Your Father Your Self

Author : Barry H. Gordon
Publisher : Carol Publishing Corporation
Page : 0 pages
File Size : 46,8 Mb
Release : 1996
Category : Father and child
ISBN : 1559723785

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Your Father, Your Self by Barry H. Gordon Pdf

Through workshops and in group, individual, and family therapy, Dr. Gordon has helped hundreds of men and women find greater peace in their relationships with their fathers. Here he identifies nine types of disconnected fathers. He encourages readers to search for the source of their troubles by offering fundamental ways in which relationships with fathers may break down, depending on the father's personality type. Your Father, Your Self covers two aspects of relationships with a father: restoring the son's or daughter's psychological well-being by healing the emotional wounds that result from failure to connect with one's father and attempting to change and heal the current relationship between them. Through hundreds of case studies, this insightful work captures what it is like to resolve and heal father relationships. It highlights how the pathways and struggles differ significantly according to the personality of the father and the gender of the child. Effective means of dealing with the power, weakness, or absence of the father are described, such as how to respond to an autocratic father's continued need to control or how to relate to a perfectionist father. The book demonstrates the emotional rewards of working hard to heal relationships with one's father, including a new self-perspective and improved relationships not only with fathers, but with other family members, friends, children, and coworkers. Your Father, Your Self is a poignant and moving reminder of the powerful role a father plays in our lives and of the emotional imperatives that lead us to seek a deeper union with him.

Author : Calvin Sandborn
Publisher : New Society Publishers
Page : 177 pages
File Size : 53,6 Mb
Release : 2007-04-01
Category : Self-Help
ISBN : 9781550923643

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Becoming the Kind Father by Calvin Sandborn Pdf

The male case against patriarchy - why it hurts men, and how they can change it. The macho society that held John Wayne as a role model has created an emotional wasteland where 80 percent of men are unable to accurately express their feelings, and that same percentage feel estranged from their fathers. The stifled male, disconnected and out of touch, fills the void with apathy or anger, and the toll is staggering: short, unhealthy lives, ruined relationships, and damaged children. This destructive behavior repeats itself in the next generation as the sins of the father continue the cycle. In Becoming the Kind Father, Calvin Sandborn aims to break that cycle. His intensely personal story is heart-searing and inspirational. Brought up to fear his father’s alcohol-fueled fury and hateful put-downs, the author buried his feelings and fine-tuned his own rage. His father’s early death and the collapse of the author’s marriage provided catalysts for change. Interspersing clever literary references with painful childhood memories, intense self-examination, and astute observations, Sandborn provides well-researched psychological findings and self-help tips, including how to: Identify and share feelings Treat yourself as a kind father would Form trusting male friendships Break the anger habit Forgive the world and yourself This guide offers helpful insight for the millions of men who want to become kinder human beings. A must-read for every woman who loves an angry or emotionally distant man. Calvin Sandborn is a journalist, author, and environmental lawyer who currently supervises the University of Victoria Environmental Law Clinic. He is also a kind father and grandfather.

Author : Joshua Straub, PhD
Publisher : WaterBrook
Page : 226 pages
File Size : 44,5 Mb
Release : 2015-10-20
Category : Religion
ISBN : 9781601427892

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Safe House by Joshua Straub, PhD Pdf

Parenting isn't rocket science, it's just brain surgery. And Dr. Joshua Straub has good news for you: You can do it! You don’t need to do all the “right” things as a parent. Both science and the Bible show us that the most important thing we can provide for our kids is a place of emotional safety. In other words, the posture from which we parent matters infinitely more than the techniques of parenting. Emotional safety—more than any other factor—is scientifically linked to raising kids who live, love, and lead well. Learn how to use emotional safety as a foundation from which you parent—and make a cultural impact that could change the world! In Safe House, Dr. Straub draws from his extensive research and personal experience to help you: - Foster healthy identity and social development in children of any age - Win the war without getting overwhelmed in the daily battles - Discipline in a way that builds relationship - Understand how the culture is affecting your child and what you can do about it - Cultivate responsible, self-regulating behavior in your kids - Establish an unshakeable sense of faith, morality, and values in your home - Feel more confident and peaceful as a parent - Find a greater perspective on parenting than what you might see on a daily basis Also includes a Safe House Parenting Assessment.

Author : Margaret Paul
Publisher : Harper Collins
Page : 244 pages
File Size : 42,8 Mb
Release : 2012-10-16
Category : Self-Help
ISBN : 9780062260925

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Inner Bonding by Margaret Paul Pdf

Inner bonding is the process of connecting our adult thoughts with our instinctual, gut feelings—the feelings of the "inner child"—so that we can minimize painful conflict within ourselves. Free of inner conflict, we feel peaceful, open to joy, and open to giving and receiving love. Margaret Paul, coauthor of Healing Your Aloneness, explores how abandonment of the inner child leads to increasingly negative and destructive feelings of low self-worth, codepenclence, addiction, shame, powerlessness, and withdrawal from relationships. Her breakthrough inner bonding process teaches us to heal past wounds through reparenting and clearly demonstrates how we can learn to parent in the present. Real-life examples illustrate the dynamics of the healing process and show the benefits we can expect in every facet of our lives and in all our relationships. Inner Bonding provides the tools we need to forge and maintain the inner unity that makes our family, sexual, work, and social relationships productive, honest, and joyful.

Author : Stephan B. Poulter, Ph.D
Publisher : Prometheus Books
Page : 239 pages
File Size : 44,7 Mb
Release : 2010-12
Category : Psychology
ISBN : 9781615921393

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The Father Factor by Stephan B. Poulter, Ph.D Pdf

The father factor is the conscious understanding, awareness, and appreciation of the critical influence that your father had, still has, or could have in your career development and future potential. Noting that the father-son or father-daughter relationship is one of the least understood relationships in adult life, Dr. Poulter helps you become acutely aware of the immeasurable impact (negative or positive) that your father has on your ability to relate to other people. From this recognition you will also learn to move past the career roadblocks that frequently stem from the lingering effects of your father''s influence. Defining five main styles of fathering, Dr. Poulter devotes a chapter each to: The Superachiever Father The Time Bomb Father The Passive Father The Absent Father (whether physically or emotionally) The Compassionate / Mentor Father. By becoming aware of how your father related to you, particularly in a destructive relationship, you''ll understand how your career relationships in many ways mirror your degree of comfort with your father''s emotional legacy. In this way, career roadblocks-often based on interactions with people on the job-will be more easily transformed into career building blocks that will lead to advancement and success.

Author : Doreen Virtue,Andrew Karpenko
Publisher : Hay House
Page : 201 pages
File Size : 50,7 Mb
Release : 2017
Category : Family & Relationships
ISBN : 9781401949297

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Father Therapy by Doreen Virtue,Andrew Karpenko Pdf

Wounds from primal relationships, such as those with mothers and fathers, run very deep. If your childhood involved an absent, addicted, or abusive father, you may have these "emotional ghosts": -Low self-esteem -People-pleasing, approval-seeking, neediness, and co-dependency -Wishing and praying that your dad would change into the father you believe he should be -Feeling frequently angry, including repressed anger -Choosing romantic partners who remind you of your dad -Intimidation surrounding male authority figuresIn this insightful and compassionate book, former psychotherapist Doreen Virtue and practicing clinical social worker Andrew Karpenko present a range of self-healing techniques to empower you to counsel your inner wounded child so that you can deal with men as a healthy functioning adult.Whether you are a man or a woman, they help you to choose thriving, balanced relationships with the males in your life; open your heart to feeling safe receiving love; and reconnect with both divine feminine and masculine energies.All of your painful experiences have happened for a reason. There are parts of your psyche calling out for attention. Healing your father wounds will free you from lingering feelings of emptiness and patterns of dysfunction with men--to pursue your passion and life purpose unfettered by the past.

Author : Masa A. Goetz
Publisher : Element Books
Page : 274 pages
File Size : 40,6 Mb
Release : 1998-06
Category : Family & Relationships
ISBN : 1862043485

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My Father, My Self by Masa A. Goetz Pdf

Dr. Goetz describes how a father's positive and negative qualities can affect children and their development into adults, shows how to stop negative cycles, and tells how men can imprint positive influences.

Author : Neil M White
Publisher : Unknown
Page : 148 pages
File Size : 48,9 Mb
Release : 2017-07-31
Category : Electronic
ISBN : 1393975836

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A Father's Mission by Neil M White Pdf

Author : Kyle Pruett
Publisher : Harmony
Page : 260 pages
File Size : 41,9 Mb
Release : 2001-05-08
Category : Family & Relationships
ISBN : 9780767907378

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Fatherneed by Kyle Pruett Pdf

Fathers have always parented differently than mothers. In Fatherneed, Dr. Kyle D. Pruett shows mothers and fathers why that difference is so important to a child's physical, cognitive, and emotional development. Drawing on more than two decades of highly acclaimed research at the Yale Child Study Center, and backed up by true stories from actual families, Fatherneed is the essential how-to guide for women and men who wish to promote engaged fathering. This book will help enable fathers to give their children the skills they need to develop into happy and healthy adults. Step by step, Dr. Pruett specifically addresses what a father can do to prepare his marriage, his house, and his emotions for his child's needs, from infancy through the toddler years, childhood, adolescence, and young and mature adulthood. With advice to fathers ranging from how to speak to toddlers so that they listen, to how to avoid the common tendency to reinforce gender stereotypes in young children, to how to maintain a connection with an increasingly autonomous teenager, Fatherneed is the perfect resource for all dads-including divorced fathers, fathers of adopted children, stepfathers, and fathers of special-needs children-as well as moms who want kids who are meaningfully connected to their fathers. With wit, authority, and compassion, Dr. Pruett shows how to be sure that your child gets what only a father can provide.

Author : Shari R Jonas
Publisher : Unknown
Page : 0 pages
File Size : 51,6 Mb
Release : 2002-11-15
Category : Electronic
ISBN : 0973177101

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Father Effects by Shari R Jonas Pdf

Based on one of the most important womens surveys of all time, Father Effects is the guide to understanding the profound impact of the father-daughter relationship. It is filled with highly personal, deeply moving true stories of womens relationships with their fathers and the types of men they are attracted to. Learn the truth behind why women are so affected by their fathers and discover the underlying reasons why women make their relationship choices. Father Effects is for every woman who has ever wondered how her father has influenced her self-image and her relationship choices. It is for every woman who knows her father has had a negative impact on her life and is now ready to work through her recurring and troubling issues. Finally, for every mother whose daughter is having difficulty with her dad and for every father who wants to understand his influence on his daughter, this is the guide.

Author : Questions About Me
Publisher : Tell Me Your Life Story Series
Page : 124 pages
File Size : 41,6 Mb
Release : 2021-04-18
Category : Electronic
ISBN : 1952568307

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Tell Me Your Life Story, Dad by Questions About Me Pdf

Author : Byron Ricks
Publisher : BrownBooks.ORM
Page : 122 pages
File Size : 46,8 Mb
Release : 2008-06-01
Category : Family & Relationships
ISBN : 9781612541426

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Searching for Dad by Byron Ricks Pdf

One man shares his story of growing up fatherless, the lessons it taught him, and how sons and parents can combat its side effects. Searching for Dad steps inside the mind, heart, and soul of a boy without a father. Recognizing the power of the emotional and psychological side effects of growing up fatherless will help absentee fathers, single mothers, and sons who survived a fatherless childhood understand and cope. Byron Ricks shares his story about the challenges he faced, the lessons he learned, and the man he became. He writes for fathers who do not realize the full impact their absence can have, for mothers wanting to do the best for their sons but are not sure what that is, and for men who feel empty and unattached and are not sure why. Ultimately, Searching for Dad is a book of hope, filled with illustrations about nine side effects and how fathers, mothers, and sons can forestall, minimize and even reverse them. Growing up fatherless may be the condition; healing is the possibility.

Author : Jeffrey Mason
Publisher : Unknown
Page : 128 pages
File Size : 52,8 Mb
Release : 2021-11-15
Category : Electronic
ISBN : 1955034206

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Dad, I Want to Hear Your Story by Jeffrey Mason Pdf

Author : Kelly Brogan, M.D.
Publisher : Hay House, Inc
Page : 353 pages
File Size : 52,5 Mb
Release : 2022-01-11
Category : Self-Help
ISBN : 9781401956851

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Own Your Self by Kelly Brogan, M.D. Pdf

New York Times best-selling author presents a radical alternative to psychotropic meds: discerning the meaning in your symptoms and your struggle as a way to reclaim your health and your self. For years, we've been telling ourselves that our difficult feelings-sadness, rage, shame, intensity, worry-are somehow "not okay." And, all too often, we've relied on the promise of pharmaceuticals to tamp them down. The fact is, though, that these feelings are a vital part of our experience. They are real. And those of us who feel them most strongly are the canaries in the coalmine-sensitive to things that are seriously wrong in the world today. In a book that's both provocative and promising, holistic psychiatrist Kelly Brogan, M.D., author of A Mind of Your Own, shows us that we don't have to medicate our mental, emotional, and physical pain away-that the best way out is through. She explodes the mistaken belief that our symptoms-from mood changes to irritability to fogginess and fatigue-are evidence that we are sick or broken. Then she charts a new path to get real, get well, and get free. The journey includes: • Coming to a new appreciation of the meaning behind symptoms, and whether you are a canary in the coal mine • Learning the 2 major risks of medication that most doctors are not trained to disclose • Exploring the 5 reversible physical drivers of so-called mental illness • Starting the process of radical physical healing with inclusive details of Dr. Brogan's history-making 30-day protocol • Taking an emotional inventory of energy drains and toxic relationships • Taking a deeper dive into the spiritual awakening and expansion that comes when you reclaim your real self from conventional medicine • Identifying the most likely places you have given your power away • Understanding what the science has to say about psychedelics as a tool for awakening • Navigating health challenges with curiosity and the proper tools • Guidance, support, and many Travel Tips shared from the trenches! Our experiences, Dr. Brogan argues, aren't problems or pathologies; they reflect what we need to accept, acknowledge, and transform in order to truly become who we are. Own Your Self is a journey of healing, and also something more: a journey of coming home to ourselves.

Author : Jon Tyson
Publisher : Baker Books
Page : 256 pages
File Size : 46,9 Mb
Release : 2021-08-17
Category : Religion
ISBN : 9781493430321

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The Intentional Father by Jon Tyson Pdf

Self-initiation is killing our young men. Without strong mentors, boys are walking alone into a wilderness of conflicting messages about who they should be as men. It's no wonder that our sons are confused about what the world expects from them and what they should expect of themselves. The Intentional Father is the antidote. This concise book is filled with practical steps to help men raise sons of consequence--young men who know what they believe, know who they are, and will stand up against the negative cultural trends of our day. Jon Tyson lays out a clear path for fathers and sons that includes specific activities, rites of passage, and significant "marking moments" that can be customized to fit any family. It's not enough to hope our sons will become good men. We need them to be good at being men. This book shows how fathers, grandfathers, and other male mentors can lead the way.