When Perfect Isn T Good Enough

Author : Martin M. Antony,Richard P. Swinson
Publisher : New Harbinger Publications
Page : 304 pages
File Size : 45,5 Mb
Release : 2009-02-01
Category : Self-Help
ISBN : 9781608823642

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When Perfect Isn't Good Enough by Martin M. Antony,Richard P. Swinson Pdf

It's only natural to want to avoid making mistakes, but imperfection is a part of being human. And while perfectionists are often praised for their abilities, being constantly anxious about details can hold you back and keep you from reaching your full potential. In this fully revised and updated second edition of When Perfect Isn't Good Enough, you'll discover the root cause of your perfectionism, explore the impact of perfectionism on your life, and find new, proven-effective coping skills to help you overcome your anxiety about making mistakes. This guide also includes tips for dealing with other perfectionists and discussions about how perfectionism is linked to worry, depression, anger, social anxiety, and body image. As you complete the exercises in this book, you'll find it easier and easier to keep worries at bay and enjoy life — imperfections and all. This book has been awarded The Association for Behavioral and Cognitive Therapies Self-Help Seal of Merit — an award bestowed on outstanding self-help books that are consistent with cognitive behavioral therapy (CBT) principles and that incorporate scientifically tested strategies for overcoming mental health difficulties. Used alone or in conjunction with therapy, our books offer powerful tools readers can use to jump-start changes in their lives.

Author : Martin M. Antony,Richard P. Swinson
Publisher : New Harbinger Publications
Page : 306 pages
File Size : 46,6 Mb
Release : 2009
Category : Psychology
ISBN : 9781572245594

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When Perfect Isn't Good Enough by Martin M. Antony,Richard P. Swinson Pdf

This revised and updated edition of When Perfect Isn't Good Enough offers the benefits of the latest research to readers who dread making mistakes and feel that nothing they do is quite good enough.

Author : Thomas S. Greenspon
Publisher : Free Spirit Publishing
Page : 145 pages
File Size : 48,5 Mb
Release : 2007-03-15
Category : Juvenile Nonfiction
ISBN : 9781575428796

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What to Do When Good Enough Isn't Good Enough by Thomas S. Greenspon Pdf

Perfectionism may seem like a worthy goal, but it’s actually a burden. When you believe you must be perfect, you live in constant fear of making mistakes. Most children don’t know what perfectionism is, yet many suffer from it. Nothing they do is ever good enough. School assignments are hard to start or hand in. Relationships are challenging, and self-esteem is low. Written to and for ages 9–13, this book helps kids understand how perfectionism hurts them and how to free themselves. Includes true-to-life vignettes, exercises, and a note to grown-ups.

Author : Becky Beaupre Gillespie,Hollee Schwartz Temple
Publisher : Harlequin
Page : 288 pages
File Size : 41,6 Mb
Release : 2011-05-01
Category : Family & Relationships
ISBN : 9781459201651

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Good Enough Is the New Perfect by Becky Beaupre Gillespie,Hollee Schwartz Temple Pdf

In this updated 10th anniversary edition of Gillespie and Temple’s groundbreaking research, Good Enough Is the New Perfect shows that modern mothers really can have it all. The pressure on women is real. We dominate in our jobs while simultaneously juggling the needs of our families and our homes. But what about our own needs? With so many balls in the air, finding balance is harder than ever. The truth is that you can have it all. The secret is creating an “all” that you love. Through their extensive research, Becky Beaupre Gillespie and Hollee Schwartz Temple have discovered a paradigm shift in motherhood: more and more mothers are losing their “never enough” attitude and embracing a “good enough” mindset to be happier, more confident and more fulfilled. With inspiring firsthand accounts from working mothers, Good Enough Is the New Perfect is a true roadmap for the incredible balancing act we call motherhood and getting what you really want out of your career, your family and your life. “Most moms I know don’t even want it all. We just want less stress and enough time. But how can we achieve it? [Good Enough Is the New Perfect] sheds light on this question.” —The Washington Post

Author : Monica Ramirez Basco
Publisher : Simon and Schuster
Page : 292 pages
File Size : 52,9 Mb
Release : 2000-03-02
Category : Psychology
ISBN : 9780684862934

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Never Good Enough by Monica Ramirez Basco Pdf

This practical guide to overcoming the dangers of being a perfectionist--from debilitating feelings of self-doubt to difficulties with other people--shows readers how their perfectionist tendencies can actually help them succeed.

Author : Jeannette Dewyze,Allan Mallinger
Publisher : Ballantine Books
Page : 224 pages
File Size : 43,7 Mb
Release : 2011-06-29
Category : Self-Help
ISBN : 9780307798626

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Too Perfect by Jeannette Dewyze,Allan Mallinger Pdf

For many of us, perfectionism can bring life's most desired rewards. But when the obsessive need for perfection and control gets in the way of our professional and emotional lives, the cost becomes too high. Although many of us appear cool and confident on the outside, inside we are in emotional turmoil, trying to satisfy everyone, attempting to direct the future, and feeling that we are failing. In TOO PERFECT, Dr. Allan Mallinger draws on twenty years of research and observations from his private practice to show how perfectionism can sap energy, complicate even the simplest decisions, and take the enjoyment out of life. For workaholics or neat freaks, for anyone who fears change or making mistakes, needs rigid rules, is excessively frugal or obstinate, TOO PERFECT offers revealing self-tests, fascinating case histories, and practical strategies to help us overcome obsessiveness and reclaim our right to happiness.

Author : Pavel G Somov
Publisher : New Harbinger Publications
Page : 208 pages
File Size : 42,5 Mb
Release : 2010-06-03
Category : Self-Help
ISBN : 1608820459

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Present Perfect by Pavel G Somov Pdf

A revolutionary approach to overcoming perfectionism! A recent, randomized study—published by Mindfulness Journal—shows that Present Perfect is effective as a standalone intervention. The study found that those who had read the book experienced a statistically significant reduction of self-criticalness, a result that was still maintained at a six weeks follow-up (Wimberley, Mintz, & Suh, Mindfulness, Nov. 2015). While there's no doubt that setting high standards for yourself is a good thing, you've probably already noticed that perfectionism can come at a high price. And when you take steps to try to change, it's easy to be too hard on yourself and fall into the same traps that keep you feeling stressed and disappointed. This book presents a revolutionary approach to overcoming perfectionism—a way to transform your need for precision into self-acceptance, compassion, and love for each perfectly imperfect passing moment in our lives. In Present Perfect, you'll use the Buddhist psychology of mindfulness to learn to accept the present moment in all of its ordinary perfection. This book is filled with over 150 exercises and meditations that you can practice to become more flexible toward yourself and others without losing your love of a job well done. With this compassionate approach, you'll soon be able not only to accept life as it is, but also become more accepting and forgiving of yourself and others.

Author : Andy Stanley
Publisher : Multnomah
Page : 98 pages
File Size : 51,8 Mb
Release : 2008-08-19
Category : Religion
ISBN : 9781601422156

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How Good Is Good Enough? by Andy Stanley Pdf

Surely there's more than one way to get to heaven? Bestselling author Andy Stanley addresses this popular belief held even among Christians. But believing that all good people go to heaven raises major problems, Stanley reveals. Is goodness not rewarded, then? Is Christianity not fair? Maybe not, he says. Readers will find out why Jesus taught that goodness is not even a requirement to enter heaven - and why Christianity is beyond fair. Andy Stanley leads believers and skeptics alike to a grateful awareness of God's enormous grace and mercy. Good People Go to Heaven...Don’t They? Sure they do. It only makes sense. Actually, it doesn’t really make any sense at all. Smart, educated, accomplished men and women everywhere are banking their eternities on a theory that doesn’t hold water. Chances are, you’ve never really thought it through. But you owe it to yourself to do so. Find out now what’s wrong with the most popular theory about heaven—and what it really takes to get there.

Author : Roz Shafran,Sarah Egan,Tracey Wade
Publisher : Robinson
Page : 448 pages
File Size : 48,7 Mb
Release : 2018-05-10
Category : Psychology
ISBN : 9781472140555

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Overcoming Perfectionism by Roz Shafran,Sarah Egan,Tracey Wade Pdf

How to break the circle of 'never good enough' Striving for something can be a healthy and positive attribute; it's good to aim high. But sometimes whatever we do just isn't good enough; we want to be too perfect and start setting unrealistic goals. Such high levels of perfectionism, often driven by low self-esteem, can turn against success and develop into unhealthy obsession, triggering serious mental-health problems, such as anxiety, depression and eating disorders. Cognitive behavioural therapy (CBT), on which this self-help book is based, has been found to be a highly effective treatment and provides relief from that disabling sense of not being good enough. In this essential self-help guide, you will learn: - How clinical perfectionism manifests itself - Effective coping strategies with invaluable guidance on how to avoid future relapse OVERCOMING self-help guides use clinically-proven techniques to treat long-standing and disabling conditions, both psychological and physical. Many guides in the Overcoming series are recommended under the Reading Well Books on Prescription scheme. Series Editor: Professor Peter Cooper

Author : Kate Bowler,Jessica Richie
Publisher : Convergent Books
Page : 273 pages
File Size : 53,8 Mb
Release : 2022-02-15
Category : Religion
ISBN : 9780593193686

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Good Enough by Kate Bowler,Jessica Richie Pdf

NEW YORK TIMES BESTSELLER • A compassionate, intelligent, and wry series of Christian daily reflections on learning to live with imperfection in a culture of self-help that promotes endless progress, from the author of Everything Happens for a Reason and the executive producer of the Everything Happens podcast “Brilliant, hilarious, absurd, honest, hopeful, true-hearted, and good to the core.”—Sarah Bessey, editor of A Rhythm of Prayer and author of Jesus Feminist In Kate Bowler’s bestselling memoir Everything Happens for a Reason, readers witnessed the ways she, as a divinity-school professor and young mother, reckoned with a Stage IV cancer diagnosis; in her follow-up memoir, No Cure for Being Human, she unflinchingly and winsomely unpacked the ways that life becomes both hard and beautiful when we abandon certainty and the illusion of control in our lives. Now, in their first-ever devotional book, Kate Bowler and co-author Jessica Richie offer 40ish short spiritual reflections on how we can make sense of life not as a pursuit of endless progress but as a chronic condition. This book is a companion for when you want to stop feeling guilty that you’re not living your best life now. Written gently and with humor, Good Enough is permission for all those who need to hear that there are some things you can fix—and some things you can’t. And it’s okay that life isn’t always better. In these gorgeously written reflections, Bowler and Richie offer fresh imagination for how truth, beauty, and meaning can be discovered amid the chaos of life. Their words celebrate kindness, honesty, and interdependence in a culture that rewards ruthless individualism and blind optimism. Ultimately, in these pages we can rest in the encouragement to strive for what is possible today—while recognizing that though we are finite, the life in front of us can be beautiful.

Author : Sarah J. Egan,Tracey D. Wade,Roz Shafran,Martin M. Antony
Publisher : Guilford Publications
Page : 416 pages
File Size : 45,6 Mb
Release : 2014-08-13
Category : Psychology
ISBN : 9781462516988

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Cognitive-Behavioral Treatment of Perfectionism by Sarah J. Egan,Tracey D. Wade,Roz Shafran,Martin M. Antony Pdf

This practical resource provides an evidence-based framework for treating clients struggling with perfectionism, whether as the main presenting problem or in conjunction with depression, eating disorders, anxiety disorders, or obsessive-compulsive disorder. Using a case formulation approach, the authors draw on their extensive cognitive-behavioral therapy (CBT) experience to present specific techniques and interventions. Coverage spans treatment planning, the therapeutic alliance, key obstacles that may arise, relapse prevention, and emerging research. Reproducible assessment scales and 36 patient handouts are included; purchasers get access to a Web page where they can download and print the reproducible materials in a convenient 8 1/2" x 11" size.

Author : Kevin Leman
Publisher : Unknown
Page : 0 pages
File Size : 48,5 Mb
Release : 1988
Category : Interpersonal relations
ISBN : LCCN:00001912

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Measuring Up by Kevin Leman Pdf

Author : Laura Nowlin
Publisher : Sourcebooks, Inc.
Page : 336 pages
File Size : 40,8 Mb
Release : 2013-04-02
Category : Juvenile Fiction
ISBN : 9781402277849

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If He Had Been with Me by Laura Nowlin Pdf

If he had been with me everything would have been different... I wasn't with Finn on that August night. But I should've been. It was raining, of course. And he and Sylvie were arguing as he drove down the slick road. No one ever says what they were arguing about. Other people think it's not important. They do not know there is another story. The story that lurks between the facts. What they do not know—the cause of the argument—is crucial. So let me tell you...

Author : Joachim Stoeber
Publisher : Routledge
Page : 418 pages
File Size : 43,9 Mb
Release : 2017-08-22
Category : Psychology
ISBN : 9781315536231

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The Psychology of Perfectionism by Joachim Stoeber Pdf

This milestone text provides a comprehensive and state-of-the art overview of perfectionism theory, research, and treatment from the past 25 years, with contributions from the leading researchers in the field. The book examines new theories and perspectives including the social disconnection model of perfectionism and the 2 × 2 model of perfectionism. It also reviews empirical findings, with a special focus on stress, vulnerability, and resilience, and examines perfectionism in specific populations. Finally, it considers how perfectionism relates to physical health and psychophysiological processes and introduces new approaches to effective prevention and treatment. By increasing our understanding of perfectionism as a complex personality disposition and providing a framework for future explorations, this landmark publication aims to promote further research in this field. It will be invaluable reading for academics, students, and professionals in personality psychology, clinical and counseling psychology, applied psychology, and related disciplines.

Author : Miriam Adderholdt, PH.D.,Jan Goldberg
Publisher : Free Spirit Publishing
Page : 136 pages
File Size : 44,9 Mb
Release : 1992
Category : Mental health
ISBN : 1575428431

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Perfectionism by Miriam Adderholdt, PH.D.,Jan Goldberg Pdf

Discusses the dangers of being a perfectionist, with tips for easing up on oneself, gaining control over life, and getting professional help.