Being First Time Mothers

Author : Daniel N Stern,Nadia Bruschweiler-Stern
Publisher : Basic Books
Page : 256 pages
File Size : 51,8 Mb
Release : 1998-12-03
Category : Psychology
ISBN : 9780786724628

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The Birth Of A Mother by Daniel N Stern,Nadia Bruschweiler-Stern Pdf

As you prepare to become a mother, you face an experience unlike any other in your life. Having a baby will redirect your preferences and pleasures and, most likely, will realign some of your values.As you undergo this unique psychological transformation, you will be guided by new hopes, fears, and priorities. In a most startling way, having a child will influence all of your closest relationships and redefine your role in your family's history. The charting of this remarkable, new realm is the subject of this compelling book.Renowned psychiatrist Daniel N. Stern has joined forces with pediatrician and child psychiatrist Nadia Bruschweiler-Stern and journalist Alison Freeland to paint a wonderfully evocative picture of the psychology of motherhood. At the heart of The Birth of a Mother is an arresting premise: Just as a baby develops physically in utero and after birth, so a mother is born psychologically in the many months that precede and follow the birth of her baby.The recognition of this inner transformation emerges from hundreds of interviews with new mothers and decades of clinical experience. Filled with revealing case studies and personal comments from women who have shared this experience, this book will serve as an invaluable sourcebook for new mothers, validating the often confusing emotions that accompany the development of this new identity. In addition to providing insight into the unique state of motherhood, the authors touch on related topics such as going back to work, fatherhood, adoption, and premature birth.During pregnancy, mothers-to-be talk about morning sickness and their changing bodies, and new mothers talk about their exhaustion, the benefits of nursing or bottle-feeding, and the dilemma of whether or when they should return to work. And yet, they can be strangely mute about the dramatic and often overwhelming changes going on in their inner lives. Finally, with The Birth of a Mother, these powerful feelings are eloquently put into words.

Author : Erica Komisar
Publisher : Penguin
Page : 288 pages
File Size : 53,8 Mb
Release : 2017-04-11
Category : Family & Relationships
ISBN : 9781101992210

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Being There by Erica Komisar Pdf

A powerful look at the importance of a mother’s presence in the first years of life **Featured in The Wall Street Journal, and seen on Good Morning America, Fox & Friends, and CBS New York** In this important and empowering book, veteran psychoanalyst Erica Komisar explains why a mother's emotional and physical presence in her child's life--especially during the first three years--gives the child a greater chance of growing up emotionally healthy, happy, secure, and resilient. In other words, when it comes to connecting with your baby or toddler, more is more. Compassionate and balanced, and focusing on the emotional health of children and moms alike, this book shows parents how to give their little ones the best chance for developing into healthy and loving adults. Based on more than two decades of clinical work, established psychoanalytic theory, and the most cutting-edge neurobiological research on caregiving, attachment, and brain development, Being There explains: • How to establish emotional connection with a newborn or young child--regardless of whether you're able to work part-time or stay home • How to ease transitions to minimize stress for your baby or toddler • How to select and train quality childcare • What's true and false about widely held beliefs like "I'm not good with babies" and “I’ll make up for it when he’s older” • How to recognize and combat feelings of postpartum depression or boredom • Why three months of maternity leave is not long enough--and how parents can take control of their choices to provide for their family's emotional needs in the first three years Being a new mom isn’t easy. But with support, emotional awareness, and coping skills, it can be the most magical—and essential—work we’ll ever do.

Author : Orna Donath
Publisher : North Atlantic Books
Page : 272 pages
File Size : 51,5 Mb
Release : 2017-07-11
Category : Social Science
ISBN : 9781623171384

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Regretting Motherhood by Orna Donath Pdf

Women who opt not to be mothers are frequently warned that they will regret their decision later in life, yet we rarely talk about the possibility that the opposite might also be true—that women who have children might regret it. Drawing on years of research interviewing women from a variety of socioeconomic, educational, and professional backgrounds, sociologist Orna Donath treats regret as a feminist issue: as regret marks the road not taken, we need to consider whether alternative paths for women currently are blocked off. She asks that we pay attention to what is forbidden by rules governing motherhood, time, and emotion, including the cultural assumption that motherhood is a “natural” role for women—for the sake of all women, not just those who regret becoming mothers. If we are disturbed by the idea that a woman might regret becoming a mother, Donath says, our response should not be to silence and shame these women; rather, we need to ask honest and difficult questions about how society pushes women into motherhood and why those who reconsider it are still seen as a danger to the status quo. Groundbreaking, thoughtful, and provocative, this is an especially needed book in our current political climate, as women's reproductive rights continue to be at the forefront of national debates.

Author : Vicki Breitbart,Nan Bauer-Maglin
Publisher : Unknown
Page : 304 pages
File Size : 49,9 Mb
Release : 2021-09-21
Category : Family & Relationships
ISBN : 1948340453

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Tick Tock by Vicki Breitbart,Nan Bauer-Maglin Pdf

In this groundbreaking collection of essays, poems, and creative nonfiction, more than twenty-nine writers offer witty and incisive insight into the unique experience of being or having an older parent in today's world. By turns raw, funny, tender, and wise, these stories reshape our understanding of the social factors that impact later parenthood, honor the strength and resilience required to overcome countless challenges posed in healthcare and adoption settings, and relish in the many joys of a parent-child relationship, no matter what age. Writers, child development experts, and older parents themselves Vicki Breitbart and Nan Bauer-Maglin have curated a collection that truly affirms and destigmatizes the act of becoming a parent over 40, whether by choice or by chance. Contributors include New York Times bestselling author and National Book Award winner Elizabeth Acevedo; award-winning author Adam Berlin; writer and editor Laura Broadwell; author and editor Salma Abdelnour Gilman; professor and institute director Elizabeth Gregory; podcast producer and host Barbara Herel; author and research scholar Elline Lipkin; retired journalist Linda Wright Moore; founder and executive director of The Democracy Center Jim Shultz; and more.

Author : Raul Artal Mittelmark,Robert A. Wiswell
Publisher : Unknown
Page : 264 pages
File Size : 55,9 Mb
Release : 1986
Category : Health & Fitness
ISBN : UOM:39015009562144

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Exercise in Pregnancy by Raul Artal Mittelmark,Robert A. Wiswell Pdf

Author : Sheila Heti
Publisher : Knopf Canada
Page : 250 pages
File Size : 42,9 Mb
Release : 2018-05-01
Category : Fiction
ISBN : 9780345810564

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Motherhood by Sheila Heti Pdf

A daring, funny, and poignant novel about the desire and duty to procreate, by one of our most brilliant and original writers. Motherhood treats one of the most consequential decisions of early adulthood—whether or not to have children—with the intelligence, wit and originality that have won Sheila Heti international acclaim, and which led her previous work, How Should a Person Be?, to be called "one of the most talked-about books of the year" (TIME magazine). Having reached an age when most of her peers are asking themselves when they will become mothers, Heti's narrator considers, with the same urgency, whether she will do so at all. Over the course of several years, under the influence of her partner, body, family, friends, mysticism and chance, she struggles to make a moral and meaningful choice. In a compellingly direct mode that straddles the forms of the novel and the essay, Motherhood raises radical and essential questions about womanhood, parenthood, and how—and for whom—to live.

Author : Heidi Murkoff
Publisher : Workman Publishing
Page : 833 pages
File Size : 51,8 Mb
Release : 2008-10-08
Category : Family & Relationships
ISBN : 9780761148319

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What to Expect the First Year by Heidi Murkoff Pdf

Some things about babies, happily, will never change. They still arrive warm, cuddly, soft, and smelling impossibly sweet. But how moms and dads care for their brand-new bundles of baby joy has changed—and now, so has the new-baby bible. Announcing the completely revised third edition of What to Expect the First Year. With over 10.5 million copies in print, First Year is the world’s best-selling, best-loved guide to the instructions that babies don’t come with, but should. And now, it’s better than ever. Every parent’s must-have/go-to is completely updated. Keeping the trademark month-by-month format that allows parents to take the potentially overwhelming first year one step at a time, First Year is easier-to-read, faster-to-flip-through, and new-family-friendlier than ever—packed with even more practical tips, realistic advice, and relatable, accessible information than before. Illustrations are new, too. Among the changes: Baby care fundamentals—crib and sleep safety, feeding, vitamin supplements—are revised to reflect the most recent guidelines. Breastfeeding gets more coverage, too, from getting started to keeping it going. Hot-button topics and trends are tackled: attachment parenting, sleep training, early potty learning (elimination communication), baby-led weaning, and green parenting (from cloth diapers to non-toxic furniture). An all-new chapter on buying for baby helps parents navigate through today’s dizzying gamut of baby products, nursery items, and gear. Also new: tips on preparing homemade baby food, the latest recommendations on starting solids, research on the impact of screen time (TVs, tablets, apps, computers), and “For Parents” boxes that focus on mom’s and dad’s needs. Throughout, topics are organized more intuitively than ever, for the best user experience possible.

Author : Lisa-Jo Baker
Publisher : Tyndale House Publishers, Inc.
Page : 241 pages
File Size : 53,6 Mb
Release : 2014-04-01
Category : Family & Relationships
ISBN : 9781414391007

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Surprised by Motherhood by Lisa-Jo Baker Pdf

A lawyer with a well-stamped passport and a passion for human rights, Lisa-Jo Baker never wanted to be a mom. And then she had kids. Having lost her own mother to cancer as a teenager, Lisa-Jo felt lost on her journey to womanhood and wholly unprepared to raise children. Surprised by Motherhood is Lisa-Jos story of becoming and being a mom, and in the process, discovering that all the what to expect and how to books in the world can never truly prepare you for the sheer exhilaration, joy, and terrifying love that accompanies motherhood. Set partly in South Africa and partly in the US (with a slight detour to Ukraine along the way), Surprised by Motherhood is a poignant memoir of one womans dawning realization that being a mom isnt about being perfectits about being present.

Author : Gea Meijering
Publisher : Icare Press LLC
Page : 80 pages
File Size : 44,9 Mb
Release : 2008-12
Category : Childbirth
ISBN : 0692000097

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The First 8 Days of Being a Mom by Gea Meijering Pdf

Geared towards moms' health and changes as well as that of the newborn, this 80 pages friendly read is a hands-on guide that leads moms through what happens on delivery day as well as the next few eventful, exiting, not to mention exhausting days. Including maternity care, newborn care, 'how to' pictures and illustrations, explanations in plain English and room to add special memories.

Author : Karen Kleiman
Publisher : Workman Publishing
Page : 162 pages
File Size : 47,7 Mb
Release : 2019-07-19
Category : Self-Help
ISBN : 9781641701525

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Good Moms Have Scary Thoughts by Karen Kleiman Pdf

Over 90 percent of new mothers will have scary, intrusive thoughts about their baby and themselves. What if I drop him? What if I snap and hurt my baby? Mothering is so hard—I don't know if I really want to do this anymore. Gosh, I'm so terrible for thinking that! Yet for too many mothers, those thoughts remain secret, hidden away in a place of shame that can quickly grow into anxiety, postpartum depression, and even self-harm. But here's the good news: you CAN feel better! Author Karen Kleiman—coauthor of the seminal book This Isn't What I Expected and founder of the acclaimed Postpartum Stress Center—comes to the aid of new mothers everywhere with a groundbreaking new source of hope, compassion, and expert help. Good Moms Have Scary Thoughts is packed with world-class guidance, simple exercises, and nearly 50 stigma-busting cartoons from the viral #speakthesecret campaign that help new moms validate their feelings, share their fears, and start feeling better. Lighthearted yet serious, warm yet not sugary, and perfectly portioned for busy moms with full plates, Good Moms Have Scary Thoughts is the go-to resource for moms, partners, and families everywhere who need help with this difficult period.

Author : Olsen Kate
Publisher : Unknown
Page : 120 pages
File Size : 40,9 Mb
Release : 2020-01-03
Category : Family & Relationships
ISBN : 1952083346

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First-Time Mom by Olsen Kate Pdf

Are you nervous about delivering a baby for the first time? Are you anxious and confused about the changes happening to your body? Then you need to keep reading... As soon as a few weeks after conception, the pregnant body sees drastic changes. Due to dramatic increases in progesterone, estrogen, and other hormones, women can experience a range of shocking symptoms: hair will become thicker and grow in new areas, bones soften, lung capacity increases, the heart enlarges, and much more. For first-time mothers, learning to differentiate between what's expected and what's abnormal can cause a large amount of needless stress, leaving less time to think about what really matters. In First Time Mom, you'll discover: The EXACT formula for a healthy, joyous pregnancy. (By adopting these lifestyle changes, you can ensure a smooth and stress-free nine months ahead!) Everything you can expect from each trimester and beyond. The warning symptoms that you should never ignore. Pregnancy secrets that no one ever tells you about. Ten crucial facts about newborns that all parents must be aware of. The truth about what to expect in the delivery room. Seven important pieces of advice that all first-time moms MUST know. (Abiding by these tips are a sure path to a happy newborn and mom!) And much, much more... As a FREE bonus, you'll also receive a free chapter from The Mindful Path to Self Compassion because we truly believe that every baby is much happier when mom has learned to be kind to herself. Even if you are clueless about pregnancy, or constantly feel like you don't know what you're doing, the extensive research behind this guide can ensure you'll cultivate unwavering confidence during this important time, and learn all the vital information needed to nurture a happy, healthy baby, paving your way to a promising and soul-enriching motherhood. By relying on the expert research behind this guide, you'll learn exactly what symptoms to expect during each stage of your pregnancy, what they mean, and all the expert tricks to ease any difficulty that arises with your body or your baby. If you want to access this advanced information only known to experienced mothers and midwives, then you should read this book!

Author : Angela Garbes
Publisher : HarperCollins
Page : 256 pages
File Size : 43,9 Mb
Release : 2018-05-29
Category : Health & Fitness
ISBN : 9780062662965

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Like a Mother by Angela Garbes Pdf

A candid, feminist, and personal deep dive into the science and culture of pregnancy and motherhood Like most first-time mothers, Angela Garbes was filled with questions when she became pregnant. What exactly is a placenta and how does it function? How does a body go into labor? Why is breast best? Is wine totally off-limits? But as she soon discovered, it’s not easy to find satisfying answers. Your obstetrician will cautiously quote statistics; online sources will scare you with conflicting and often inaccurate data; and even the most trusted books will offer information with a heavy dose of judgment. To educate herself, the food and culture writer embarked on an intensive journey of exploration, diving into the scientific mysteries and cultural attitudes that surround motherhood to find answers to questions that had only previously been given in the form of advice about what women ought to do—rather than allowing them the freedom to choose the right path for themselves. In Like a Mother, Garbes offers a rigorously researched and compelling look at the physiology, biology, and psychology of pregnancy and motherhood, informed by in-depth reportage and personal experience. With the curiosity of a journalist, the perspective of a feminist, and the intimacy and urgency of a mother, she explores the emerging science behind the pressing questions women have about everything from miscarriage to complicated labors to postpartum changes. The result is a visceral, full-frontal look at what’s really happening during those nine life-altering months, and why women deserve access to better care, support, and information. Infused with humor and born out of awe, appreciation, and understanding of the female body and its strength, Like a Mother debunks common myths and dated assumptions, offering guidance and camaraderie to women navigating one of the biggest and most profound changes in their lives.

Author : Lawrence Wright
Publisher : Vintage
Page : 401 pages
File Size : 41,5 Mb
Release : 2021-04-27
Category : Fiction
ISBN : 9780593081143

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The End of October by Lawrence Wright Pdf

NEW YORK TIMES BESTSELLER • From the Pulitzer Prize-winning author of The Looming Tower—a riveting thriller and “all-too-convincing chronicle of science, espionage, action and speculation” (The Wall Street Journal). At an internment camp in Indonesia, forty-seven people are pronounced dead with acute hemorrhagic fever. When epidemiologist Henry Parsons travels there on behalf of the World Health Organization to investigate, what he finds will have staggering repercussions. Halfway across the globe, the deputy director of U.S. Homeland Security scrambles to mount a response to the rapidly spreading pandemic leapfrogging around the world, which she believes may be the result of an act of biowarfare. And a rogue experimenter in man-made diseases is preparing his own terrifying solution. As already-fraying global relations begin to snap, the virus slashes across the United States, dismantling institutions and decimating the population. With his own wife and children facing diminishing odds of survival, Henry travels from Indonesia to Saudi Arabia to his home base at the CDC in Atlanta, searching for a cure and for the origins of this seemingly unknowable disease. The End of October is a one-of-a-kind thriller steeped in real-life political and scientific implications, filled with the insight that has been the hallmark of Wright’s acclaimed nonfiction and the full-tilt narrative suspense that only the best fiction can offer.

Author : Ramona Thieme Mercer
Publisher : New York : Springer Publishing Company
Page : 408 pages
File Size : 51,6 Mb
Release : 1986
Category : Age factors in disease
ISBN : UOM:39015010141763

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First-time Motherhood by Ramona Thieme Mercer Pdf

Author : Shruti Haldia Negi
Publisher : Sristhi Publishers & Distributors
Page : 46 pages
File Size : 52,6 Mb
Release : 2020-09-01
Category : Family & Relationships
ISBN : 8210379456XXX

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First-Time Mommy by Shruti Haldia Negi Pdf

Becoming a mother for the first time can be so overwhelming. You’re experiencing a whole new set of emotions while constantly caring for a newborn. This new responsibility can often leave you feeling lost and confused. To add on to the confusion, comes unsolicited advice from everyone around you, judging you and telling you to do things differently. You’ll look for answers on the internet only to find a lot of misinformation and negative stories that will aggravate your anxiety. First Time Mommy – A Millennial Mom’s Guide to Surviving Motherhood attempts to demystify motherhood - from the curious case of feeding to the mysterious affair of teething. We’ll take a trip to the guilt valley and discuss the tragedy in the bedroom. This book has everything you need to know for surviving the first two years of your motherhood journey.