How To Have A Faithful Marriage Marital Infidelity Is Not An Option

Author : Dueep Jyot Singh,John Davidson
Publisher : Mendon Cottage Books
Page : 71 pages
File Size : 53,6 Mb
Release : 2017-02-27
Category : Family & Relationships
ISBN : 9781370998234

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How to Have a Faithful Marriage - Marital Infidelity Is Not an Option by Dueep Jyot Singh,John Davidson Pdf

Table of Contents Introduction Wife Vs. Mistress – the Historical Background Legitimacy Vs. Illegitimacy If One Is Tempted to Stray… But I Think He Is Also Being Unfaithful… We are Growing Apart… Is My Marriage Going Sour? At Least She Does Not Nag… Some Old-Fashioned Reminiscences Desperately Hanging onto Your Man… Conclusion Author Bio Publisher Introduction We were just talking generally, when a friend of mine told me that she did not mind her husband straying occasionally as long as he came back to his wife and kids at the end of the day. I was horrified and shocked. Here was a sensible, intelligent, woman who was condoning marital infidelity, by saying overtly, men will be men, and marital infidelity is acceptable. This book is for all those people who believe that marital infidelity in any form is unacceptable, socially, traditionally, religiously, psychologically, mentally, emotionally, and spiritually. In every marriage ceremony, in any religion, coming down through the ages, two people are joined together, as husband and wife. In many marriage ceremonies, it is always said that you have to be faithful to one another, and under no option do you stray. But in many ancient civilizations and societies, wives accepted the fact that their men would stray, even though they were married, because that was the nature of the man.

Author : John Gottman,Nan Silver
Publisher : Simon and Schuster
Page : 304 pages
File Size : 48,8 Mb
Release : 2013-09-10
Category : FAMILY & RELATIONSHIPS
ISBN : 9781451608489

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What Makes Love Last? by John Gottman,Nan Silver Pdf

"One of the foremost relationship experts at work today applies the insights of science toward understanding the real meaning of trust between a couple. He decodes the "why" behind betrayal and shows how partners can avoid or recover from unfaithfulness and maintain a loving relationship.Dr. John Gottman, the country's pre-eminent researcher on marriage, is famous for his Love Lab at the University of Washington in Seattle where he deciphers the mysteries of human relationships through scientific research. His thirty-five years of exploration have earned him numerous major awards, including from the National Institute of Mental Health, the American Psychological Association, and the American Association for Marriage and Family Therapy. Now, Dr. Gottman offers surprising findings and advice on the characteristic that is at the heart of all relationships: Trust. Dr. Gottman has developed a formula that precisely calculates any couple's loyalty level. The results determine a relationship's likely future, including the potential for one or both partners to stray. A Love You Can Trust shows couples how to bolster their trust level and avoid what Dr. Gottman calls the "Roach Motel for Lovers." He describes how the outcome of--"sliding door moments," small pivotal points between a couple, can lead either to more emotional connection or to discontent. He suggests a new approach to handling adultery and reveals the varied and unexpected non-sexual ways that couples often betray each other. A Love You Can Trust guides couples through an empirically tested, trust-building program that will let them repair and maintain a long-term, intimate, and romantic relationship"--

Author : Willard F. Harley
Publisher : Revell
Page : 320 pages
File Size : 47,7 Mb
Release : 2008-05
Category : Family & Relationships
ISBN : 9780800718947

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Love Busters by Willard F. Harley Pdf

This fifteenth anniversary edition helps couples identify and overcome the most common habits that destroy the feeling of love.

Author : Esther Perel
Publisher : HarperCollins
Page : 321 pages
File Size : 52,9 Mb
Release : 2017-10-10
Category : Psychology
ISBN : 9780062322609

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The State of Affairs by Esther Perel Pdf

"A fresh look at infidelity, broadening the focus from the havoc it wreaks within a committed relationship to consider also why people do it, what it means to them, and why breaking up is the expected response to duplicity — but not necessarily the wisest one.” — LA Review of Books From iconic couples’ therapist and bestselling author of Mating in Captivity comes a provocative and controversial look at infidelity with practical, honest, and empathetic advice for how to move beyond it. An affair: it can rob a couple of their relationship, their happiness, their very identity. And yet, this extremely common human experience is so poorly understood. What are we to make of this time-honored taboo—universally forbidden yet universally practiced? Why do people cheat—even those in happy marriages? Why does an affair hurt so much? When we say infidelity, what exactly do we mean? Do our romantic expectations of marriage set us up for betrayal? Is there such a thing as an affair-proof marriage? Is it possible to love more than one person at once? Can an affair ever help a marriage? Perel weaves real-life case stories with incisive psychological and cultural analysis in this fast-paced and compelling book. For the past ten years, Perel has traveled the globe and worked with hundreds of couples who have grappled with infidelity. Betrayal hurts, she writes, but it can be healed. An affair can even be the doorway to a new marriage—with the same person. With the right approach, couples can grow and learn from these tumultuous experiences, together or apart. Affairs, she argues, have a lot to teach us about modern relationships—what we expect, what we think we want, and what we feel entitled to. They offer a unique window into our personal and cultural attitudes about love, lust, and commitment. Through examining illicit love from multiple angles, Perel invites readers into an honest, enlightened, and entertaining exploration of modern marriage in its many variations. Fiercely intelligent, The State of Affairs provides a daring framework for understanding the intricacies of love and desire. As Perel observes, “Love is messy; infidelity more so. But it is also a window, like no other, into the crevices of the human heart.”

Author : Tim Tedder
Publisher : Unknown
Page : 128 pages
File Size : 55,6 Mb
Release : 2017-02-06
Category : Electronic
ISBN : 0997801883

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Affair Healing by Tim Tedder Pdf

Author : Dueep Jyot Singh,John Davidson
Publisher : Mendon Cottage Books
Page : 48 pages
File Size : 52,5 Mb
Release : 2017-03-04
Category : Family & Relationships
ISBN : 9781370122011

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How to Affair Proof Your Marriage - Tips for Men by Dueep Jyot Singh,John Davidson Pdf

Table of Contents Introduction Faced with “Temptation” Dare You Call Her Game? It Is Possible I Am Really so Attractive in Her Eyes… Another Side effect of promiscuous behavior – STDs But Life is So Boring with Her… Conclusion Author Bio Publisher This book is for all those men, who are thinking of getting into a long-term commitment with the women of their choice, and consider marriage to be something for keeps. This is going to give you plenty of good advice, guidance, and tips, on how you can be faithful, and make sure that the shadow of a sleazy affair does not enter the threshold of your happy home.

Author : Dr Anniekie Ravhudzulo
Publisher : Xlibris Corporation
Page : 218 pages
File Size : 45,9 Mb
Release : 2012-01-23
Category : Family & Relationships
ISBN : 9781465309860

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Riding the Wave of the Sting of Infidelity in a Marriage by Dr Anniekie Ravhudzulo Pdf

Marriage is under tremendous assault as never before. Will marriage survive? Can it survive? Infi delity is exploding, but why? In most cultures, infi delity has become a major part of entertainment. We all see it in popular television programs and movies. Infi delity to some is enjoyment and pleasure. Some men think if they are not slipping and cheating they are not being real men. Some individuals grew up in environments where cheating is a way of life. Some women think life is boring without the excitement of an outside affair. In spite of the reasons, God to His creation says No to infi delity. Become the good husband or wife you would like your spouse to be. Life has taught me that men and women get involved in an extramarital affair for many different reasons. Sometimes when you are unsatisfi ed with your relationship you start to think What is available out there? In a way it is an escape, people feel like they want to be out from the burden in their marriages. Grass is greener on the other side and so it seems. I have seen many starting to fl irter with others, innocently at fi rst. They start to THINK of what ifs situations such as what if Im married to this friend of mine? Many people forget that slowly they bring themselves into an extramarital affair and become trapped to another crisis. Let me remind you that trust is like a balloon. One pricks it, is gone! The fear of broken promises, cheating or betrayal can reduce the quality of your marriage. Marriage is a challenging an enterprise that requires hard work, determination and discipline. Creating a strong and satisfying marriage is possible, and it is defi nitely worth the effort! Recovery after infi delity is not an easy path, but if others could pull through, so can you!

Author : Michele Weiner Davis
Publisher : Simon and Schuster
Page : 256 pages
File Size : 44,7 Mb
Release : 1993-02
Category : Family & Relationships
ISBN : 9780671797256

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Divorce Busting by Michele Weiner Davis Pdf

A step-by-step approach to making your marriage loving again.

Author : Jill Duba Onedera
Publisher : Routledge
Page : 301 pages
File Size : 48,7 Mb
Release : 2007-07-19
Category : Family & Relationships
ISBN : 9781135917722

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The Role of Religion in Marriage and Family Counseling by Jill Duba Onedera Pdf

Religion can play a vital role in the way people relate to each other, particularly with interpersonal dynamics within a family. The role of a couple or family’s religion(s) in the counseling room is no less important. This book provides practitioners with an overview of the principles of the major world religions, with specific focus on how each religion can influence family dynamics, and how best to incorporate this knowledge into effective practice with clients.

Author : Tracy Schorn
Publisher : Running Press Adult
Page : 240 pages
File Size : 40,6 Mb
Release : 2016-05-10
Category : Family & Relationships
ISBN : 9780762459056

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Leave a Cheater, Gain a Life by Tracy Schorn Pdf

Leave a Cheater, Gain a Life is a no-nonsense self-help guide for anyone who has ever been cheated on. Here's advice not based on saving your relationship after infidelity—but saving your sanity. When it comes to cheating, a lot of the attention is focused on cheaters—their unmet needs or their challenges with monogamy. But Tracy Schorn (aka Chump Lady) lampoons such blameshifting and puts the focus squarely on the-cheated-upon (chumps) and their needs. Combining solid advice that champions self-respect, along with hilarious cartoons satirizing the pomposity of cheaters, Leave a Cheater, Gain a Life offers a fresh voice for chumps who want (and need) a new message about infidelity. This book will offer advice on Stupid sh*t cheaters say and how to respond, Rookie mistakes of the recently chumped and how to disarm your fears, Why chumps take the blame and how to protect yourself, and more. Full of snark, sass, and real wisdom about how to bounce back after the gut blow of betrayal, Schorn is the friend who guides you through this nightmare and gives you hope for a better life ahead.

Author : Jackie Pilossoph
Publisher : Unknown
Page : 0 pages
File Size : 45,6 Mb
Release : 2013-11-23
Category : Contests
ISBN : 1490463763

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Divorced Girl Smiling by Jackie Pilossoph Pdf

Smile! It's not just the end of your marriage, it's the beginning of your second chance! Missy Benson has a two and a half carat diamond engagement ring with color grade H, VS2 clarity and a value of $36,000. It's absolutely gorgeous, practically flawless, and let's be honest, really big! But what the successful Chicago realtor doesn't have anymore is a husband. After 12 years of marriage, her husband, Paul, a handsome, wealthy attorney has devastated her by breaking up their marriage for Priscilla Sommerfeld, a young, personal trainer, who according to Missy's sassy assistant, J.J., looks more like a Las Vegas stripper than a fitness expert. Not sure what to do with her ring, and with no financial issues to worry about, Missy decides to put it up for sale on Craigslist. The price: 99 cents! The catch: She gets to pick the buyer. In essence, she's looking for the perfect guy, but not for herself. Her hope is to regain faith that good men do exist, and that marriages can last forever. Now referring to herself as "the divorced girl," Missy interviews dozens of young men who are vying for the huge ring. It's a contest that includes outrageous characters, hilarious and sentimental stories, and two finalists, both of whom Missy adores and who she must choose between. Then there's Parker Missoni, the sexiest contestant by far, who drives her crazy with his brutal honesty, and at the same time stops her heart with his deep brown eyes. Divorced Girl Smiling is the story of a woman's journey to do whatever it takes to heal herself from divorce. It's about acceptance, reflection, taking accountability for mistakes, and appreciating all of life's wonderful gifts. In other words, if you have the guts to put the past behind, admit your mistakes, embrace your future, and give love another chance, you will surely be a divorced girl smiling.

Author : Dr. Caroline Madden, Marriage Therapist
Publisher : Train of Thought Press
Page : 52 pages
File Size : 40,7 Mb
Release : 2014-12-05
Category : Self-Help
ISBN : 9780990772842

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Fool Me Once: Should I Take Back My Cheating Husband? by Dr. Caroline Madden, Marriage Therapist Pdf

You always said if your man cheated, you'd leave him so fast his head would spin. But now that it's happened it's not so black and white, is it?Caroline Madden, MFT is an affair recovery specialist. She has over a decade of experience in helping couples challenged by infidelity in marriage and teaching women how to survive their husband's affair. In Fool Me Once, she shares the criteria she uses to determine if a man is truly remorseful and determined to save his marriage or if he will continue to cheat and hurt you.Here is some of the information she shares:* 5 Things That Look Suspiciously Like Your Spouse is Still Cheating (But He Probably Isn't)* 5 Signs You Should Consider Giving Him A Chance to Rebuild Trust & Intimacy After infidelity * 7 Signs He is Going to Cheat Again (And You Will Be Hurt Again)Infidelity is traumatic, and you need to take time to assess the situation. Fool Me Once will give you the tools you need to evaluate your relationship. It will help you determine whether you should trust your husband or not and decide if your marriage is worth saving.Don't Make a Decision Now That You'll Regret Later ! As they say "Fool me once, shame on you. Fool me twice, shame on me."Infidelity, Divorce Advice, Affairs In Marriage, affair recovery

Author : Helene Marie Cruz
Publisher : WestBow Press
Page : 192 pages
File Size : 54,6 Mb
Release : 2012-10
Category : Religion
ISBN : 9781449768720

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An Eternal Affair by Helene Marie Cruz Pdf

An Eternal Affair: Scriptures and Encouragement to Carry You throughout Your Journey with Jesus is a practical, devotional-style book intended to introduce new believers in Christ to the faith, providing them with basic biblical principles that every Christian needs to know (and follow). It was also written for those who are already walking with Jesus to be encouraged throughout many storms of life and for them to come up higher in the things of the Lord as they serve the body of Christ, inside and outside of church. Author Helene Marie Cruz presents this in an autobiographical way, sharing her heart through life experiences and revelations that God has given her in order to evangelize and exhort Saints—old and new.

Author : Gordon D. Fee
Publisher : Baker Books
Page : 191 pages
File Size : 43,5 Mb
Release : 2011-08-01
Category : Religion
ISBN : 9781441236456

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1 & 2 Timothy, Titus (Understanding the Bible Commentary Series) by Gordon D. Fee Pdf

The Understanding the Bible Commentary Series helps readers navigate the strange and sometimes intimidating literary terrain of the Bible. These accessible volumes break down the barriers between the ancient and modern worlds so that the power and meaning of the biblical texts become transparent to contemporary readers. The contributors tackle the task of interpretation using the full range of critical methodologies and practices, yet they do so as people of faith who hold the text in the highest regard. Pastors, teachers, and lay people alike will cherish the truth found in this commentary series.

Author : Shirley Glass
Publisher : Simon and Schuster
Page : 450 pages
File Size : 45,7 Mb
Release : 2007-11-01
Category : Family & Relationships
ISBN : 9781416586401

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NOT "Just Friends" by Shirley Glass Pdf

One of the world’s leading experts on infidelity provides a step-by-step guide through the process of infidelity—from suspicion and revelation to healing, and provides profound, practical guidance to prevent infidelity and, if it happens, recover and heal from it. You’re right to be cautious when you hear these words: “I’m telling you, we’re just friends.” Good people in good marriages are having affairs. The workplace and the Internet have become fertile breeding grounds for “friendships” that can slowly and insidiously turn into love affairs. Yet you can protect your relationship from emotional or sexual betrayal by recognizing the red flags that mark the stages of slipping into an improper, dangerous intimacy that can threaten your marriage.