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12 Hidden Rewards of Making Amends

Author : Allen Berger
Publisher : Hazelden Publishing
Page : 230 pages
File Size : 42,6 Mb
Release : 2013-05-28
Category : Self-Help
ISBN : 9781616494469

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Did you know there are hidden rewards to making amends? Without a willingness to experience our painful feelings, we can never grow and mature into the person we'd like to be. We can never reach our potential. We can never become our true-self. To grow, we must stay in close contact with our experience, whatever it is. We need to stay in close contact with how we behaved in our relationships in order to make a thorough list of those we have harmed. We must face the wrongs we have done without running away from the truth. If we were rigorously honest with ourselves while making the list of people we had harmed, we probably felt one or more of the following feelings: anxiety, shame, discomfort, or guilt. This is exactly what we were suppose to feel. We were learning that we don't have to feel comfortable to be OK. In fact, another hidden reward is that the more willing we are to feel uncomfortable the more comfortable we become. Yes, another paradox! One of the many hidden rewards in working Steps 8,9, and 10 is to stay in close contact with our experience so we can learn from it. This self-understanding is at the heart of self-forgiveness and emotional recovery. --Excerpted from 12 Hidden Rewards of Making Amends

On Repentance And Repair

Author : Danya Ruttenberg
Publisher : Beacon Press
Page : 258 pages
File Size : 49,8 Mb
Release : 2022-09-13
Category : Religion
ISBN : 9780807010594

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Winner NATIONAL JEWISH BOOK AWARDS in Contemporary Jewish Life & Practice Myra H. Kraft Memorial Award A crucial new lens on repentance, atonement, forgiveness, and repair from harm—from personal transgressions to our culture’s most painful and unresolved issues American culture focuses on letting go of grudges and redemption narratives instead of the perpetrator’s obligations or recompense for harmed parties. As survivor communities have pointed out, these emphases have too often only caused more harm. But Danya Ruttenberg knew there was a better model, rooted in the work of the medieval philosopher Maimonides. For Maimonides, upon whose work Ruttenberg elaborates, forgiveness is much less important than the repair work to which the person who caused harm is obligated. The word traditionally translated as repentance really means something more like return, and in this book, returning is a restoration, as much as is possible, to the victim, and, for the perpetrator of harm, a coming back, in humility and intentionality, to behaving as the person we might like to believe we are. Maimonides laid out 5 steps: naming and owning harm; starting to change/transformation; restitution and accepting consequences; apology; and making different choices. Applying this lens to both our personal relationships and some of the most significant and painful issues of our day, including systemic racism and the legacy of enslavement, sexual violence and harassment in the wake of #MeToo, and Native American land rights, On Repentance and Repair helps us envision a way forward. Rooted in traditional Jewish concepts while doggedly accessible and available to people from any, or no, religious background, On Repentance and Repair is a book for anyone who cares about creating a country and culture that is more whole than the one in which we live, and for anyone who has been hurt or who is struggling to take responsibility for their mistakes.

Making Amends

Author : Linda Radzik
Publisher : Oxford University Press
Page : 255 pages
File Size : 49,5 Mb
Release : 2011-04-07
Category : Law
ISBN : 9780199767250

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It is often assumed that wrongdoing can only be resolved through punishment or forgiveness. But this book explores the responses that wrongdoers can and should make to their own misdeeds, responses such as apology, repentance, reparations, and self-punishment. It examines the possibility of atonement in a broad spectrum of contexts -- from cases of relatively minor wrongs in personal relationships, to crimes, to the historical injustices of our political and religious communities. It argues that wrongdoers often have the ability to earn redemption within the moral community, that respect and trust among victims, communities and wrongdoers can be rebuilt, and that the moral responsibility of wrongdoing groups can be addressed without treating their members unfairly.

Making Amends

Author : Gwynn Davis
Publisher : Routledge
Page : 246 pages
File Size : 45,8 Mb
Release : 2002-09-11
Category : Medical
ISBN : 9781134918508

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Reparation, or making amends, is an ancient theme in criminal justice. It was revived in both Europe and North America in the 1980s as a practical alternative both to retributivism, and to the various utilitarian projects traditionally associated with retributive justice.Making Amends examines the practice of these schemes in the UK, USA, and Germany, and shows how criminal justice institutions were unresponsive to these attempts to cast justice in a new form. Yet the experiments reflected an abiding dissatisfaction with criminal courts and with the manner in which justice is conceived and expressed within the criminal framework. The authors' conclusions therefore have implications for the workings of the criminal justice system as a whole.

Payback

Author : Lorenzo Carcaterra
Publisher : Ballantine Books
Page : 305 pages
File Size : 46,8 Mb
Release : 2020
Category : Fiction
ISBN : 9780399177590

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A former NYPD Detective goes after a corrupt cop, while also trying to takedown a money-laundering accounting firm that he believes is responsible for his brother's death.

Twelve Steps and Twelve Traditions Trade Edition

Author : Bill W.
Publisher : Alcoholics Anonymous World Services
Page : 192 pages
File Size : 47,6 Mb
Release : 1953
Category : Self-Help
ISBN : 0916856011

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Twelve Steps to recovery.

Making Amends

Author : Aa Grapevine
Publisher : AA Grapevine
Page : 144 pages
File Size : 49,9 Mb
Release : 2017-04-15
Category : Electronic
ISBN : 1938413164

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Candid stories from AA members about their ex- periences with Steps Eight and Nine. Includes chapters about amends with parents, friends, exes, financial institututions, coworkers and more.

Alcoholics Anonymous

Author : Bill W.
Publisher : Penguin
Page : 480 pages
File Size : 55,8 Mb
Release : 2014-09-04
Category : Self-Help
ISBN : 9780698176935

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A 75th anniversary e-book version of the most important and practical self-help book ever written, Alcoholics Anonymous. Here is a special deluxe edition of a book that has changed millions of lives and launched the modern recovery movement: Alcoholics Anonymous. This edition not only reproduces the original 1939 text of Alcoholics Anonymous, but as a special bonus features the complete 1941 Saturday Evening Post article “Alcoholics Anonymous” by journalist Jack Alexander, which, at the time, did as much as the book itself to introduce millions of seekers to AA’s program. Alcoholics Anonymous has touched and transformed myriad lives, and finally appears in a volume that honors its posterity and impact.

Emotional Sobriety

Author : Aa Grapevine
Publisher : Unknown
Page : 108 pages
File Size : 40,7 Mb
Release : 2011
Category : Electronic
ISBN : 1938413024

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Volume Two of one of our most popular books. Sober AA members describe the positive transformations sobriety can bring as they practice the principles of the program in all aspects of their lives.

Making Amends

Author : Lynda Ellis
Publisher : Trafford Publishing
Page : 94 pages
File Size : 50,8 Mb
Release : 2005
Category : Religion
ISBN : 9781412050883

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"The greatest healing tool a mother could give herself." Are you ready to change your life? Lynda is the "MOTHER" of mothers. As she shares her pain, You find your way to forgiveness. As she reclaims her gifts, You remember yours. You picked up Messages, Wounds & Gifts for a reason. Lynda unlocked the door to her heart. You will too.

Making Amends

Author : D. J. Callaghan
Publisher : FriesenPress
Page : 251 pages
File Size : 43,9 Mb
Release : 2020-09-22
Category : Fiction
ISBN : 9781525576539

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When her marriage is on the brink of failure, Jenna the unbreakable starts to crack. And when she does, all heaven breaks loose. Jenna is one of those unstoppable people who walks through life without breaking stride even when the whole world is falling down around her. Her life has been filled with trauma, but she’s always risen above it. Until the day she no longer can. Her Brother Mac thought suicide would be the end of his pain. In the afterlife he finds not only is this not the case, but he now has to fix the traumas his actions have caused. But he’s not alone. Accompanied by Jenna’s guardian angel Mac saves his sister and embarks on a journey of discovery. With this celestial support team, Jenna is able get back on track and help her brother in his mission. Making Amends follows Jenna as, in her newly fortified state, she joins forces with her spiritual cohorts and the trio dedicate themselves to helping others caught in the cross hairs of mental illness.

12 Hidden Rewards of Making Amends

Author : Allen Berger
Publisher : Simon and Schuster
Page : 200 pages
File Size : 47,7 Mb
Release : 2013-06-01
Category : Self-Help
ISBN : 9781616494940

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Popular recovery author Allen Berger, PhD, guides us in working three of the most challenging of the Twelve Steps to reap the abundant rewards of making amends. Letting go of resentment and forgiving ourselves for our past wrongs are critical to recovery from alcohol and other drugs. Yet, Steps Eight, Nine, and Ten, which focus on making amends, can be some of the most challenging to work, because we must face ourselves and those who we have hurt or damaged.In 12 Hidden Rewards of Making Amends, Allen Berger, PhD, uses the same supportive, down-to-earth style as in his popular book 12 Stupid Things That Mess Up Recovery. His creative tools and tips will help us let go of anger, heal strained relationships, and make financial and emotional restitution. Through this transformative process we can:recover and maintain integrityresolve or complete unfinished businessrestore trust, self-esteem, and self-confidencedeepen our spirituality and peace of mindreinforce a strong commitment to recoveryBy being accountable for our words and actions and moving forward with a compassionate and constructive approach to the world, we decrease our chance of relapse and learn to maintain a healthy, balanced life.

Gone So Long: A Novel

Author : Andre Dubus III
Publisher : W. W. Norton & Company
Page : 480 pages
File Size : 52,8 Mb
Release : 2018-10-02
Category : Fiction
ISBN : 9780393244113

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Andre Dubus III’s first novel in a decade is a masterpiece of thrilling tension and heartrending empathy. Few writers can enter their characters so completely or evoke their lives as viscerally as Andre Dubus III. In this deeply compelling new novel, a father, estranged for the worst of reasons, is driven to seek out the daughter he has not seen in decades. Daniel Ahearn lives a quiet, solitary existence in a seaside New England town. Forty years ago, following a shocking act of impulsive violence on his part, his daughter, Susan, was ripped from his arms by police. Now in her forties, Susan still suffers from the trauma of a night she doesn’t remember, as she struggles to feel settled, to love a man and create something that lasts. Lois, her maternal grandmother who raised her, tries to find peace in her antique shop in a quaint Florida town but cannot escape her own anger, bitterness, and fear. Cathartic, affirming, and steeped in the empathy and precise observations of character for which Dubus is celebrated, Gone So Long explores how the wounds of the past afflict the people we become, and probes the limits of recovery and absolution.

Becoming Kin

Author : Patty Krawec
Publisher : Broadleaf Books
Page : 225 pages
File Size : 46,6 Mb
Release : 2022-09-27
Category : History
ISBN : 9781506478265

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We find our way forward by going back. The invented history of the Western world is crumbling fast, Anishinaabe writer Patty Krawec says, but we can still honor the bonds between us. Settlers dominated and divided, but Indigenous peoples won't just send them all "home." Weaving her own story with the story of her ancestors and with the broader themes of creation, replacement, and disappearance, Krawec helps readers see settler colonialism through the eyes of an Indigenous writer. Settler colonialism tried to force us into one particular way of living, but the old ways of kinship can help us imagine a different future. Krawec asks, What would it look like to remember that we are all related? How might we become better relatives to the land, to one another, and to Indigenous movements for solidarity? Braiding together historical, scientific, and cultural analysis, Indigenous ways of knowing, and the vivid threads of communal memory, Krawec crafts a stunning, forceful call to "unforget" our history. This remarkable sojourn through Native and settler history, myth, identity, and spirituality helps us retrace our steps and pick up what was lost along the way: chances to honor rather than violate treaties, to see the land as a relative rather than a resource, and to unravel the history we have been taught.

Quit Like a Woman

Author : Holly Whitaker
Publisher : Dial Press
Page : 384 pages
File Size : 43,8 Mb
Release : 2019-12-31
Category : Self-Help
ISBN : 9781984825063

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NEW YORK TIMES BESTSELLER • “An unflinching examination of how our drinking culture hurts women and a gorgeous memoir of how one woman healed herself.”—Glennon Doyle, #1 New York Times bestselling author of Untamed “You don’t know how much you need this book, or maybe you do. Either way, it will save your life.”—Melissa Hartwig Urban, Whole30 co-founder and CEO The founder of the first female-focused recovery program offers a groundbreaking look at alcohol and a radical new path to sobriety. We live in a world obsessed with drinking. We drink at baby showers and work events, brunch and book club, graduations and funerals. Yet no one ever questions alcohol’s ubiquity—in fact, the only thing ever questioned is why someone doesn’t drink. It is a qualifier for belonging and if you don’t imbibe, you are considered an anomaly. As a society, we are obsessed with health and wellness, yet we uphold alcohol as some kind of magic elixir, though it is anything but. When Holly Whitaker decided to seek help after one too many benders, she embarked on a journey that led not only to her own sobriety, but revealed the insidious role alcohol plays in our society and in the lives of women in particular. What’s more, she could not ignore the ways that alcohol companies were targeting women, just as the tobacco industry had successfully done generations before. Fueled by her own emerging feminism, she also realized that the predominant systems of recovery are archaic, patriarchal, and ineffective for the unique needs of women and other historically oppressed people—who don’t need to lose their egos and surrender to a male concept of God, as the tenets of Alcoholics Anonymous state, but who need to cultivate a deeper understanding of their own identities and take control of their lives. When Holly found an alternate way out of her own addiction, she felt a calling to create a sober community with resources for anyone questioning their relationship with drinking, so that they might find their way as well. Her resultant feminine-centric recovery program focuses on getting at the root causes that lead people to overindulge and provides the tools necessary to break the cycle of addiction, showing us what is possible when we remove alcohol and destroy our belief system around it. Written in a relatable voice that is honest and witty, Quit Like a Woman is at once a groundbreaking look at drinking culture and a road map to cutting out alcohol in order to live our best lives without the crutch of intoxication. You will never look at drinking the same way again.