Drive Your Partner Crazy 3 - Sex Games for Couples: Ways to Spice up your Relationship with Hot Quiz, Games and Sexy Conversation 4 - Guide to BDSM: to Have a Healthy and Mindful Dom / Sub Relationship, with Techniques of Dominance and How to be a Good Submissive for your Master
Learn the Art of Kinky Sex to Spice Things Up in Your Bedroom! This is a ground-breaking book that is so comprehensive, your sex life will never be the same again. Our books are geared to changing and uplifting those that read them. We strive to get you to adopt attitudes so as to get the most out of the book's teaching in a simple. Step-by-step way and never by-rote, routine learning. Buy this guide now to make your sex life richer and make your partner to beg you for more.
Author : Dan And Dawn Williams Publisher : The Nazca Plains Corporation Page : 193 pages File Size : 55,9 Mb Release : 2011-04 Category : Fiction ISBN : 9781610981965
Living M/S; A Book for Masters, Slaves, and Their Relationships by Dan And Dawn Williams Pdf
This book is a valuable resource for those interested in real-time Total Power Exchange Relationships. Dan and dawn share the reality behind the lifestyle that so many only fantasize about. This is a book based on the experience of a couple, who has been living together as Master and slave for well over a decade and covers such topics as: challenges of living as a M/s couple; building your own M/s dynamic; changing terminology; the communities of M/s and BDSM and how they dance together (and apart); styles of D/s and M/s; Ms and polyamory; leather; orchestrating situations with multiple slaves, as well as many other topics.
In this second book of the BDSM Relationships series, Peter Masters takes as a starting point the principles and psychology of BDSM which he talked about in book one, and then places them in practical contexts, looking at how real-life BDSM activities and relationships serve to satisfy the wants and needs of practitioners. In particular, he takes the three BDSM pillars described in book one, looks at the effects that different BDSM activities and relationship types have on these, and shows the effects on both the wants and needs met by BDSM, and on the BDSM relationships themselves. Fundamental to this is, on the one hand, the role which the relationship has in allowing engaging and satisfying BDSM activities to be pursued and, on the other hand, the role which BDSM itself has in supporting and consolidating the relationship. Importantly, a longer-term relationship founded on trust and familiarity often forms a context in which much more profound experiences can be had than those you can find in a casual encounter. For this reason alone, recognising the nature of BDSM relationships and the practical possibilities which a relationship creates is vital to many people, otherwise they simply wouldn't be able to find the intensity they need. Trust, honesty, openness and effective communication play a critical part in creating the structurally sound foundation on which any BDSM relationship is built. Typically, all of these have a greater impact on a BDSM relationship than on a non-BDSM relationship and affect the profound intimacy and engagement which BDSM folk often look for. Shortcomings in any of these dramatically reduce the level of engagement possible and, consequently, how satisfying the relationship can be. The physical nature of a relationship is also going to be significant factor. Do you live with your BDSM partner? Are you only into weekend-only BDSM, or do you want it to be more pervasive in your life? Are you looking for a slave or are you wanting to be a slave? Does the BDSM stop at the bedroom door? Is it only about sex? Is there a mental, spiritual, or intellectual component to your BDSM? Is pain important? Are domination or authority important? Is BDSM just about one thing for you, such as bondage, or are there multiple aspects to it? How does your partner fit into all this? Part of having a satisfying and successful BDSM relationship is, of course, actually meeting someone, and this book discusses how to meet new BDSM folk, how to assess what they're looking for and how this going to fit in with what you are looking for. Relationships don't remain static and as your own wants and needs evolve, the the sort of relationship you may need to be in to get those wants and needs met can change. The book looks at many of the places your relationship may go.
Master/slave Mastery by Robert J Rubel Ph D,Robert J. Rubel, 2nd,M. Jen Fairfield Pdf
About this book: A servant serves Master's needs or is fired; A slave serves Master's wants or is released. However, Master's wants must not trump slave's needs, Even when playing by RACK standards. slave is in service to Master; However, Master is in service to the relationship. Welcome to the complex and elegant World of Master/slave relations. This is a revised and substantially expanded version of my prior book, Master/slave Relations: Handbook of theory and practice. Even if you've read that one, this is substantially different. This is a book both for people starting out in M/s and also for people who have been involved for a few years. The second book in this series, Master/slave Mastery: Refining the Fire - ideas that matter is intended for those who have been involved with the Master/slave world for 5+ years. Together, these books are core readings for anyone interested in living in a structured, authority-imbalanced relationship.
In this third book of the BDSM Relationships series, Peter Masters looks at many of the common pitfalls and obstacles which can get in the way of a satisfying BDSM-based relationship. It's rare that a deficiency in practical BDSM skills, such as flogging technique or ability to tie knots, causes a relationship to fail. Instead they mostly fail due to people problems. These can be misconceptions, assumptions, unreasonable or wrong expectations, poor communication, not appreciating the wants and needs you have yourself and the wants and needs your partner has, not understanding the depth of feelings involved, lack of openness, and sometimes simply poor planning. Often these have a dramatic impact on disparity of power, penetration and engagement. Another of the major problems which BDSM folk have in establishing a BDSM-based relationship with a partner is that there are few role models around. Our society provides ample examples of ordinary non-BDSM relationships, but many of the challenges in a BDSM relationship are unique to BDSM. This means that many newcomers to BDSM, and sometimes even old hands, find themselves in situations for which they aren't prepared and in which there may not be any obvious paths to take to get out. While a non-BDSM relationship may survive failing trust or poor communication, BDSM relationships are often much more affected because of the intimate and very personal nature of much of which BDSM activities involve. The focus of this book is these sorts of problems which are specific to BDSM relationships, and the sorts of problems which may also impact ordinary relationships but which can have their own twist in BDSM. The book attempts to illuminate the road ahead, signpost the potholes and pitfalls, and provide helpful detours around common and not-so-common obstacles.
Master/slave Mastery--Advanced by Robert Rubel,M. Jen Fairfield,Robert J Rubel, PH D Pdf
This is an advanced Master/slave book. This is a "content-heavy" book written for readers with very strong core values who have 5+ years of collective relationship experience in either M/s or committed D/s dynamics. It is intended for people who know a lot about a lot and are open to thinking about what they know in a different way. Fundamentally, readers must understand the differences between D/s and M/s in order to comfortably absorb the content. Unlike the fictional world of Masters and slaves, this book discusses the very real challenges and opportunities available to long-term M/s couples. It explains how strong leaders can combine with strong supportive followers to create a magical relationship. The authors draw upon their own extensive personal experience, as well as the experiences and views of literally hundreds of others who identify as M/s as shared during conference presentations and one-on-one discussions. [Robert J. Rubel, PhD (lead author) and M. Jen Fairfield]
"Dom's Guide to BDSM" was specifically written for Doms/Masters. In Volume 2 of this series, we’re going to focus on how to better communicate with a sub, and how to go back and forth with role playing. We’re going to teach you how to express yourself, how to read your sub and look for cues, and how to go about getting a real life BDSM relationship started. We’re also going to discuss how to train your sub accordingly and with a purpose. This is important and is an often-neglected part of the BDSM community. The highly sensationalized, “purely sexual” relationships you read about or see depicted in TV or movies is not the only type of relationship forged. Some relationships really are all about personal missions, self-improvement and getting in touch with suppressed inner feelings. We will cover this as well as the most important part of BDSM dominance—having a plan. You will learn how to be an excellent Dom and it all starts with a few simple steps. Note: If you have not read Volume 1 in this series (Dom's Guide To BDSM Vol. 1: 49 Must-Know Tips On How To Be The Perfect Dom/Master Your submissive Will Truly Respect & Admire), it is highly recommended that you do so before taking on this book.
Thanks to 50 Shades of Grey, BDSM and bondage has gotten more attention than ever. Unfortunately, the novel doesn't really provide neither a comprehensive nor accurate look into the lifestyle. If you want in finding out how BDSM works, this book is for you. By the end of this book, you should have the firsthand knowledge and confidence to foray into the life of BDSM kink, and associate yourself with people who can teach you more! This BDSM Playbook Serie contains four popular BDSM books. Beginner's Guide - Wave Goodbye to Vanilla Today The Secret Guide to Being the Submissive The Secret Guide to Being the Dominant YES MASTER - 39 BDSM Sex Positions and Roleplays To Spice Up Your Relationship Melissa Beach, the author of this book will walk you through everything you need to know about BDSM and bondage. Enjoy!