The Journey From Abandonment To Healing

Author : Susan Anderson
Publisher : Penguin
Page : 352 pages
File Size : 47,5 Mb
Release : 2000-03-01
Category : Psychology
ISBN : 9781101501689

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The Journey from Abandonment to Healing by Susan Anderson Pdf

Like Dr. Elisabeth Kubler-Ross's groundbreaking On Death and Dying, Susan Anderson's book clearly defines the five phases of a different kind of grieving--grieving over a lost relationship. An experienced professional who has specialized in helping people with loss, heartbreak, and abandonment for more than two decades, Susan Anderson gives this subject the serious attention it deserves. The Journey From Abandonment to Healing is designed to help all victims of emotional breakups--whether they are suffering from a recent loss, or a lingering wound from the past; whether they are caught up in patterns that sabotage their own relationships, or they're in a relationship where they no longer feel loved. From the first stunning blow to starting over, it provides a complete program for abandonment recovery.

Author : Susan Anderson
Publisher : Berkley Trade
Page : 356 pages
File Size : 51,6 Mb
Release : 2000
Category : Loss (Psychology)
ISBN : 0425172287

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The Journey from Abandonment to Healing by Susan Anderson Pdf

Discusses the five stages of abandonment individuals experience after a breakup or the loss of a loved one, and provides strategies for building a new life and new relationships.

Author : Susan Anderson
Publisher : New World Library
Page : 402 pages
File Size : 51,7 Mb
Release : 2016-07-15
Category : Self-Help
ISBN : 9781608684274

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The Abandonment Recovery Workbook by Susan Anderson Pdf

A powerful workshop-in-a-book for healing from loss One day everything is fine. The next, you find yourself without everything you took for granted. Love has turned sour. The people you depended on have let you down. You feel you’ll never love again. But there is a way out. In The Abandonment Recovery Workbook, the only book of its kind, psychotherapist and abandonment expert Susan Anderson explores the seemingly endless pain of heartbreak and shows readers how to break free—whether the heartbreak comes from a divorce, a breakup, a death, or the loss of friendship, health, a job, or a dream. From the first shock of despair through the waves of hopelessness to the tentative efforts to make new connections, The Abandonment Recovery Workbook provides an itinerary for recovery. A manual for individuals or support groups, it includes exercises that the author has tested and developed through her decades of expertise in abandonment recovery. Anderson provides concrete recovery tools and exercises to discover and heal underlying issues, identify self-defeating behaviors of mistrust and insecurity, and build self-esteem. Guiding you through the five stages of your journey—shattering, withdrawal, internalizing, rage, and lifting—this book (a new edition of Anderson’s Journey from Heartbreak to Connection) serves as a source of strength. You will come away with a new sense of self—a self with an increased capacity to love. Praise for Susan Anderson’s The Journey from Abandonment to Healing: “If there can be a pill to cure the heartbreak of rejection, this book may be it.” — Rabbi Harold Kushner, bestselling author of When Bad Things Happen to Good People

Author : Susan Anderson
Publisher : New World Library
Page : 298 pages
File Size : 55,5 Mb
Release : 2015-01-09
Category : Self-Help
ISBN : 9781608683147

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Taming Your Outer Child by Susan Anderson Pdf

Take Control of Your Life Chances are, you’ve already had run-ins with your Outer Child — the self-sabotaging, bungling, and impulsive part of your personality. This misguided, hidden nemesis blows your diet, overspends, and ruins your love life. Your Outer Child acts out and fulfills your legitimate childlike needs and wants in the wrong place, at the wrong time, and in counterproductive ways: It goes for immediate gratification and the quick fix in spite of your best-laid plans. Now, in a revolutionary rethinking of the link between emotion and behavior, veteran psychotherapist Susan Anderson offers a three-step program to tame your Outer Child’s destructive behavior. This dynamic, transformational set of strategies — action steps that act like physical therapy for the brain — calms your Inner Child, strengthens your Adult Self, releases you from the self-blame and shame at the root of Outer Child issues, and paves new neural pathways that can lead to more productive behavior. The result is happiness, fulfillment, self-mastery, and self-love.

Author : Susan Anderson
Publisher : Stonesong
Page : 90 pages
File Size : 40,8 Mb
Release : 2018-06-11
Category : Self-Help
ISBN : 9798986271835

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Black Swan by Susan Anderson Pdf

"Black Swan is a symbol for healing, a spirit guide for overcoming the woundedness of abandonment." Black Swan: The Twelve Lessons of Abandonment Recovery is a self-help tool, a supplement for personal growth. Black Swan provides twelve lessons for healing from the loss of love. It is presented as an allegorical tale of a child who meets a magical black swan after she is abandoned in the forest by her father. This story within a story includes the author’s own experience with loss. The book provides emotional and spiritual healing to those going through heartbreak, loss, and abandonment.

Author : Susan Anderson
Publisher : Berkley Trade
Page : 0 pages
File Size : 46,5 Mb
Release : 2003
Category : Family & Relationships
ISBN : 042519020X

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The Journey from Heartbreak to Connection by Susan Anderson Pdf

In The Journey from Abandonment to Healing, psychotherapist Susan Anderson guided her readers through the five stages of abandonment. Now, she explores the seemingly endless pain of heartbreak -- and shows the reader how to break free... One day, you have it all together. The next day, you find yourself bereft of everything you took for granted. Love has turned sour. The people you depend on have let you down. You feel you'll never love again. But there is a way out. From the first feeling of hopelessness to making new connections, this guide provides the itinerary for recovery. Moving through the five stages of your journey -- shattering, withdrawal, internalizing, rage, and lifting -- this book serves both as a source of strength and as a workbook with hands-on exercises that you can use to come away with a new sense of self -- a self with an increasing capacity for love. Book jacket.

Author : Michelle Skeen
Publisher : New Harbinger Publications
Page : 149 pages
File Size : 41,6 Mb
Release : 2014-09-01
Category : Family & Relationships
ISBN : 9781608829545

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Love Me, Don't Leave Me by Michelle Skeen Pdf

Everyone thrives on love, comfort, and the safety of family, friends, and community. But if you are denied these basic comforts early in life, whether through a lack of physical affection or emotional bonding, you may develop intense fears of abandonment that can last well into adulthood—fears so powerful that they can actually cause you to push people away. If you suffer from fears of abandonment, you may have underlying feelings of anger, shame, fear, anxiety, depression, and grief. These emotions are intense and painful, and when they surface they can lead to a number of negative behaviors, such as jealousy, clinging, and emotional blackmail. In Love Me, Don’t Leave Me, therapist Michelle Skeen combines acceptance and commitment therapy (ACT), schema therapy, and dialectical behavioral therapy (DBT) to help you identify the root of your fears. In this book you’ll learn how schema coping behaviors—deeply entrenched and automatic behaviors rooted in childhood experiences and fears—can take over and cause you to inadvertently sabotage your relationships. By recognizing these coping behaviors and understanding their cause, you will not only gain powerful insights into your own mind, but also into the minds of those around you. If you are ready to break the self-fulfilling cycle of mistrust, clinginess, and heartbreak and start building lasting, trusting relationships, this book will be your guide.

Author : Lucia Capacchione
Publisher : Simon and Schuster
Page : 292 pages
File Size : 48,9 Mb
Release : 1991-03-15
Category : Psychology
ISBN : 9780671701352

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Recovery of Your Inner Child by Lucia Capacchione Pdf

Recovery of Your Inner Child is the only book that shows how to have a firsthand experience with the Inner Child--actually feeling its emotions and recapturing its dominant hand. Expanding on the technique she introduced in The Power of Your Other Hand, Dr. Capacchione shares scores of hands-on activities that will help readers to re-parent their vulnerable Inner Child and heal their lives.

Author : Germana Rovinelli
Publisher : FriesenPress
Page : 204 pages
File Size : 49,6 Mb
Release : 2021-02-03
Category : Biography & Autobiography
ISBN : 9781525587351

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We Do Recover by Germana Rovinelli Pdf

This book is for anyone who is impacted by addiction trauma or abuse that is ready to learn about healing and recovery * Therapists, Universities, Treatment centers, people who are new or seasoned in recovery. The purpose is to help people seek out SOLUTIONS to these everyday problems. Are you looking for hope, and courageous answers to helping yourself or a loved one recover from the effects of unresolved trauma * as it gets played out as addiction and family dysfunction? WE DO RECOVER FROM ADDICTION, SHAME, ABUSE, NEGLECT, ABANDONMENT We do recover from being mistreated We can reclaim our dignity, our health, our relationship with ourself. This book is created to help others find solutions, hope, improve their lives, and live their best life regardless of what has or has not happened to them in their life. We need to know and believe that recovery is possible! We need to know that we can recover and hold space for our people to heal Rather than enabling addiction and letting life or a family be lost to the disease of active addiction (self-abandonment).

Author : Sheleana Aiyana
Publisher : Chronicle Books
Page : 307 pages
File Size : 54,8 Mb
Release : 2022-06-14
Category : Self-Help
ISBN : 9781797211695

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Becoming the One by Sheleana Aiyana Pdf

Spiritual writer and founder of Rising Woman, Sheleana Aiyana takes you on a transformational inner-work journey to heal life-long relationship pattens and reclaim power over your life. Romantic relationships have the ability to infuse our lives with the magic of intimacy and connection. But for many of us, that magic is fleeting–over and over, our relationships don't last, or if they do, they fail to make us happy. We find ourselves chasing unavailable love, sublimating our needs in service to others, or trying to save our partners from themselves, all the while abandoning the one who needs us most–ourselves. If you find yourself struggling to let go after a relationship ends, or you keep hitting the same wall in dating and relationships with emotionally unavailable people, this is not a sign that you are broken. It is a sign that somewhere along the way, you learned to sacrifice yourself in order to be loved. In Becoming the One, spiritual leader and visionary founder of the Rising Woman community Sheleana Aiyana offers a roadmap for transforming your relationship patterns to end the cycle of self-abandonment and move into the light of self-discovery. You'll learn to: • build a secure, loving relationship with yourself. • connect with your inner child. • challenge your core beliefs about love. • set self-affirming boundaries. • discover and celebrate your true desires. • recognize red and green flags. Sheleana's revolutionary lessons, based on wisdom from the traumas of her past and years of guiding thousands of women around the world in her internationally acclaimed "Becoming the One" program of spiritual and therapeutic healing practices, teach you to embody the qualities you are seeking in others so that you can become "the one" for yourself. You'll learn how to trust your body, make peace with your past, and clear the path for healthy, conscious love–one that returns the authority to you to choose how to live and whom to love. The desire for love is wired into the very fibers of our being, but before you can create rewarding bonds with others, first you must stand wholeheartedly in self-acceptance. Becoming the One is an invitation to find your way home to yourself.

Author : Nicola I. Campbell
Publisher : Portage & Main Press
Page : 236 pages
File Size : 44,8 Mb
Release : 2021-12-23
Category : Biography & Autobiography
ISBN : 9781553799702

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Spílexm by Nicola I. Campbell Pdf

If the hurt and grief we carry is a woven blanket, it is time to weave ourselves anew. In the Nłeʔkepmxcín language, spíləx̣m are remembered stories, often shared over tea in the quiet hours between Elders. Rooted within the British Columbia landscape, and with an almost tactile representation of being on the land and water, Spíləx̣m explores resilience, reconnection, and narrative memory through stories. Captivating and deeply moving, this story basket of memories tells one Indigenous woman’s journey of overcoming adversity and colonial trauma to find strength through creative works and traditional perspectives of healing, transformation, and resurgence.

Author : Kiera Van Gelder
Publisher : New Harbinger Publications
Page : 280 pages
File Size : 48,7 Mb
Release : 2010-08-01
Category : Biography & Autobiography
ISBN : 9781572248250

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The Buddha and the Borderline by Kiera Van Gelder Pdf

Kiera Van Gelder's first suicide attempt at the age of twelve marked the onset of her struggles with drug addiction, depression, post-traumatic stress, self-harm, and chaotic romantic relationships-all of which eventually led to doctors' belated diagnosis of borderline personality disorder twenty years later. The Buddha and the Borderline is a window into this mysterious and debilitating condition, an unblinking portrayal of one woman's fight against the emotional devastation of borderline personality disorder. This haunting, intimate memoir chronicles both the devastating period that led to Kiera's eventual diagnosis and her inspirational recovery through therapy, Buddhist spirituality, and a few online dates gone wrong. Kiera's story sheds light on the private struggle to transform suffering into compassion for herself and others, and is essential reading for all seeking to understand what it truly means to recover and reclaim the desire to live.

Author : Barbara Ann Brennan
Publisher : Bantam
Page : 366 pages
File Size : 44,6 Mb
Release : 2011-03-16
Category : Body, Mind & Spirit
ISBN : 9780307789426

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Light Emerging by Barbara Ann Brennan Pdf

Barbara Ann Brennan continues her ground-breaking exploration of the human energy field, or aura—the source of our experience of health or illness. Drawing on many new developments in her teaching and practice, she shows how we can be empowered as both patients and healers to understand and work with our most fundamental healing power: the light that emerges from the very center of our humanity. In a unique approach that encourages a cooperative effort among healer, patient, and other health-care providers, Light Emerging explains what the healer perceives visually, audibly, and kinesthetically and how each of us can participate in every stage of the healing process. Presenting a fascinating range of research, from a paradigm of healing based on the science of holography to insights into the "hara level" and the "core star," Light Emerging is at the leading edge of healing practice in our time.

Author : Judith G. Arndell Psy D.,Judith G. Arndell
Publisher : Unknown
Page : 104 pages
File Size : 55,7 Mb
Release : 2008-08-01
Category : Family & Relationships
ISBN : 1434392384

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Secret Pains by Judith G. Arndell Psy D.,Judith G. Arndell Pdf

Secret Pains gives hope for persons who were left behind by migrating parents or just simply abandoned by a parent. This book focuses on how the unresolved hurts and emotional pains resulting from abandonment affect your personality, your relationships, and your adult life. It offers tools, strategies, and insights for letting go of past anger and emotional pains and recommendations for embracing a happier and more fulfilled life.

Author : Julie Cunningham
Publisher : Unknown
Page : 128 pages
File Size : 49,6 Mb
Release : 2019-10-27
Category : Electronic
ISBN : 1733452508

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The Orphaned Wife by Julie Cunningham Pdf