Angry Marriage

Author : Eno Jerry
Publisher : Createspace Independent Publishing Platform
Page : 80 pages
File Size : 51,9 Mb
Release : 2017-09-12
Category : Electronic
ISBN : 1976019974

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I Almost Ruined My Marriage by Eno Jerry Pdf

At some point in my life, I prayed to God, believing that one day, I would be swept off my feet by my prince charming. I remember praying at a young age to be married to a man that loves God and has the fear of God in him. I knew what I wanted, or at best, I thought I knew what I wanted. Most times, we wish and pray for things without understanding that our wishes aren't as simple as they seem and may probably have their implications. To pray for a prince charming, you need to be a princess beauty. The prince charming also has expectations of his bride and you need to fit that mould. Without knowing it, I carried a lot of baggage into my marriage. This load of baggage was capable of ruining my marriage. Wait a minute, did I say capable of ruining my marriage? Scratch that. This load of baggage almost ruined my marriage. In Proverbs 14: 1, the Bible says, "a wise woman builds her home but a foolish woman tears it down with her hands." Did you notice what the Bible says in that Scripture? The foolish woman does not need any kind of help pulling down her home. She can do it all by herself. Her own actions or inaction are enough to completely ruin her home. At some point in my life, I was this foolish woman. I know this probably sounds shocking but 'foolish' was what I was at that time. Sadly, there abound many foolish women who have destroyed their marriages and homes. Some others are in the process of destroying their marriages. Some marriages are being endured rather than enjoyed. Some married people are struggling to put the pieces of their homes together while some feel that it can't be put back together again. It is unfortunate that some women are completely at a loss of what to do to save their ailing marriages. Some others who know what to do to save their homes allow pride stop them from doing it. My journey in the early years of marriage was quite painful and enduring. Nothing I knew seemed to make sense anymore. All the seemingly harmless habits I got away with in the course of my life as a single became a challenge in marriage. When you marry a near-perfect man like I did, your flaws become so glaring. The sad truth is that before I got married, I never considered these habits as flaws. Have you ever found yourself saying things like: "This is how I have always been and people accepted and liked me"? Have you also found yourself saying to your spouse, "Hey, you met me like this; why is this now a big deal"? Oh, I said this a thousand and one times. I just couldn't understand how anyone will want me to change. Who I was had taken me so many years to become, so why was I supposed to change just because I got married. Hmmm, that was a difficult one for me to crack. In this book, I will be sharing my journey so far, what I had to learn in the process and who I have become through my experiences.

Author : Dave Willis,Ashley Willis
Publisher : XO Publishing
Page : 128 pages
File Size : 53,9 Mb
Release : 2019-02-12
Category : Family & Relationships
ISBN : 8210379456XXX

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The Naked Marriage by Dave Willis,Ashley Willis Pdf

"Now the man and his wife were both naked, but they felt no shame." (Genesis 2:25) Imagine a marriage with complete intimacy, vulnerability, transparency and trust. Imagine a marriage rooted in faith, friendship and mutual fulfillment. Imagine a marriage with amazing sex, but where great sex is only the icing on the cake. This might all sound too good to be true, but it's actually what God designed marriage to be, and He doesn't want you settling for anything less. Having a "Naked Marriage' is about much more than just nakedness in the bedroom (although that's part of the fun). It means being naked emotionally and spiritually as well as physically. It also means undressing all the misconceptions our culture has used to cover God's original, beautiful design for marriage and rediscovering all marriage can be. You and your spouse can have a thriving, Naked Marriage with a lifetime of love and laughter together. This book will show you how. About the Authors: Dave and Ashley Willis have become some of America's most trusted teachers on marriage. Their books, blogs, videos and speaking events reach millions of couples worldwide. They are part of the team at XO Marriage and MarriageToday, which is the largest marriage-focused ministry in the USA. Dave and Ashley have four young sons and live near Dallas, TX.

Author : Mjf Books,Bonnie Maslin
Publisher : M J F Books
Page : 286 pages
File Size : 42,7 Mb
Release : 2000-06
Category : Family & Relationships
ISBN : 1567313868

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Angry Marriage by Mjf Books,Bonnie Maslin Pdf

Author : Claire Robin
Publisher : Zeronever
Page : 65 pages
File Size : 45,9 Mb
Release : 2024-05-20
Category : Family & Relationships
ISBN : 8210379456XXX

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Anger Management In Marriage by Claire Robin Pdf

Marriage is made in heaven, but not always. The reality is that marriage is hard. There are times you just want to throw your hands up and storm out. Some situations set your teeth on edge, and you find yourself seething with anger that scares you and everyone around you. You can't say no to anger. You may not want it. Sometimes you don't even know what causes it. But the anger comes, and suddenly you're yelling at top of your voice. And it's not like you haven't tried to tone it down —you have tried so many times to figure out what works when it comes to controlling your emotions, but you are yet to get your answer because how else would you explain why you are reading this? In this book, you will learn so many anger management tips. You will learn that sometimes your anger isn't always because of the numerous grudges and resentment you bottle up. It is not always because of a lack of love or family support. This book will teach you how to say no to anger and how to manage it effectively in your marriage. It will teach you; ● How to benefit from anger explosions. ● Ways to tame your temper. ● Methods of channeling your spouse’s anger toward positive change ● Benefiting from anger ●Taking control of spouse’s anger outbursts Additionally, you will learn… ●How to express your anger effectively ●How to fix anger issues in a relationship ●How to control anger and irritation ●How to deal with an angry partner ●Angry spouse strategy of control When you get angry, it's always easy to settle for slamming doors and screaming matches with your better half —sometimes you find yourself throwing punches. But do you know what's even easier? The anger management strategies that can help you control your anger.

Author : Dr. Richard Fitzgibbons
Publisher : Ignatius Press
Page : 282 pages
File Size : 54,9 Mb
Release : 2019
Category : Family & Relationships
ISBN : 9781621642411

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Habits for a Healthy Marriage by Dr. Richard Fitzgibbons Pdf

Drawing on his experience of forty years as a psychiatrist, Dr. Richard Fitzgibbons presents twelve habits that can foster healing and growth in Catholic marriages. This books helps couples to identify and resolve the major emotional conflicts that weaken their relationships and hurt their marriages. Habits for a Healthy Marriage is unique because it draws on the field of positive psychology, which focuses on growth in virtues. Each chapter names a common marital problem along with a particular virtue that can help couples to overcome that problem. It shows that the road to healing is paved with forgiveness, not only between spouses but also within their families of origin. Along the way the author incorporates the luminous writing of Saint John Paul II on marriage and the timeless wisdom of the Catholic Church. Whether you are newly engaged, recently married, or married for many years, the conflict-resolving strategies described in this book—the habits of a healthy marriage—can help you to protect your relationship from the emotional storms that often lead to quarrelling and mistrust, and sometimes to separation and divorce.

Author : Troy Alfeo
Publisher : Page Publishing Inc
Page : 145 pages
File Size : 44,7 Mb
Release : 2023-09-07
Category : Family & Relationships
ISBN : 9798887936567

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An Angry Man's Guide to Personal Loss and Acceptance by Troy Alfeo Pdf

Don't be angry all the time! Sage advice for an Angry Man. Has uncontrollable rage driven away your children, led to your divorce, and left you alone, filled with remorse? Do you wonder if you will ever cope with your explosive rage, get through your pain, lead a physically healthy, emotionally positive, spiritual life? Like many middle-aged men who experienced alienation from their children or bitter divorce, Troy Alfeo shows that his personal tragedies could have been avoided if he had seen the patterns of his explosive rage and uncontrollable anger beforehand. He shows how years of such behavior eventually left him totally isolated, alone, and cut off from the ones he loved. He speaks frankly about the violence that he visited upon his loved ones and friends. This a book about anger so destructive that those he loved were forced to stay away from him out of fear. It is also a story about redemption and the attempts to repair these broken relationships. The author provides a road map back to normalcy, some cognitive behavioral therapy, as well as a number of positive steps you can incorporate in your life right now that will help you come to terms with your own inner Angry Man. The author recognizes the damage one's angry behavior causes to relationships and that it may not be repairable. The author maintains there are tools for dealing with this specific challenge, too, especially estrangement from one's own children. He provides practical, concise guidance on how to deal with this particular problem and notes that if you have suffered from it, the most difficult part of your journey back to normalcy may be that you might not ever see or hear from your children ever again. The author posits, "What are you going to do when that happens?" Troy Alfeo provides a solution that works for him. The author freely admits that although he is still a very Angry Man by temperament, it is now a beast under his control, not controlling him. He has successfully started on the road to anger management and has slowly begun to rekindle lost relationships with his estranged children. Succinct and to the point, Troy Alfeo discusses the following topics: Life has no "do-overs." If you have screwed up your family relationships, you are stuck with it. Own it and embrace it. Your life will be better for it. Angry emotions make you stupid. Don't believe it? Read what happened to Troy Alfeo when he interacted with his children under a dark cloud of rage. Your anger will alienate you from everyone. Put simply, people will not want to be around you, and they may even eventually come around to hate you. You might even get fired from your job. That happened to Troy Alfeo too. Did you even love your wife? No? Is that why you were angry? When did the emotional distance between you and your spouse begin? Do you know? Do your children hate you now? How do you fix and change that? Why divorce is the worst thing that could ever happen to your children. So avoid it! Coping strategies, to include developing a life of meaning and finding love again. Solutions for today that you wished you had known about yesterday. 118

Author : Gina Frangello
Publisher : Catapult
Page : 337 pages
File Size : 51,8 Mb
Release : 2022-04-12
Category : Biography & Autobiography
ISBN : 9781640095250

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Blow Your House Down by Gina Frangello Pdf

A Good Morning America Recommended Book • A BuzzFeed Most Anticipated Book of the Year • A Lit Hub Most Anticipated Book of the Year • A Rumpus Most Anticipated Book of the Year • A Bustle Most Anticipated Book of the Month "A pathbreaking feminist manifesto, impossible to put down or dismiss. Gina Frangello tells the morally complex story of her adulterous relationship with a lover and her shortcomings as a mother, and in doing so, highlights the forces that shaped, silenced, and shamed her: everyday misogyny, puritanical expectations regarding female sexuality and maternal sacrifice, and male oppression." —Adrienne Brodeur, author of Wild Game Gina Frangello spent her early adulthood trying to outrun a youth marked by poverty and violence. Now a long-married wife and devoted mother, the better life she carefully built is emotionally upended by the death of her closest friend. Soon, awakened to fault lines in her troubled marriage, Frangello is caught up in a recklessly passionate affair, leading a double life while continuing to project the image of the perfect family. When her secrets are finally uncovered, both her home and her identity will implode, testing the limits of desire, responsibility, love, and forgiveness. Blow Your House Down is a powerful testimony about the ways our culture seeks to cage women in traditional narratives of self-sacrifice and erasure. Frangello uses her personal story to examine the place of women in contemporary society: the violence they experience, the rage they suppress, the ways their bodies often reveal what they cannot say aloud, and finally, what it means to transgress "being good" in order to reclaim your own life.

Author : Gary J. PhD Oliver,H. Norman DMin Wright
Publisher : Revell
Page : 288 pages
File Size : 54,8 Mb
Release : 2018-10-16
Category : Religion
ISBN : 9781493416196

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It's Okay to Be Angry by Gary J. PhD Oliver,H. Norman DMin Wright Pdf

Did you know that it is okay to get angry? In fact, anger is a proper and godly response to some of the challenges we face. While the Bible admonishes believers to be longsuffering, it also shows how anger can be a vital tool in God's hands for bringing about needed change. Written specifically for women and counselors, this insightful and practical book corrects the popular notion that good Christian women should never get angry--not for any reason, not at anyone, not ever. Foreword by Lisa Bevere.

Author : Jennifer Smith
Publisher : NavPress
Page : 257 pages
File Size : 40,6 Mb
Release : 2015-03-03
Category : Religion
ISBN : 9781496403926

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The Unveiled Wife by Jennifer Smith Pdf

As a young bride, Jennifer Smith couldn’t wait to build her life with the man she adored. She dreamed of closeness, of being fully known and loved by her husband. But the first years of marriage were nothing like she’d imagined. Instead, they were marked by disappointment and pain. Trapped by fear and insecurity, and feeling totally alone, Jennifer cried out to God: What am I doing wrong? Why is this happening to us? It was as if a veil had descended between her and her husband, and between her and God—one that kept her from experiencing the fullness of love. How did Jennifer and her husband survive the painful times? What did they do when they were tempted to call it quits? How did God miraculously step in during the darkest hour to rescue and redeem them, tearing down the veil once and for all? The Unveiled Wife is a real-life love story; one couple’s refreshingly raw, transparent journey touching the deep places in a marriage that only God can reach. If you are feeling disappointment or even despair about your marriage, the heart-cry of this book is: You are not alone. Discover through Jennifer’s story how God can bring you through it all to a place of transformation.

Author : W. Robert Nay
Publisher : Guilford Press
Page : 273 pages
File Size : 54,7 Mb
Release : 2010-04-22
Category : Psychology
ISBN : 9781606236437

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Overcoming Anger in Your Relationship by W. Robert Nay Pdf

Has your relationship become a battlefield? Does your partner's sarcasm, irritability, or hostility make you wonder where the closeness and trust have gone—and how much more you can take? If anger is poisoning your relationship, this book offers a powerful antidote. Anger expert W. Robert Nay provides clear-cut, practical techniques for responding productively to inappropriate expressions of anger. Learn how anger gains a foothold in a couple's life, why your usual responses may unwittingly reward bad behavior, and how to stand up for yourself in ways that promote lasting change. Self-quizzes and step-by-step suggestions for dealing with different types of angry behavior are illustrated with true-to-life examples. Grounded in psychological science, the strategies in this book are simple yet surprisingly effective. Try them for yourself—and for the person you love. See also Dr. Nay's Taking Charge of Anger, Second Edition, which helps you understand and manage destructive anger in all its forms, and The Anger Management Workbook: Use the STOP Method to Replace Destructive Responses with Constructive Behavior, which builds core anger management skills using interactive exercises.

Author : Willard F. Jr. Harley
Publisher : Revell
Page : 256 pages
File Size : 40,8 Mb
Release : 2001-09
Category : Family & Relationships
ISBN : 9780800717933

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Fall in Love, Stay in Love by Willard F. Jr. Harley Pdf

Bestselling author and marriage expert offers a practical guide to the tools and habits couples need to enjoy a passionate, life-long love together.

Author : Amber Lia,Guy Lia
Publisher : Howard Books
Page : 256 pages
File Size : 41,9 Mb
Release : 2020-01-28
Category : Religion
ISBN : 9781982127916

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Marriage Triggers by Amber Lia,Guy Lia Pdf

Foreword by Dave and Ashley Willis, authors of The Naked Marriage and hosts of The Naked Marriage Podcast A husband-wife team offers practical advice for married couples to end the cycle of reactionary arguments by examining the most common issues that trigger disagreements and applying God’s Word to radically transform relationships. Many couples know their marriage has room for improvement, but it is hard to pinpoint exactly why a relationship is suffering. Often times everyday triggers are the culprit. If you are wondering how to break out of the cycle of reactionary outbursts, cold shoulders, resentment, and pain that harms your relationship, you are not alone. Experiencing peace and joy rather than anger and frustration is not as hard as you think! Marriage Triggers walks you through thirty-one of the most common marital issues that sabotage great relationships, like poor communication, lack of spiritual leadership, busy schedules, and different parenting styles. Married for fourteen years, authors Amber and Guy Lia are your typical couple and they share tips for countering negative reactions to triggers with gentle, biblical responses. Rather than run from the things that cause conflict, Amber and Guy believe these triggers are opportunities for growth, both individually and as a couple. They challenge you to let Marriage Triggers renew your commitment to responding gently and biblically towards your partner.

Author : Susan C. Cloninger,Steven A. Leibo
Publisher : Bloomsbury Publishing USA
Page : 429 pages
File Size : 55,8 Mb
Release : 2017-01-23
Category : Social Science
ISBN : 9798216159131

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Understanding Angry Groups by Susan C. Cloninger,Steven A. Leibo Pdf

This book examines the dynamics that lead to anger in individuals, within groups, and between groups; identifies the role of the media in angry group behavior; and offers solutions for dealing with angry groups and channeling that negative energy in positive ways. In today's society, we see angry groups in many forms—from animal rights and climate crisis activists to citizens opposed to allowing more immigrants of certain ethnicities or religions into the country, militia groups frustrated by acts of domestic terrorism and legislation that limits gun ownership and the ability to carry weapons in public, and those outraged by what they see as police brutality or the unnecessary use of deadly force against people of color. More than just evidence of civil unrest in society, angry groups across history and nations often ultimately affect our politics and our government, for better or worse, and sometimes result in injury, bloodshed, or financial costs that hit otherwise-uninvolved taxpayers. This book demonstrates how people across our nation are involved in, affected by, or harmed by angry groups; covers historical and modern perspectives on angry groups; ands offers suggestions for predicting and influencing the expression of angry group behavior. It provides readers with an understanding of such conflicts and of their origins and dynamics that may offer insights to successful resolution, and it identifies strategies that can reduce the suffering that comes from such conflicts.

Author : T.W. McCartie
Publisher : Christian Faith Publishing, Inc.
Page : 69 pages
File Size : 47,9 Mb
Release : 2023-02-09
Category : Self-Help
ISBN : 9781098053024

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The Angry Kid from Nowhere by T.W. McCartie Pdf

Have you ever suffered from abuse and addiction and asked God, Why me? That was where I was after my thirty-two years of abuse, addiction, loss, and sadness. A stay in Jail had me wondering, Why me, God? and, How do I turn all this around? His answer, through my loving wife, was to put my life into this book and in writing to help you. I found healing for myself. The Angry Kid From Nowhere will:Prove to you that you are not alone with whatever you are going through.Challenge you to grow if you have suffered in similar situations.Show you that your past does not define who you are.Remind you that God is a God that loves you and wants you to live your best life through faith and scripture.If you read this book, in conjunction with prayer and scripture, and allow God to speak to you through my life, it will change your perception of your life, your past, your pain, and ultimately lead to healing that only God can provide.

Author : David Mace
Publisher : Unknown
Page : 148 pages
File Size : 45,6 Mb
Release : 1984
Category : Family & Relationships
ISBN : 0310452910

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Love and Anger in Marriage by David Mace Pdf