When Your Gay Or Lesbian Child Marries

Author : Deborah M. Merrill
Publisher : Rowman & Littlefield
Page : 179 pages
File Size : 40,8 Mb
Release : 2016-01-14
Category : Family & Relationships
ISBN : 9781442254190

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When Your Gay or Lesbian Child Marries by Deborah M. Merrill Pdf

Massachusetts became the first state in the country to legalize same-sex marriage in 2004, and after the landmark decision of Obergefell v. Hodges in 2015, same-sex marriage is legal in all fifty states. More than 70,000 same-sex couples have married in the U.S. Although these couples have the right to marry, it is not without its costs to their families, particularly to their relationships with their parents. Some parents may not accept their child’s decisions; others don’t understand how marriage may be different for their children or the obstacles that they may face in being part of a same-sex union. When Your Gay or Lesbian Child Marries: A Guide for Parents examines how same-sex marriage changes the relationships between parents and their gay or lesbian adult children. It is also a guide for parents to better understand how parent/child bonds are transformed from the time of the child “coming out of the closet” to the raising of his or her own children. It will also serve to help parents understand the contours of same-sex marriage and their child’s struggles as he or she navigates marriage, parenthood, and family relationships over time. Based on interviews with married (or previously married) gay men and women who had at least one parent alive during their marriage as well as parents who have both a married gay/lesbian child and a married heterosexual child, the author offers stories from people who illustrate a range of experiences. From coming out, to raising children, from wedding day ceremonies to separations and divorce, the stories found in these pages show how families can come together or fall apart, but also offer hope and guidance for those who want to be supportive parents and in-laws, and to adult children who hope to maintain healthy relationships with their parents after marriage.

Author : Trent Horn,Leila Miller
Publisher : Unknown
Page : 220 pages
File Size : 51,6 Mb
Release : 2018-08-28
Category : Religion
ISBN : 1683570979

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Made This Way: How to Prepare Kids to Face Today's Tough Moral Issues by Trent Horn,Leila Miller Pdf

Author : Kathleen A. Lahey,Kevin Alderson
Publisher : Insomniac Press
Page : 382 pages
File Size : 50,5 Mb
Release : 2004
Category : Electronic books
ISBN : 9781897414989

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Same-Sex Marriage by Kathleen A. Lahey,Kevin Alderson Pdf

Alderson tells the stories of same-sex couples who have actually gotten married, as well as the behind-the-scenes stories that explain the legal victory that made this all possible.

Author : Glenn T. Stanton,Bill Maier
Publisher : ReadHowYouWant.com
Page : 358 pages
File Size : 45,7 Mb
Release : 2009-10
Category : Family & Relationships
ISBN : 9781458735843

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Marriage on Trial by Glenn T. Stanton,Bill Maier Pdf

Surely gays have the same right to marry that heterosexuals do? Isn't banning gays from marriage just like banning interracial marriage? How does someone's gay marriage threaten your family? It doesn't matter for children as long as they have two loving parents; But lots of other cultures have different ways of forming families. Why can't we?..... We all have heard these questions and concerns offered as ''reasons'' for why same-sex marriage should be allowed in our society. Do they point us to the truth, or are there good answers in response? How do we respond? This book shows you that there are very compelling, caring and commonsense ways to answer every argument you might encounter in this debate. It will arm you with cogent and loving answers so that you can be an intelligent and compassionate advocate for marriage. This book is written for people who care about marriage and care about people. It is written in a conversational way to help you easily answer questions about this issue that are swirling all around us in the public debate. It is written in very plain language and is well-documented by the latest research. We will equip you to understand and explain how harmful same-sex marriage and parenting can be to people and our culture, and why natural marriage between one man and one woman is so important to the health of humanity.

Author : Zach Wahls
Publisher : Avery
Page : 258 pages
File Size : 41,9 Mb
Release : 2013-04-02
Category : Biography & Autobiography
ISBN : 9781592407637

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My Two Moms by Zach Wahls Pdf

An advocate and son of same-gender parents recounts his famed address to the Iowa House of Representatives on civil unions, and describes his positive experiences of growing up in an alternative family in spite of prejudice.

Author : Loren A. Olson
Publisher : Unknown
Page : 304 pages
File Size : 53,9 Mb
Release : 2017-04
Category : Biography & Autobiography
ISBN : 0997961430

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Finally Out by Loren A. Olson Pdf

Dr. Loren A. Olson has frequently been asked two questions: How could you not know that you were gay until the age of forty? Wasn't your marriage just a sham to protect yourself at your wife's expense? In Finally Out, Dr. Olson answers these questions by telling the inspiring story of his evolving sexuality, into which he intelligently weaves psychological concepts and gay history. This book is a powerful exploration of human sexuality, particularly the sexuality of mature men who, like Dr. Olson, lived a large part of their lives as straight men--sometimes long after becoming aware of their same-sex attractions. Readers will come to understand: - That there is no universal model for coming out - Why many older LGBTQ men came out late, do not come out at all, or come out to varying degrees in different environments - How stigma has created mental health problems for isolated and closeted men who have sex with men, particularly in geographical areas and cultures where there is little or no acceptance of homosexuality - How sexual function changes but perhaps even improves for older men - That aging creates opportunities that one has never had and may never have again, e.g., freedom from the tyranny of ambition - That some people consistently prefer an older sexual partner and this can lead to stable, intergenerational relationships - How same-sex sexual activity was considered prior to the Stonewall uprising in 1969 contrasted with the way it is perceived after Stonewall - How age, culture, geographical location, heterosexual marriage, and children impact a person's decision to come out - Why "conversion therapy" does not work and may be harmful - The difference between homophobia and homonaïveté - The archetypes of self-identified straight men who seek occasional or regular sex with other men - How to overcome the shame and guilt experienced by men who are sexually attracted to other men

Author : David Blankenhorn
Publisher : Encounter Books
Page : 335 pages
File Size : 45,9 Mb
Release : 2007-11-01
Category : Family & Relationships
ISBN : 9781594033599

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The Future of Marriage by David Blankenhorn Pdf

The idea of this book began in a conversation David Blankenhorn had with the president of Freedom to Marry, a group advocating equal marriage rights for same-sex couples. This man asked Blankenhorn, a leading figure in the “marriage movement,” to endorse his group’s objectives. Feeling a bit defensive, Blankenhorn replied, “Every child deserves a mother and a father.” The Future of Marriage is the result of that conversation. In their current demands, Blankenhorn points out, gay and lesbian leaders are not asking for marriage with an adjective in front of it, but marriage itself. So in that sense, what marriage is and why it matters is ultimately what this debate is all about. What exactly is this institution to which gay and lesbian activists are seeking access? Why do we have it in the first place? Where did it come from? What is it for? How is it changing? These are some of the hard questions The Future of Marriage confronts. David Blankenhorn says that if same sex marriage debate is to be “redemptive rather than merely divisive,” it must accept the principle that all persons are equal in dignity. But it must also help us to rediscover and renew marriage as the main protector of our children and our primary social institution.

Author : Wesley C. Davidson,Jonathan L. Tobkes
Publisher : Union Square & Co.
Page : 176 pages
File Size : 40,7 Mb
Release : 2019-02-22
Category : Family & Relationships
ISBN : 9781454936374

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When Your Child Is Gay by Wesley C. Davidson,Jonathan L. Tobkes Pdf

“An incredibly compelling and helpful read for parents—or anyone out there—who would like to learn more about the dual processes of raising a gay or lesbian child and growing up as gay or lesbian.” —Cason Crane, Founder of The Rainbow Summits Project and LogoTV’s Youth Trailblazer Honoree, 2013 Coming out can be fraught with difficulty for both parents and child—but Wesley C. Davidson, a popular blogger on gay rights issues, and Dr. Jonathan Tobkes, a New York City-based psychiatrist, provide a road map so families can better navigate this rocky emotional terrain. Emphasizing communication and unconditional love, Davidson and Tobkes help parents untangle their own feelings, identify and overcome barriers to acceptance, encourage strong self-esteem in their child, handle negative or hostile reactions to their child’s sexual identity, and more. Filled with case studies and interviews, along with useful action plans and conversation starters, this is a positive, progressive guide to raising healthy, well-adjusted adults. Winner of the National Association of Book Entrepreneurs Award for best parenting book of 2017!

Author : Katy Faust,Stacy Manning
Publisher : Post Hill Press
Page : 276 pages
File Size : 52,9 Mb
Release : 2021-02-23
Category : Family & Relationships
ISBN : 9781642935974

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Them Before Us by Katy Faust,Stacy Manning Pdf

Them Before Us has flipped the script on adult-centric attitudes toward marriage, parenthood, and reproductive technologies by framing these issues around a child’s right to be raised by both their mother and father. Set against a backdrop of sound research, the compelling stories throughout each chapter confirm that a child’s mental, physical, and emotional well-being depends on being loved by the two people responsible for their existence. It’s a paradigm shift that will impact the personal and the political, and reframe every marriage and family conversation across the globe. Them Before Us dispels many prevalent, harmful myths concerning children’s rights, such as: • Kids need only love and safety—moms and dads are optional. • Love makes a family—biology is irrelevant. • Marriage is about adults—it has nothing to do with kids. • Children are resilient and will “get over” divorce. • Studies show “no difference” in outcomes for kids with same-sex parents. • Sperm and egg donor kids are fortunate because they are so wanted. • Surrogacy is a great way to help wannabe parents have a baby. • Reproductive technologies are just like adoption. Are you tired of a culture that views adults as victims in family matters, when it’s clear that kids are the ones who truly pay the price? If so, we are your people, and this is your movement.

Author : M. V. Lee Badgett
Publisher : NYU Press
Page : 301 pages
File Size : 45,6 Mb
Release : 2010-11
Category : Law
ISBN : 9780814709306

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When Gay People Get Married by M. V. Lee Badgett Pdf

."..Badgett offers a rare look at how gay marriage is actually working, by taking readers to a land where it has been legal for same-sex couples to marry since 2001: the Netherlands. Through interviews with married gay couples we learn about the often surprising changes to their relationships, and the reactions of their families and work colleagues. Moreover, Badgett shows how the institution itself has been altered, exploring how the concept of marriage itself has changed in the United States and the Netherlands." "The evidence from around the world shows both that marriage changes gay people more than gay people change marriage and that it is the most liberal countries and states making the first moves to recognize gay couples. In the end, Badgett demonstrates that allowing gay couples to marry does not destroy the institution of marriage and that many gay couples do benefit, in expected as well as surprising ways, from the legal, social, and political rights that the institution offers."--From publisher description.

Author : Linda Nielsen
Publisher : Routledge
Page : 228 pages
File Size : 54,6 Mb
Release : 2019-06-04
Category : Family & Relationships
ISBN : 9781000005172

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Father-Daughter Relationships by Linda Nielsen Pdf

In this fully revised new edition, Father-Daughter Relationships: Contemporary Research and Issues summarises and analyses the most relevant research regarding father-daughter relationships, aiming to break down the persistent misconceptions regarding fatherhood and father-daughter relationships and encourage the reader to take a more objective and analytical approach. The research is brought to life with compelling personal stories from fathers and daughters, including well-known celebrities and politicians. Boxed quizzes and questionnaires show students how the research can be applied to their own lives while others highlight the relationships between real-life fathers and daughters. Nielsen discusses the father-daughter relationship within a diverse range of family structures, including divorced and separated parents, gay parents, adopted children and children of sperm donors. Covering a wide range of topics, including the father’s impact on his daughter’s cognitive, academic, social and physical wellbeing, ethnic minorities, and incarcerated or abusive fathers, Father-Daughter Relationships: Contemporary Research and Issues gives panoramic view of the most recent research and statistics. This book is essential reading for upper level undergraduate and for graduate students, as well as for practitioners working with families, such as social workers, mental health professionals and family counsellors. It is especially relevant for courses in psychology, sociology, women’s studies, and counselling. Linda Nielsen is a Professor of Adolescent and Educational Psychology at Wake Forest University. A member of the faculty for 35 years, she is a nationally recognized expert on father-daughter relationships.

Author : The Editors of Nolo The Editors of Nolo
Publisher : Nolo
Page : 561 pages
File Size : 41,7 Mb
Release : 2023-04-25
Category : Law
ISBN : 9781413330670

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Nolo's Encyclopedia of Everyday Law by The Editors of Nolo The Editors of Nolo Pdf

The go-to guide for quick and reliable answers to everyday legal questions, from the nation's most respected publisher of self-help legal information.

Author : Deborah M. Merrill
Publisher : Rowman & Littlefield Publishers
Page : 186 pages
File Size : 50,9 Mb
Release : 2011-05-05
Category : Family & Relationships
ISBN : 9781442210943

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When Your Children Marry by Deborah M. Merrill Pdf

Marriage is an important transition in the life of any adult who marries. But often when a son or daughter gets married, their relationships with their natal families changes. It is often said that a 'daughter is a daughter all of her life, but a son is a son 'til he takes him a wife.' This book examines how marriage changes relationships between adult children and their parents and how this differs for sons versus daughters. Merrill considers the process by which men 'get pulled into' their wives' families and the ways in which men are sometimes more connected to their wives' families following marriage than to their own families. But what is it about a relationship with a son that changes when he marries? And why do daughters tend to stay closer? Why do mothers experience greater difficulty in negotiating relationships with married sons than with married daughters? Why do daughters tend to stay closer and maintain stronger ties to their natal families than sons do? This book answers these questions and offers advice for mothers on how to maintain strong ties with their children when they marry, negotiate relationships that may be fraught with new challenges, and accept changes when they happen. Sharing firsthand accounts from mothers, sons, and daughters, the author sheds new light on this neglected topic.

Author : Patricia M. Stockland
Publisher : ABDO
Page : 114 pages
File Size : 46,6 Mb
Release : 2007-08-01
Category : Juvenile Nonfiction
ISBN : 9781604538199

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Same-sex Marriage by Patricia M. Stockland Pdf

Discusses the controversial viewpoints regarding same-sex marriages.

Author : Tracy Brown
Publisher : The Rosen Publishing Group, Inc
Page : 66 pages
File Size : 42,7 Mb
Release : 2012-12-15
Category : Juvenile Nonfiction
ISBN : 9781448883363

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Frequently Asked Questions About Same-Sex Marriage and When a Parent Is Gay by Tracy Brown Pdf

The issue of gay marriage is in the media every day. There are those who support it and those who oppose it. What a young reader can do when the issue affects him or her personally is addressed, as well as the most common questions surrounding gay marriage.