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Author : Douglas K. Snyder,Donald H. Baucom,Kristina Coop Gordon
Publisher : Guilford Press
Page : 353 pages
File Size : 52,5 Mb
Release : 2007-01-06
Category : Psychology
ISBN : 9781606237991
This book has been replaced by Getting Past the Affair, Second Edition, ISBN 978-1-4625-4748-7.
Author : John Gottman,Nan Silver
Publisher : Simon and Schuster
Page : 304 pages
File Size : 50,7 Mb
Release : 2013-09-10
Category : FAMILY & RELATIONSHIPS
ISBN : 9781451608489
"One of the foremost relationship experts at work today applies the insights of science toward understanding the real meaning of trust between a couple. He decodes the "why" behind betrayal and shows how partners can avoid or recover from unfaithfulness and maintain a loving relationship.Dr. John Gottman, the country's pre-eminent researcher on marriage, is famous for his Love Lab at the University of Washington in Seattle where he deciphers the mysteries of human relationships through scientific research. His thirty-five years of exploration have earned him numerous major awards, including from the National Institute of Mental Health, the American Psychological Association, and the American Association for Marriage and Family Therapy. Now, Dr. Gottman offers surprising findings and advice on the characteristic that is at the heart of all relationships: Trust. Dr. Gottman has developed a formula that precisely calculates any couple's loyalty level. The results determine a relationship's likely future, including the potential for one or both partners to stray. A Love You Can Trust shows couples how to bolster their trust level and avoid what Dr. Gottman calls the "Roach Motel for Lovers." He describes how the outcome of--"sliding door moments," small pivotal points between a couple, can lead either to more emotional connection or to discontent. He suggests a new approach to handling adultery and reveals the varied and unexpected non-sexual ways that couples often betray each other. A Love You Can Trust guides couples through an empirically tested, trust-building program that will let them repair and maintain a long-term, intimate, and romantic relationship"--
Author : Tim Tedder
Publisher : Unknown
Page : 128 pages
File Size : 42,9 Mb
Release : 2017-02-06
Category : Electronic
ISBN : 0997801883
Author : Shirley Glass
Publisher : Simon and Schuster
Page : 450 pages
File Size : 42,9 Mb
Release : 2007-11-01
Category : Family & Relationships
ISBN : 9781416586401
One of the world’s leading experts on infidelity provides a step-by-step guide through the process of infidelity—from suspicion and revelation to healing, and provides profound, practical guidance to prevent infidelity and, if it happens, recover and heal from it. You’re right to be cautious when you hear these words: “I’m telling you, we’re just friends.” Good people in good marriages are having affairs. The workplace and the Internet have become fertile breeding grounds for “friendships” that can slowly and insidiously turn into love affairs. Yet you can protect your relationship from emotional or sexual betrayal by recognizing the red flags that mark the stages of slipping into an improper, dangerous intimacy that can threaten your marriage.
Author : Lee Raffel
Publisher : McGraw Hill Professional
Page : 312 pages
File Size : 45,5 Mb
Release : 1999
Category : Divorce counseling
ISBN : 0809229978
Until now, couples facing the dilemma of deciding whether or not to stay in an unhappy marriage had three options: individual or couples therapy, separation, or divorce. Should I Stay or Go? provides these couples with a fourth option--the Controlled Separation (CS). CS is a compassionate process that is designed to build respect and foster advocacy between spouses. The book explains the CS guidelines, including the 12 fundamental issues that must be resolved for a workable, orderly separation. It also contains sample contracts, along with helpful checklists and self-assessment tools.
Author : Michele Weiner Davis
Publisher : Simon and Schuster
Page : 256 pages
File Size : 53,5 Mb
Release : 1993-02
Category : Family & Relationships
ISBN : 9780671797256
A step-by-step approach to making your marriage loving again.
Author : Anne Bercht,Brian Bercht
Publisher : FriesenPress
Page : 380 pages
File Size : 42,6 Mb
Release : 2021-01-05
Category : Religion
ISBN : 9781525575303
"When Brian told me of his affair, my whole world was shattered. Since the affair, and since the difficult recovery period, I have excelled in amazing ways in every area of my life. I look and feel better than I did when I was in my twenties. I have more energy, more zeal and more enthusiasm for life. Since I have gotten over my insecurities, I experience far better relationships with my husband, children and others. I also have more fun. No matter what tragedies happen in our lives, we always have a choice, not a choice over what will happen to us, but a choice over how we will react to it. Will we become bitter or better? I chose to become better, and now my greatest tragedy has also become my greatest personal victory." – Anne Bercht "Would I want to go back to our marriage before the affair? Not a chance! Would I have liked to have gotten to this point some other way? Absolutely! Would I recommend an affair to others so they can reach a greater love and better marriage? Absolutely not! If you have experienced an affair, is rebuilding your marriage worth it? You bet it is! As long as you love each other and are willing to do the work." – Brian Bercht
Author : Dr. Willard F. Harley, Jr.,Dr. Jennifer Harley Chalmers
Publisher : Marriage Resources International Inc
Page : 225 pages
File Size : 49,8 Mb
Release : 2024-03-27
Category : Family & Relationships
ISBN : 9798218397777
How can a marriage survive an affair? Infidelity is one of life's most painful experiences for everyone involved--the betrayed spouse, the children, the extended family members, and even the lover and the wayward spouse. Once trust is broken, how can a couple ever hope to reconcile? In Surviving an Affair, Drs. Harley and Chalmers help you understand every aspect of infidelity--from the beginning of an affair through the restoration of the marriage. They describe: - why affairs begin and end - how to end an affair - how to restore the marriage - how to manage resentment and rebuild trust Surviving an Affair guides you step-by-step from the devastating blow of infidelity to a loving and trusting marriage. All questionnaires mentioned within this book are available in a fillable pdf format from the authors' websites identified on the last page.
Author : Margaret Rutherford
Publisher : Margaret Rutherford
Page : 128 pages
File Size : 51,8 Mb
Release : 2018-11-18
Category : Family & Relationships
ISBN : 9780578424965
When Dr. Margaret sat down to write about her almost 24 year-old marriage, what emerged was the same number of feisty and honest thoughts about what marriage is, and what it definitely is not. Now accompanied by evocative images from around the world by photographers Deborah Strauss and Christine Mathias, her words bring a knowing smile, a nod of the head, and a recognition of hard-earned truth. This slim volume packs a punch and is a perfect gift to honor those who’ve loved each other for years, to guide those who’ve only recently considered commitment…or to keep for yourself. Keywords: Dr. Margaret Rutherford, humor and love marrige books, advice books for newly married couples, marriage books for couples, great gift books for weddings
Author : Janis A. Spring
Publisher : Harper Collins
Page : 306 pages
File Size : 49,7 Mb
Release : 1997-02-14
Category : Psychology
ISBN : 9780060928179
For the 70 percent of couples who have been affected by extramarital affairs, this is the only book to offer proven strategies for surviving the crisis and rebuilding the relationship –– written by a nationally known therapist considered an expert on infidelity. When I was 15, I was raped. That was nothing compared to your affair. The rapist was a stranger; you, I thought, were my best friend. There is nothing quite like the pain and shock caused when a partner has been unfaithful. The hurt partner often experiences a profound loss of self–respect and falls into a depression that can last for years. For the relationship, infidelity is often a death blow. After the Affair is the first book to help readers survive this crisis. Written by a clinical psychologist who has been treating distressed couples for 22 years, it guides both hurt and unfaithful partners through the three stages of healing: Normalizing feelings, deciding whether to recommit and revitalizing the relationship. It provides proven, practical advice to help the couple change their behavior toward each other, cultivate trust and forgiveness and build a healthier, more conscious intimate partnership.
Author : Tracy Schorn
Publisher : Running Press Adult
Page : 240 pages
File Size : 53,6 Mb
Release : 2016-05-10
Category : Family & Relationships
ISBN : 9780762459056
Leave a Cheater, Gain a Life is a no-nonsense self-help guide for anyone who has ever been cheated on. Here's advice not based on saving your relationship after infidelity—but saving your sanity. When it comes to cheating, a lot of the attention is focused on cheaters—their unmet needs or their challenges with monogamy. But Tracy Schorn (aka Chump Lady) lampoons such blameshifting and puts the focus squarely on the-cheated-upon (chumps) and their needs. Combining solid advice that champions self-respect, along with hilarious cartoons satirizing the pomposity of cheaters, Leave a Cheater, Gain a Life offers a fresh voice for chumps who want (and need) a new message about infidelity. This book will offer advice on Stupid sh*t cheaters say and how to respond, Rookie mistakes of the recently chumped and how to disarm your fears, Why chumps take the blame and how to protect yourself, and more. Full of snark, sass, and real wisdom about how to bounce back after the gut blow of betrayal, Schorn is the friend who guides you through this nightmare and gives you hope for a better life ahead.
Author : Steven Solomon,Lorie Teagno
Publisher : New Harbinger Publications
Page : 199 pages
File Size : 44,8 Mb
Release : 2006-11-01
Category : Family & Relationships
ISBN : 9781608829682
A Guide to Rebuilding Trust and Intimacy It's devastating to discover that the person you trust the most has betrayed you. You'll be facing some hard questions after learning of your partner's infidelity. You may choose to rebuild your relationship, or you may decide to move on. Whatever the right decision is for you, this book will help you figure out why your partner betrayed you and decide whether you can remain in your relationship. It will also show you new ways to relate that can help you and your partner become a lasting, loving, and committed couple. You'll start by taking a look at the phenomenon of infidelity and the three types of intimacy: self-intimacy, conflict intimacy, and affection intimacy. Then you'll learn about the three kinds of infidelity—those of fear, of loneliness, and of anger—and what each reveals about your relationship. Then it's on to practical exercises that can heal emotional wounds and enable you to recover your ability to trust. Even if you decide not to remain with your current partner, the book will help you make wise relationship choices to "affair-proof" your future relationship.
Author : Esther Perel
Publisher : HarperCollins
Page : 321 pages
File Size : 44,7 Mb
Release : 2017-10-10
Category : Psychology
ISBN : 9780062322609
"A fresh look at infidelity, broadening the focus from the havoc it wreaks within a committed relationship to consider also why people do it, what it means to them, and why breaking up is the expected response to duplicity — but not necessarily the wisest one.” — LA Review of Books From iconic couples’ therapist and bestselling author of Mating in Captivity comes a provocative and controversial look at infidelity with practical, honest, and empathetic advice for how to move beyond it. An affair: it can rob a couple of their relationship, their happiness, their very identity. And yet, this extremely common human experience is so poorly understood. What are we to make of this time-honored taboo—universally forbidden yet universally practiced? Why do people cheat—even those in happy marriages? Why does an affair hurt so much? When we say infidelity, what exactly do we mean? Do our romantic expectations of marriage set us up for betrayal? Is there such a thing as an affair-proof marriage? Is it possible to love more than one person at once? Can an affair ever help a marriage? Perel weaves real-life case stories with incisive psychological and cultural analysis in this fast-paced and compelling book. For the past ten years, Perel has traveled the globe and worked with hundreds of couples who have grappled with infidelity. Betrayal hurts, she writes, but it can be healed. An affair can even be the doorway to a new marriage—with the same person. With the right approach, couples can grow and learn from these tumultuous experiences, together or apart. Affairs, she argues, have a lot to teach us about modern relationships—what we expect, what we think we want, and what we feel entitled to. They offer a unique window into our personal and cultural attitudes about love, lust, and commitment. Through examining illicit love from multiple angles, Perel invites readers into an honest, enlightened, and entertaining exploration of modern marriage in its many variations. Fiercely intelligent, The State of Affairs provides a daring framework for understanding the intricacies of love and desire. As Perel observes, “Love is messy; infidelity more so. But it is also a window, like no other, into the crevices of the human heart.”
Author : Barbara Giovanini
Publisher : Unknown
Page : 34 pages
File Size : 51,6 Mb
Release : 2014-12-13
Category : Electronic
ISBN : 1978199228
The fact that you're reading this means you're going through one of the most difficult and hurtful situations imaginable - your partner cheated on you. You're experiencing acute pain and don't know where to look for help. After being cheated on, it can feel like you have lost a big piece of your heart. Your partner has introduced devastating trust issues into your relationship, without your consent, and it feels like you can't afford to let your heart be compromised again. But wait. This book is designed to be your support and guide through this devastating, challenging, and emotional situation. Despite the norm of today's society, it isn't always prudent to throw something away just because it's broken. With a little effort, your relationship can be mended and also strengthened to a point unimaginable even before the affair.
Author : Rebekah Clarke
Publisher : Rebekah Clarke Books
Page : 54 pages
File Size : 44,7 Mb
Release : 2021-03-18
Category : Family & Relationships
ISBN : 8210379456XXX
The pain of being cheated on is an emotional trauma that's incredibly difficult to endure, let alone heal from. The shattering realisation that your partner has strayed and given themselves to another is heartbreaking. You think your life is over, you doubt you'll ever be happy again and you just want things to go back to how they were before. Perhaps you wish you could go back in time and do something - anything - to stop the affair ever taking place. Maybe you're praying that you'll wake up one day and this is all one big horrible nightmare. The dark, painful feelings that we have to endure after discovering we've been cheated on are some of the worst days we'll ever have to make it through. I know what you're going through because I've also suffered the heartbreak of infidelity - but I also know what it feels like to come out of the other side. From suffering a breakdown and neglecting myself and those around me to now thriving and able to trust again, I know you can bounce back from this traumatic time. This book won't offer judgement - I'm not here to tell you to leave the relationship nor am I an advocate for you to stay - but it will offer you the tools you need to heal. I'll offer you my thoughts and advice based on my experiences, and I'll give you a little glimpse of the pain I endured, too. Throughout this book, I'll cover the following: • Why did your spouse cheat? • The nasty effects a cheating spouse has on us. • Coping strategies after discovering the infidelity. • Building up your sense of worth. • A non-judgemental commentary about the "should I leave the relationship or not" question you may be pondering. • How to trust a new partner. This book began as a little project for a website I was writing for, but as time went on I decided it served best as a series of books. I read a ton of books when recovering from the heartache of being cheated on, and to offer that same kind of comfort and actionable advice to someone who's in the same position as I was is amazing to me. I hope this book series serves its purpose - to help you heal and to inspire you to know your worth.