Passive Aggressive Men

Author : Scott Wetzler
Publisher : Simon and Schuster
Page : 214 pages
File Size : 47,6 Mb
Release : 2011-01-18
Category : Psychology
ISBN : 9781451640175

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Living with the Passive-Aggressive Man by Scott Wetzler Pdf

With more than 100,000 copies in print, Living with the Passive-Aggressive Man draws on case histories from clinical psychologist Scott Wetzler’s practice to help you identify the destructive behavior, the root causes and motivations, and solutions. Do you know one of these men? The catch-me-if-you-can lover... Phil’s romantic and passionate one minute, distant and cold the next. The deviously manipulative coworker or boss... Jack denies resenting Nora’s rapid rise in the company, but when they’re assigned to work together on a project, he undermines her. The obstructionist, procrastinating husband... Bob keeps telling his wife he’ll finish the painting job he began years ago, but he never seems to get around to it. These are all classic examples of the passive-aggressive man. This personality syndrome—in which hostility wears a mask of passivity—is currently the number one source of men’s problems in relationships and on the job. In Living with the Passive-Aggressive Man, Scott Wetzler draws upon numerous case histories from his own practice to explain how and why the passive-aggressive man thinks, feels, and acts the way he does. Dr. Wetzler also offers advice on: • How to avoid playing victim, manager, or rescuer to the “P-A” • How to get his anger and fear into the open • How to help the “P-A” become a better lover, husband, and father • How to survive passive-aggressive game playing on the job Living with a man’s passive aggression can be an emotional seesaw ride. But armed with this book, you can avoid the bumpy landings.

Author : C. Ni Preston,Preston Che Ping Ni
Publisher : Unknown
Page : 64 pages
File Size : 54,9 Mb
Release : 2002-03-01
Category : Interpersonal communication
ISBN : 0808765809

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How to Communicate Effectively and Handle Difficult People by C. Ni Preston,Preston Che Ping Ni Pdf

Author : Kelsey Huntington
Publisher : Unknown
Page : 38 pages
File Size : 54,9 Mb
Release : 2014-09-26
Category : Electronic
ISBN : 1523284935

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Passive Aggressive Men by Kelsey Huntington Pdf

If you are in relationship with a passive-aggressive partner then there is a strong possibility that you may be facing one of the most complex emotional challenges of your life. Passive-aggressive behavior is more difficult to identify than aggressive behavior because it is a pattern of expressing negative feelings indirectly, rather than directly. While passive-aggressive behavior is one of the most complex emotional patterns to deal with, it is relatively common and can be observed via communication and body language. Someone practicing this behavior can easily become a cause of irritability and frustration for the people around when they notice negative that a person has negative feelings about them that they are not willing to express. Since passive-aggressive people have little or no insight into their own feelings, they often believe that people around them either discriminate or misunderstand their feelings and actions. In some cases it is possible that the person is showing passive-aggressiveness without having the slightest idea. In this book, we will discuss the various methods you can use to deal with a passive-aggressive man in a relationship and learn how to apply them in real life situations. We will also discuss what changes or improvements you may need to make in yourself to stop people from resorting to a passive-aggressive approach with you in the first place.

Author : Tim Murphy,Loriann Hoff Oberlin
Publisher : Da Capo Lifelong Books
Page : 260 pages
File Size : 53,9 Mb
Release : 2005-10-20
Category : Language Arts & Disciplines
ISBN : 1569243611

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Overcoming Passive-Aggression by Tim Murphy,Loriann Hoff Oberlin Pdf

And Oberlin offer a clear definition of passive-aggression and show readers not only how to end the behavior, but also how to avoid falling victim to other people's hidden anger.

Author : Andrea Brandt
Publisher : W. W. Norton & Company
Page : 224 pages
File Size : 51,6 Mb
Release : 2013-10-08
Category : Psychology
ISBN : 9780393708462

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8 Keys To Eliminating Passive-aggressiveness by Andrea Brandt Pdf

Guidance for dealing with this common and frustrating form of behavior. Many people often say “yes” to something when they’d rather say “no.” They offer cooperation through words but follow up with how they really feel—in actions that contradict their words. That’s passive-aggression. At its heart, passive-aggression is about being untrue to oneself, which makes it impossible to have a clean relationship with others. Passive-aggression as a communication method doesn’t make someone “bad.” It is simply a strategy learned in childhood as a coping mechanism, a hard-to-break habit. Changing passive-aggressive behavior requires knowledge, tools, and practice, as outlined here. The book offers effective methods for transforming passive-aggression into healthy assertiveness to communicate in constructive ways through eight keys: Recognize Your Hidden Anger; Reconnect Your Emotions to Your Thoughts; Listen to Your Body; Set Healthy Boundaries; Communicate Assertively; Interact Using Mindfulness; Disable the Enabler; and Problem-Solve for Better Outcomes. Hands-on exercises are featured, enabling readers to better understand themselves.

Author : Dee Brown
Publisher : Xulon Press
Page : 240 pages
File Size : 51,5 Mb
Release : 2010-06
Category : Religion
ISBN : 9781609573492

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Breaking Passive-Aggressive Cycles by Dee Brown Pdf

Help for women who are impacted by passive-aggressive men.

Author : Randy J. Paterson
Publisher : New Harbinger Publications
Page : 305 pages
File Size : 43,8 Mb
Release : 2022-09-01
Category : Self-Help
ISBN : 9781648480294

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The Assertiveness Workbook by Randy J. Paterson Pdf

Stand up and be heard! With more than 100,000 copies sold, this fully revised and updated self-help classic by psychologist Randy J. Paterson—author of How to Be Miserable—will help you get started today. Do you feel uncomfortable in situations where you disagree with others? Do you struggle to express your opinions or assert your boundaries? If you’ve ever felt paralyzed by confrontation, or have bitten your tongue rather than offer an opposing point of view, you know that a lack of assertiveness can leave you feeling marginalized and powerless. Assertiveness is a critical skill that not only influences your professional success, but also your personal happiness! So, how can you make sure your voice is heard? The Assertiveness Workbook contains powerfully effective skills grounded in cognitive behavioral therapy (CBT) to help you communicate more effectively, improve social interactions, and express yourself with confidence and clarity. You’ll learn how to set and maintain personal boundaries while staying connected, and discover ways to be more genuine and open in your relationships. Finally, you’ll learn to defend yourself calmly if you’re unfairly criticized or asked to submit to unreasonable requests. Fully revised and updated—this new edition includes information on the impact of social media, mini-dialogs to help you navigate tricky social interactions, and skills to shift your behaviors to be more assertive—so you can improve your communication skills, and your life!

Author : Scott Wetzler
Publisher : Unknown
Page : 0 pages
File Size : 51,7 Mb
Release : 2022
Category : Electronic
ISBN : OCLC:1316701284

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Living with the Passive Aggressive Man by Scott Wetzler Pdf

Author : Pierre Mornell
Publisher : Ballantine Books
Page : 147 pages
File Size : 46,5 Mb
Release : 1987
Category : Social Science
ISBN : 0345345231

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Passive Men, Wild Women by Pierre Mornell Pdf

Examines the circumstances, incidence, and implications of a problem afflicting more married couples, a problem involving the in-the-home inattentiveness and lethargy of husbands and the resulting frustration and anger of wives

Author : Peter B. Anderson,Cindy Struckman-Johnson
Publisher : Guilford Press
Page : 264 pages
File Size : 45,8 Mb
Release : 1998-06-22
Category : Psychology
ISBN : 1572301651

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Sexually Aggressive Women by Peter B. Anderson,Cindy Struckman-Johnson Pdf

Working from a range of theoretical perspectives, contributors to this text challenge prevailing stereotypes of women as passive or resistant participants in heterosexual interaction and men as initiators or aggressors. Like men, the book proposes, many women are clearly interested in sex and some are sexually aggressive. Bringing attention to ethical, political and conceptual questions surrounding this area of inquiry, the volume offers insights that seek to enhance clinical work and set directions for future research. It should be of interest to all scholars and students of psychology, sociology, human sexuality, and gender studies as well as mental health professionals in a range of settings.

Author : Martin Kantor
Publisher : Greenwood
Page : 0 pages
File Size : 53,8 Mb
Release : 2002
Category : Passive-Aggressive Personality
ISBN : 0275974227

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Passive-aggression by Martin Kantor Pdf

With absorbing detail and deftness, Kantor gives clinical descriptions of the dynamics in this overlooked syndrome: Passive-Aggressive Personality Disorder. It is a syndrome rooted in poorly suppressed, thinly disguised, and indirectly unleashed anger. This volume presents a scientifically based approach to the patient that will help him or her deal with anger in a healthier, and sometimes life-saving, way. An eclectic approach--including psychodynamic, cognitive-behavioral, and interpersonal techniques--is used to answer the two most important questions of passive-aggression: Why is the passive-aggressive so angry? And why cannot he or she express the anger more directly? Therapists can also use this approach to help the victims of passive-aggression and minimize the suffering that occurs in relationships with these difficult people.

Author : Ron Langevin
Publisher : Routledge
Page : 401 pages
File Size : 42,6 Mb
Release : 2014-02-04
Category : Psychology
ISBN : 9781317757603

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Erotic Preference, Gender Identity, and Aggression in Men by Ron Langevin Pdf

A fresh and challenging re-evaluation of the interrelationship between sexual and gender behavior and aggression. Drawing on a series of previously unpublished controlled research studies on rapists, pedophiles, incest offenders, voyeurs, transsexuals, and homosexuals (among others), the book offers startling new findings- e.g., crossdressing and feminine gender identity in rapists believed to be ultra-masculine, aggressiveness in pedophiles believed to be shy and passive. This book brings a new perspective to understanding sexual anomalies and to the conceptual foundations on which clinical research and treatment of these behaviors rests.

Author : Katherine Crowley,Kathi Elster
Publisher : McGraw Hill Professional
Page : 256 pages
File Size : 42,9 Mb
Release : 2012-11-02
Category : Business & Economics
ISBN : 9780071802055

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Mean Girls at Work: How to Stay Professional When Things Get Personal by Katherine Crowley,Kathi Elster Pdf

One of the New York Post's Top 10 Career Books of 2012 and a Booklist Top 10 Business Book DO YOU WORK WITH A MEAN GIRL? A woman’s field guide to the new frontier of professional development—working with other women Women-to-women relationships in the workplace are . . . complicated. When they’re good, they’re great. But when they’re bad, they can ruin your day, your week—even your year. Packed with proven advice from two of today’s leading experts in workplace relationships, this one-of-a-kind guide gives women the tools they need to navigate difficult situations unique to women-to-women relationships—whether with a boss, a colleague, a client, or an employee. Have you dealt with a woman in the workplace who: “Accidentally” excludes you from important meetings? Seems intent on taking you down professionally? Gossips about you with other coworkers? Makes you look bad by missing deadlines? Forms a “pack” of mean girls to make your life miserable? Mean Girls at Work isn’t just about surviving difficult situations. It’s about transforming a toxic relationship into one that benefits and supports both of you. This book is also for women who engage in mean behavior . . . but don’t know it. After all, who hasn’t gossiped about a female coworker? Who hasn’t rolled her eyes in the presence of a woman she doesn’t like? Who hasn’t scanned another woman head to toe—which is just a nonverbal way of saying, “You’ve just been judged”? The authors provide invaluable advice to the more subtle ways of being mean—even if they’re not intended. With a workforce composed of a higher percentage of women than ever, workplace dynamics have changed. Crowley and Elster cover every conceivable scenario, providing critical advice on how to rise above the fray and move forward professionally. Mean Girls at Work is your map to dodging the mines and moving forward in today’s transformed workplace. Praise for Mean Girls at Work “An invaluable suit of armor for surviving nine to five!” —Leil Lowndes, bestselling author of How to Talk to Anyone “If you think the emotional cruelty of comedies like Mean Girls and Heathers doesn’t exist in the real world workplace, think again. In Mean Girls at Work, Katherine Crowley and Kathi Elster valuably chronicle female vs. female predators and offer solid defensive strategies.” —Ann Kreamer, author of It’s Always Personal: Navigating Emotion in the New Workplace “Whether you are in your twenties and just starting your professional career, your midcareer forties, when you are supposed to have figured it out already, or a woman in her fifties or sixties who’s seen it all—this book is a must-read. . . . The authors have finally given women the tools and the sound advice necessary to deal with . . . conflicts that keep us all from succeeding. . . . Carry this book with you to work every day!” —Carolyn Cassin, President, Michigan Women’s Foundation “A must-read for women of all ages in today’s workforce. This book offers what we all need to develop the capacities to endure this ever-changing workplace. We know it is all about relationships and you need the skills outlined in this book to survive and thrive when the Mean Girls attack.” —Kim Harrington, Coordinator, Professional Development and Training, Office of Human Resources, California State University, Sacramento

Author : Les Parrott,Leslie Parrott
Publisher : Zondervan
Page : 200 pages
File Size : 46,7 Mb
Release : 2015-10-27
Category : Religion
ISBN : 9780310346296

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Saving Your Marriage Before It Starts by Les Parrott,Leslie Parrott Pdf

OVER ONE MILLION COPIES SOLD! With this updated edition of their award-winning book, Drs. Les and Leslie Parrott help you launch lifelong love like never before. This is more than a book--it's an experience, especially when you use the his/her workbooks filled with more than 40 fun exercises. Get ready for deeper intimacy with the best friend you'll ever have. Saving Your Marriage Before It Starts, which has been translated into more than 15 languages, is the most widely used marriage prep tool in the world. Why? Because it will help you . . . Uncover the misbeliefs of marriage Learn to communicate with instant understanding Discover the secret to resolving conflict Master the skills of money management Get your sex life off to a great start A compelling video, featuring real-life couples, is available, and with this updated edition, Les and Leslie unveil the game-changing SYMBIS Assessment. Now you can discover how to leverage your personalities for a love that lasts a lifetime. Make your marriage everything it is meant to be. Save your marriage--before (and after) it starts.

Author : Terri Cole, MSW, LCSW
Publisher : Sounds True
Page : 204 pages
File Size : 48,8 Mb
Release : 2021-04-20
Category : Self-Help
ISBN : 9781683647690

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Boundary Boss by Terri Cole, MSW, LCSW Pdf

Break Free From Over-Functioning, Over-Delivering, People-Pleasing, and Ignoring Your Own Needs So You Can Finally Live the Life You Deserve! Most of us were never taught how to effectively express our preferences, desires or deal-breakers. Instead, we hide our feelings behind passive-aggressive behavior, deny our own truths, or push our emotions down until we get depressed or so frustrated that we explode, potentially destroying hard-won trust and relationships. The most successful and satisfied people on the planet have one thing in common: the ability to create and communicate clear, healthy boundaries. This ability is, hands down, the biggest game changer when it comes to creating a healthy, happy, self-determined life. In Boundary Boss, psychotherapist Terri Cole reveals a specific set of skills that can help you stop abandoning yourself for the sake of others (without guilt or drama) and get empowered to consciously take control of every aspect of your emotional, spiritual, physical, personal, and professional life. Since becoming a Boundary Boss is a process, Cole also offers actionable strategies, scripts, and techniques that can be used in the moment, whenever you need them. You will learn: • How to recognize when your boundaries have been violated and what to do next • How your unique “Boundary Blueprint” is unconsciously driving your boundary behaviors, and strategies to redesign it • Powerful boundary scripts so in the moment you will know what to say • How to manage “Boundary Destroyers”—including emotional manipulators, narcissists, and other toxic personalities • Where you fall on the spectrum of codependency and how to create healthy, balanced relationships This book is for women who are exhausted from over-giving, overdoing, and even over-feeling. If you’re getting it all done but at the expense of yourself, give yourself the gift of Boundary Boss.